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[TonyTheTigerOI]

Im gonna rant about high school-age girls for a minute...

THEY ARE SO ****ING FICKLE ITS RIDICULOUS!!! Why? Because usually, youre floating on VERBAL promises. Youre relationship? HAH! It doesnt matter... because sex is PRIMAL. She will hook up with some other guy shes attracted to. She will search for ways to get rid of you and find some other, hotter guy with social proof. Untill you sleep with her. Why? Because when you have sex it trips a whole bunch of wires in a girls brain/body. Its a PHYSICAL PROMISE you make. Unless she makes that promise a lot (gets ****ed a lot) then shes going to make excuses to STAY WITH YOU. Duh.

Why do girls depend on social proof? Because they arent yet confident in their ability to judge a potential mate. They arent experienced enough and they (subconciously) know it. So they take their attaction and supliment it with a guys social proof. Thats how the ugly popular kid gets layed instead of you. Sux, eh?

Ever get a really hot girls #, and she seems interested, but then you never end up going on that all important first date? Happens to me all the time. Think of it like this:

You have 10 girls phone #s. You are a horemone driven young man, so you are most attracted to the hottest of the 10, and the least attracted to the most average looking of the 10. If they ALL walked up to you at the EXACT same time and asked you out - who would you go out with? The hottest, cuz shes highest on your attraction list.

Well women in general develop attraction in a more complicated manner, even at a HS age. They take ur looks, ur personality, and ur social proof and develop attraction. If you just meet a girl at the mall, while ur shopping alone, and talk to her for only 10 min before you get the #, even if you are REALLY GOOD LOOKING you cant make it to the top of a REALLY HOT girls list. She already has guys as good looking as you, who she has fully evaluated their personality and social proof on her list. Youve only got 1/3 the tools! So, shes already got guys from school, work, and extracorriculars that are persuing her with all the tools, you will be lucky if she makes time for you, so low on her list.

So what do you do?!

Stop being such a ****ing loser. Dont worry about how to make the approach at the mall with her jogging past you on her way to a sale on a friday evening, an hour before a date with her boyfriend. Live youre life. Do things that allow you to interact with the girls you would like to date in a fun/productive setting. Become the guy girls WANT to date, it will show in everything you do. Study. Exercise. Have fun. Make sure you have some social event to take part in mon-sat. EVERY DAY. If you dont have anything, join a club or team. During the summer, get a job, believe it or not that counts as a social circle. Go places where people hang out in communities, like beaches or parks. The girls you meet as a part of youre life will have a chance to really get to know you, (the new you with a life, and therefore social proof), and put you on the top of their list.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Girls are ****ing stupid. I was out last friday, went on a great date - I posted about it, maybe you saw. And she was all over me. Kissing, hugging, touching... she asked ME out on another date before we even said goodbye. And then she didnt call when she said she would, and didnt answer my call, and blocked me on AIM. WTF?!

Im thinking she likes me a lot, but is inexperienced, and noticed how experienced I was - got scared thinking she liked me a lot more than I liked her and abandoned ship. Too bad, cuz I liked her a lot.

It reminds me of what chelsea said... I was "perfect" too good... she couldnt find anything wrong so she got scared. Uh, yeah, thats retarted. If I found a girl that was perfect for me Id hold onto her as best I could - wouldnt you?

To be honest, I think it has to do with that physical promise I ranted about above. Since I didnt sleep with these girls they didnt have any sense of responsibility towards me - just their own fickle desires. Note to self - push for sex.

What else... oh yeah. Im coming to the realization that Im just way too good for 99.9% of girls my age. But I have no idea how to meet that .1% of girls? I find them every now and again, usually a year older than me, very attractive, look mature. I just cant figure out how to open. As good as I am, Im not good enough at sarging/cold approaches. Or maybe I should follow my own ****ing advice and get a better life? But where do super awesome girls hang out?

 

[Vincent]

If any of you flame this thread I am going to suggest you be banned for disobeying a mod and trolling.

Other then that, have a good day

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Wescot - I know Im not perfect. So I think she meant to say, "perfect for me." Either way, shes ****ing stupid. I dont want to 'show her some flaws' - whats the sense in that? If shes too unconfident in herself to accept me for who Ive been the 10 or so times weve hung out, then she can go **** herself.

