I'm in the military and occasionally, I go to the clinic to visit a nutrition coach.
A day before formally meeting her, I passed by her in the hallway and she winked at me.
Since then, she has given me a metric ton of positive signals that I will list below:
- Upon ending our first meeting, while I was still sitting, she reached down and touched my thigh, greeted me off as she had to leave the room abruptly to tend to someone else.
- Lots of winking. I have brought co-workers by just to see her and she will focus on me and shoot me winks while talking to my co-workers.
- With one of my co-workers present, she grabbed my hand and lightly rubbed my hand with her fingers. She held my hand for a good minute or so. During that time, we maintained eye contact the entire time without breaking it.
-She is married and wears a ring on both ring fingers. When talking to her, she will spin the ring on her right ring finger, which I don't believe is her wedding ring.
-Every time we meet, she will take her coat off to expose her neck area.
-She occasionally makes comments like, "You're a good looking guy, go out to this place or that where there are cute women" or she will make little sly comments about porn or call me naughty or whatever.
-She has offered to stay after work to do this ridiculously tough workout with me.
Now, here's what's confusing me...she's married. She has made 3-4 little comments, bashing her husband.
Years ago when she was in her early 20's, she worked at a Mercedes dealership. You know how some dealerships have gorgeous women that come in and try to sell you some extra BS you don't need? That's how I view her as.
She doesn't seem flirty like that to others, but I'm not around her all day to see for myself, don't really care either.
My question is...is this woman just naturally flirty, or is she looking for something on the side?
A day before formally meeting her, I passed by her in the hallway and she winked at me.
Since then, she has given me a metric ton of positive signals that I will list below:
- Upon ending our first meeting, while I was still sitting, she reached down and touched my thigh, greeted me off as she had to leave the room abruptly to tend to someone else.
- Lots of winking. I have brought co-workers by just to see her and she will focus on me and shoot me winks while talking to my co-workers.
- With one of my co-workers present, she grabbed my hand and lightly rubbed my hand with her fingers. She held my hand for a good minute or so. During that time, we maintained eye contact the entire time without breaking it.
-She is married and wears a ring on both ring fingers. When talking to her, she will spin the ring on her right ring finger, which I don't believe is her wedding ring.
-Every time we meet, she will take her coat off to expose her neck area.
-She occasionally makes comments like, "You're a good looking guy, go out to this place or that where there are cute women" or she will make little sly comments about porn or call me naughty or whatever.
-She has offered to stay after work to do this ridiculously tough workout with me.
Now, here's what's confusing me...she's married. She has made 3-4 little comments, bashing her husband.
Years ago when she was in her early 20's, she worked at a Mercedes dealership. You know how some dealerships have gorgeous women that come in and try to sell you some extra BS you don't need? That's how I view her as.
She doesn't seem flirty like that to others, but I'm not around her all day to see for myself, don't really care either.
My question is...is this woman just naturally flirty, or is she looking for something on the side?
