my bad, I don't do that every time at all. most of the time I don't ask her anything I just tell her to enjoy whatever she is doing.
every now and then, like if she is going to a friend's house at night or something I might ask "what are they gonna do" or things that show curiosity to know what she is up to and with who, but not in an insecure/possessive manner.
and it depends, with her I'm able to pull this off because she asks the same of me when I go out, she wants to know what I'm doing.. sometimes with who.
49au:
I'll answer your question. YES I am aware that women's emotions change according to how they feel at the moment, and if in the long run they feel that they are not sexually attracted or "in love" with you, then they will start to want to look around to what else is out there. I deffinitely know that
However, I take responsibility and I have learned that as long as you put your effort, and work on keeping yourself in check and being an attractive male throughout your life, you will decrease significantly your chances that your girl will lose attraction for you.
I've learned that MOST women can have strong feelings for only one male at the time, so if she is currently very attracted to you, then it is your responsibility as a man to make sure you dont slack, that you work on your own insecurities, neediness, and keep yourself in check.
also, I am aware, that today my relationship seems perfect, and I'm aware that tomorrow this might change. the secret lies again, in knowing how to detect subtle changes in your girl's behavior towards you, and act on it in a manner that is most likely to keep her attraction. this goes in a continuum from understanding that if a girl give a simple test, like being a selfish, and not listening to what you have to say, that you put your foot down and say exactly what you want, all the way to her losing interest in you, and you backing away and giving her massive space until she re-initiates contact FIRST!.
if my girl started right now to give me one line answers to my texts or take a long time to answer, you can bet I would not text her again, until she texts me for a good 2 or three times, and I would make sure a lot of time goes by without her hearing from me so that she can miss me, if she continues to be withdrawn, i will NOT initiate contact at all, I might even delete her number, and if she never again initiates contact with me after I showed I wanna talk to her, then I just dont contact ever again, until she does, and if that means that we dont talk ever again. so be it!
so just be on guard, and always have the upper hand on these little subtle ways. never show more interest than what she gives you,
every now and then, like if she is going to a friend's house at night or something I might ask "what are they gonna do" or things that show curiosity to know what she is up to and with who, but not in an insecure/possessive manner.
and it depends, with her I'm able to pull this off because she asks the same of me when I go out, she wants to know what I'm doing.. sometimes with who.
49au:
I'll answer your question. YES I am aware that women's emotions change according to how they feel at the moment, and if in the long run they feel that they are not sexually attracted or "in love" with you, then they will start to want to look around to what else is out there. I deffinitely know that
However, I take responsibility and I have learned that as long as you put your effort, and work on keeping yourself in check and being an attractive male throughout your life, you will decrease significantly your chances that your girl will lose attraction for you.
I've learned that MOST women can have strong feelings for only one male at the time, so if she is currently very attracted to you, then it is your responsibility as a man to make sure you dont slack, that you work on your own insecurities, neediness, and keep yourself in check.
also, I am aware, that today my relationship seems perfect, and I'm aware that tomorrow this might change. the secret lies again, in knowing how to detect subtle changes in your girl's behavior towards you, and act on it in a manner that is most likely to keep her attraction. this goes in a continuum from understanding that if a girl give a simple test, like being a selfish, and not listening to what you have to say, that you put your foot down and say exactly what you want, all the way to her losing interest in you, and you backing away and giving her massive space until she re-initiates contact FIRST!.
if my girl started right now to give me one line answers to my texts or take a long time to answer, you can bet I would not text her again, until she texts me for a good 2 or three times, and I would make sure a lot of time goes by without her hearing from me so that she can miss me, if she continues to be withdrawn, i will NOT initiate contact at all, I might even delete her number, and if she never again initiates contact with me after I showed I wanna talk to her, then I just dont contact ever again, until she does, and if that means that we dont talk ever again. so be it!
so just be on guard, and always have the upper hand on these little subtle ways. never show more interest than what she gives you,