Xomel - Im gonna be honest, Ive never had GREAT sex. Feels good? Eh, the best head ive had was far better than the best sex... but thats my fault, I think. I gotta quit ****ing around and get layed.

Pure Drive - I am angry. Thats why there IS a post. People are ****ing stupid. Girls are ridiculous. Im just doing my part to let the world know how silly life can be. Deal with it.

So I woke up today, weathers gorgeous, and soemthing reminded me of a girl in school that Ive had a crush on for a long time. When I first transfered to school she was enamered by me - she would walked across the school to my classes and be late for hers, she would touch me sensually, look deep in my eyes... she even TOLD people that her and I were going out. I was dating other girls at the time and wasnt too interested. A few months later it hit me - I really liked her. But she was no longer interested.

I see her in school every now and again, yelling and making a scene (shes a total AW). It pisses me off that I missed my chance, because Id really like to tame a girl like that. I know shes going to have a really fun prom night, thats just the kinda girl she is.

<raises glass - I would like to make a toast to missed opportunities - how about you guys?>

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Puredrive - if you dont like it, you can go **** yourself. Everyone else seems to see the light in my rant... I hope you enjoy the dark.

Fitch - if you read closely, I mention that women who make that promise a lot (get layed often) lose the sense of responsibility (ie, prostitutes). HOWEVER for women like this, things like holding hands, holidays together, and soft kisses trigger that physical promise. Basically - an act shared by a man and a woman that produces a strong sense of responsibility from the man towards the woman. For the VAST MAJORITY of women, this is sex. For prostitutes it could be kissing on the lips (Ive heard most do not, as it is quite personal).

I feel that generalizations aide in seduction a great deal. As long as you adapt youre actions with new/dynamic situations, walking in with a preconseption actually speeds up the process.

I DO date older girls and I DO NOT have the afformentioned problems. However, I have a very strong desire to find girls closer to my age and start relationships. I am leaving for school in four months, and I would like there to be someone to kiss me goodbye and wish me luck. Corney, but justified, in my eyes.

Oxide - GREAT POINT!!! Ill rant about this today!

So theres this girl. Hottest girl in school. Shes dating a really popular, really ugly, really stupid, moderately funny kid. She has been for FOUR YEARS. She looks like jessica simpson, just taller with dark brown hair and eyes. She wears sundresses to school wen its warm - its quite a sight. Shes really smart, all AP classes. Shes a fun person, the one time we actually talked she was full of energy. But because she doesnt have the foresight to leave him (or maybe she does and lacks the confidence necessary for independance) there is little I can do. Whaaat the ****!!!

All it would have taken to get into their social circle and date all the hottest girls in school - show up at one party. But I didnt, I was too busy with older girls, people from others schools, and life in general. I got invited to 5 parties the first two months after I transfered ot this school. Didnt go to one. ****! Since then, its been the cold shoulder for me! NOTE!!! Just by showing up to popular parties and chilling out you catapult yourself into that social scene. Its even better if you show up to the party with ice+alcohol - then youre the hero and you get the incite to the next party which is basically an invite into their circle/clique/nitch.

Which reminds me... at dances... play the game. Go and hang out for an hour or so, just chat with everyone who isnt dancing. Warm up, half dance for a song - then DANCE. DO NOT STOP DANCING unless you DONT LIKE THE SONG and then LEAVE THE ****ING DANCE FLOOR!!! Once you START dancing you dont want people on the dance floor to see you STANDING. If youre ALWAYS DANCING everyone around you will want to dance too! Dance with fat girls (just dont get touchy) dance with young girls (just dont get touchy) and the hotties youre age will notice how much fun you are having, and how much fun people around you are having, and want to play (SO GET TOUCHY!!!) This was the ONLY thing I did right throughout high school. Girls from every class would practically RAPE me on the dance floor - and Im not even that great a dancer. I just ALWAYS stay on rhythme, always have the best time I can, and actively try and get other guys/girls to dance!

Eh, thats all I can think of for now, Ill be back with more tomorrow =)

 

[WesCottII]

I'm not saying turn into a total klutz. There's a difference between "you're perfect" and "you're perfect for me".

