This HB8 where I work.

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So I still hold a part-time job at a local grocery store a couple nights a week where I've been working at for 4 years now just for some extra cash. Anyway, there is this young HB8 who's just shy of 21 I've always had a crush on since she was 17.

Anyway, of course she knows I like her since then because I even asked her if she wanted to hangout a couple years ago but she declined because she wont date guys any older than her which is true from what I've seen. I know her dad got mad too because he saw me posting on her facebook back then and had her block me from there and she told me she wasn't interested because I'm older of course. So I had to back off of course.

Anyway, she's almost 21 now, still really young. I don't see her at work much due to work schedule. Anyway, despite her blocking me on facebook and that she's suddenly a lot more friendly towards me the last 4 months or so. I don't see her a lot, but like when she sees me she says hi to me now, smirks, and smiles and is giggly when looking at me. She wasn't like that before when she was younger and would avoid me if possible or not smile when talking to me.

Like tonight I was working and emptying the trash can by the entrance and she and her boyfriend walked in. He was ahead of her and already in the store and she walked by me and said hi and smiled and giggled while talking to me. Like I said, up until a few months ago she wasn't like this towards me. I don't know what to make of it though because lately like I said she smiles real happy and has that cutesy type laugh girls get like that when she talks to me.

Who knows what goes on in these young girls heads.

What would you guys recommend to pique her interest? She acts cute all the time, but kind of immature acting like most girls are at her age.
 

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Dont think she will ever go out with you cause she has a bf now.
Yea. The thing is most of her boyfriends last 3 months and they're never serious relationships at that so who knows how long this one lasts. If shes single again or something how would you approach this?
 

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Yea. The thing is most of her boyfriends last 3 months and they're never serious relationships at that so who knows how long this one lasts. If shes single again or something how would you approach this?
If I see her by herself I will just talk to her casually, wait for her to be laughing and enjoying the conversation with me and I will indirectly ask her out.
 

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I expected to read that you work online! ;);)

Make sure you are not misreading the signs. She might have changed and is now flirty to everyone. Also, ask yourself, compared to who she dates, are you her type, height, build, facial features. It would be strange if she's attracted to a dude who is uglier than the dudes she already dates, women don't date down. On the other hand, if you're same type as her boyfriends, then it's interesting.

I leaning towards that there is no interest. I'd see interest only when she puts herself intentionally into my proximity.
 

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I expected to read that you work online! ;);)

Make sure you are not misreading the signs. She might have changed and is now flirty to everyone. Also, ask yourself, compared to who she dates, are you her type, height, build, facial features. It would be strange if she's attracted to a dude who is uglier than the dudes she already dates, women don't date down. On the other hand, if you're same type as her boyfriends, then it's interesting.

I leaning towards that there is no interest. I'd see interest only when she puts herself intentionally into my proximity.
Shes 5 4ish maybe pushing 5 5 and skinny but curvy right places. The guys she dates from the looks of it look pretty average. You know not ugly but not hot gq as well and are in average to okay shape for that age range. Not lardballs but not super skinny or muscle as well. Height wise most of them look 5 6 to 5 10 and again smaller to average bone frame. Again bone frame shes fairly petite though.

It seems she doesn't like huge guys though from all the guys shes dated. They look clean cut and dress like typical 18 to 20 year old guys. Being I'm smaller bone and not big as well I easily fit the mold the guys she dates except for the age range.

Personality shes like an introvert extrovert hybrid. Doesn't really swing one way. Just in the middle. Like shes very quiet. Sociable though but more low key way.

Again men wise it seems she goes for typical looking guys or just happens the guys she meets just happen to be average to slightly above average. Again not ugly just typical and not muscle men.

I mean it seems if they're just semi decent looking but has the personality she likes she goes for it then. Nothing wrong with that.

Shes got a killer face smile hair and overall nice body. If she were a couple inches taller she could be a model almost. But yes all the guys she dates seem to be the exact age as her. Being that young probably because they all went to the same school and already know each other via friends. Most that young go out with people on their circle.
 