Remember "perfect is boring" - it's not human. That's all i'm saying.

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

The hero-worship on this board is amazing.

 

[LikRetsam]

Why were my posts removed? I didn't flame anyone.

Yet another thread hijacked by ninja mods! HIYYYY YA!

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Why were my posts removed? I didn't flame anyone.

Yet another thread hijacked by ninja mods! HIYYYY YA!

Apparently they want this thread to be renamed to Tony's Blog

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Damn right... this is my blog... allow me to continue ranting:

AIM is ridiculous. Today a girl Im quite fond of signed on, I said "hey!" and she signed off. Hrmmm. So for a few min I felt kinda ****ty, in that I was under the impression she had a lot of interested in me? I sucked it up and went to the gym. I got back and saw a "sorry about that earlier, whats up!" IM... it made my day. How ****ing stupid is that? We let technology rule our mood? AIM doesnt mean ****, remember that.

But cell phones are equally as ridiculous. Think about it. Many people own them, but rarely answer them - they use it like a pager. WTF is that? It just pisses me off that I have to call people 2 and 3 times to get concrete plans - even my best friends.

You know, I was orignally going to bytch about a lot more, but its just not necessary. I think the world needs to chill out, so Im going to start relaxing right now. Later.

 

[Bling]

Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Damn right... this is my blog... allow me to continue ranting:

AIM is ridiculous. Today a girl Im quite fond of signed on, I said "hey!" and she signed off. Hrmmm. So for a few min I felt kinda ****ty, in that I was under the impression she had a lot of interested in me? I sucked it up and went to the gym. I got back and saw a "sorry about that earlier, whats up!" IM... it made my day. How ****ing stupid is that? We let technology rule our mood? AIM doesnt mean ****, remember that.

I concur.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
AIM doesnt mean ****, remember that.

I've been telling you that forever yet you never listen to me

 

[Patrick124]

bro. roll a doobie, pack a bowl, rip a bong...the world needs to relax, and i think you might need to as well?

 

[Oxide]

Oh, lemme add!



Cell phones! What the ****?!

I go to college, and as soon as the goddamn class is over EVERYONE checks their phones. Who the fukk are you waiting to call you, George Clooney?! Half of the tricks get on the phone right away, babbling about "Oh, just got out of this class... going to eat at home" What, are you calling your mother?! Shut it off and let me talk to you!

And then there is Text messaging. How freaking easy is it to fall prey to that thing. It is like "Alright, i dont wanna call her, ill message!" and then BOOM! you dont ever call her again, you keep typing letters at $.25 a message!

Well fukk that, from now on i dont message girls. I want you guys to jump in on this with me. If you can call her (so you are not in class or w/e) you WILL CALL HER. YOU WILL CALL HER. YOU WILL NOT HIDE BEHIND LETTERS.


There ya go.

Btw. I liked my previous post in this thread. Thanks for deleting it..

 

[DJ Hawtness]

Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Damn right... this is my blog... allow me to continue ranting:

AIM is ridiculous. Today a girl Im quite fond of signed on, I said "hey!" and she signed off. Hrmmm. So for a few min I felt kinda ****ty, in that I was under the impression she had a lot of interested in me? I sucked it up and went to the gym. I got back and saw a "sorry about that earlier, whats up!" IM... it made my day. How ****ing stupid is that? We let technology rule our mood? AIM doesnt mean ****, remember that.

But cell phones are equally as ridiculous. Think about it. Many people own them, but rarely answer them - they use it like a pager. WTF is that? It just pisses me off that I have to call people 2 and 3 times to get concrete plans - even my best friends.

You know, I was orignally going to bytch about a lot more, but its just not necessary. I think the world needs to chill out, so Im going to start relaxing right now. Later.

You're letting girls be dominant. That was a test, don't let her test you.

 

[WesCottII]

Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Damn right... this is my blog... allow me to continue ranting:

AIM is ridiculous. Today a girl Im quite fond of signed on, I said "hey!" and she signed off. Hrmmm. So for a few min I felt kinda ****ty, in that I was under the impression she had a lot of interested in me? I sucked it up and went to the gym. I got back and saw a "sorry about that earlier, whats up!" IM... it made my day. How ****ing stupid is that? We let technology rule our mood? AIM doesnt mean ****, remember that.

But cell phones are equally as ridiculous. Think about it. Many people own them, but rarely answer them - they use it like a pager. WTF is that? It just pisses me off that I have to call people 2 and 3 times to get concrete plans - even my best friends.

You know, I was orignally going to bytch about a lot more, but its just not necessary. I think the world needs to chill out, so Im going to start relaxing right now. Later.

Hence why I deleted AIM/MSN. It helps Sweet F.A.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by Oxide
Oh, lemme add!



Cell phones! What the ****?!

I go to college, and as soon as the goddamn class is over EVERYONE checks their phones.

I check my phone a lot to see what time it is. It's my only clock.

Plus no one actually pays for texts anymore, i mean really.


Sorry for deleting your post. It happens.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Text messaging is ****ing stupid. If you can call someone, why not do it? Its almost as fast, less expensive, and FAR MORE ARTICULATE. Tonality is SO IMPORTANT in seduction - its impossible to convey tone via half sentance messages when youre charged by the ****ing letter.

So last night I was talkin to a few guys from the site - pretty ****ing angry about my situation as of late. I said, basically, Im handsome, intelligent, and fun - what the **** else is there, what am I missing, in that I cannot date girls my age? You know how they responded? LUCK. WHAT THE ****?! LUCK. Ok, wow. Im a better catch than 99.9% (literally) of guys my age. But its kinda fruitless if it all boils down to chance at the end, doesnt it?

I have the worst timing in the ****ing world. I im a girl, were having a great convo, I tell her she should finish her work... but type a simple flirty close right after, regarding our tentitive plans for the weekend - she signs off a milisecond after I send it. WTF?

Also, I call a girl I met at a club not long ago... shes at a formal dinner for her department at school. WTF?

Its like every time I try to innitiate something - I pick the WORST possible time. Ever.

But I realized soemthing today, running around the city, driving at 2x the limit running errands. I enjoyed going to the drug store, the department store, the dry cleaners, the grocery store, going tanning, having lunch:

ITS FUN TO ACCOMPLISH THINGS! I think im going to stop chasing girls for a while... sadly enough. Im going to improve myself, and Im going to post about it. I might end up missing prom. I might end up losing touch with some aquaintences. I might end up alone. But I dont think OTHER PEOPLE are the answer to MY PROBLEMS. Ill keep u guys updated.

 

[Patrick124]

...

me ranting, since i only have one and i don't need my own thread.

****ing highschool chicks enrage me. I swear, i have met maybe ONE decent girl. Every girls either a *****, fake, ugly[in one way or another] or a drama queen. Every girl tries to decieve us! WHAT THE FVCK?!
THis girl told me to wait...and wait...and wait for her. When i finally said "No, i won't wait anymore. Dump him now or forget about us."[long story] she got pissed at me and said "fvck you." She wants me to be ****ing AFC, a no pride-ball-less b!tch.
Not over her, shes not worth it. None of them are, and I never will be an AFC again.
This road to finding a relationship-worthy girl[not looking for one, but I am getting bored of hookups] is taking forever.
No one said ti would be easy, but this **** better payoff in the longrun. Thsi skany-girls need to grow the fvck up and stop being children for christs sake.

grrrrr i'm pissed. lol

 

[sstype]

haha MY TURN!!


Guys, I was rejected by nearly 5 HS girls in the past 2 months. It is all the same bullshyt.

1) They do not show interest in me in the first place
2) They show some initial interest, but after I start making the moves they go stone cold and I never hear from them again.

I mean, for God sake's, I am not morbidly obese or anything. I am a decent looking guy with a decent personality. I walk and talk like many of the guys girls are attracted to.

Sometimes I ask myself, why I just cannot seem to pull off bedding a chick w/o all the games and bullshyt. I mean, honestly guys, would it not be awesome if we met a chick who actually wanted us as bad as we wanted her? And not just ONE girl, but many of them?

Nowadays, I am focusing more on MY LIFE and getting my shyt together. I am working out, organizing, and just having fun with friends. Getting girls is honestly not the priority in my life anymore.