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So I still hold a part-time job at a local grocery store a couple nights a week where I've been working at for 4 years now just for some extra cash. Anyway, there is this young HB8 who's just shy of 21 I've always had a crush on since she was 17.

Anyway, of course she knows I like her since then because I even asked her if she wanted to hangout a couple years ago but she declined because she wont date guys any older than her which is true from what I've seen. I know her dad got mad too because he saw me posting on her facebook back then and had her block me from there and she told me she wasn't interested because I'm older of course. So I had to back off of course.

Anyway, she's almost 21 now, still really young. I don't see her at work much due to work schedule. Anyway, despite her blocking me on facebook and that she's suddenly a lot more friendly towards me the last 4 months or so. I don't see her a lot, but like when she sees me she says hi to me now, smirks, and smiles and is giggly when looking at me. She wasn't like that before when she was younger and would avoid me if possible or not smile when talking to me.

Like tonight I was working and emptying the trash can by the entrance and she and her boyfriend walked in. He was ahead of her and already in the store and she walked by me and said hi and smiled and giggled while talking to me. Like I said, up until a few months ago she wasn't like this towards me. I don't know what to make of it though because lately like I said she smiles real happy and has that cutesy type laugh girls get like that when she talks to me.

Who knows what goes on in these young girls heads.

What would you guys recommend to pique her interest? She acts cute all the time, but kind of immature acting like most girls are at her age.
Don't.

You work with her. That can be a problem.
She told you she wouldn't because you were older. That was a lie. She wouldn't because she wasn't interested.
She blocked you. Hid behind her dad but the issue was she still blocked you. Her 'dad excuse is bs

She had her chance. Why would you waffle and give her all the validation and enter her frame after she already made it clear she wasn't interested?

Her sudden hellos and giggles sounds like she is looking for validation and like you said she knows you already like her.

I say back off and focus on other women.
 

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Your in the ceep zone. A girl who blocks you is 1 step away from the courthouse to file a complaint on you.
I dont think he is socialy aware enough to spot the creep vibe, got to be very careful.
 

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So I still hold a part-time job at a local grocery store a couple nights a week where I've been working at for 4 years now just for some extra cash. Anyway, there is this young HB8 who's just shy of 21 I've always had a crush on since she was 17.

Anyway, of course she knows I like her since then because I even asked her if she wanted to hangout a couple years ago but she declined because she wont date guys any older than her which is true from what I've seen. I know her dad got mad too because he saw me posting on her facebook back then and had her block me from there and she told me she wasn't interested because I'm older of course. So I had to back off of course.

Anyway, she's almost 21 now, still really young. I don't see her at work much due to work schedule. Anyway, despite her blocking me on facebook and that she's suddenly a lot more friendly towards me the last 4 months or so. I don't see her a lot, but like when she sees me she says hi to me now, smirks, and smiles and is giggly when looking at me. She wasn't like that before when she was younger and would avoid me if possible or not smile when talking to me.

Like tonight I was working and emptying the trash can by the entrance and she and her boyfriend walked in. He was ahead of her and already in the store and she walked by me and said hi and smiled and giggled while talking to me. Like I said, up until a few months ago she wasn't like this towards me. I don't know what to make of it though because lately like I said she smiles real happy and has that cutesy type laugh girls get like that when she talks to me.

Who knows what goes on in these young girls heads.

What would you guys recommend to pique her interest? She acts cute all the time, but kind of immature acting like most girls are at her age.
Woah, she blocked you on Facebook. Stay away from her. This is the metoo era! Watch yourself.
 

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Woah, she blocked you on Facebook. Stay away from her. This is the metoo era! Watch yourself.
Then why the heck is she so friendly now like all good and giggly and even walked up to me? Sometimes I think these women just like to tease.
 

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Then why the heck is she so friendly now like all good and giggly and even walked up to me? Sometimes I think these women just like to tease.
I watched an anime where humans needed to make contracts with evil demons to gain the power needed to fight vampires. The demons would do things like try to steal your body and torment you with nightmares for the fun of it.

Women are like these demons, we need their power (sex) and to gain it we must survive their evil, cruelty and temptation
 

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Dude, she's friendly towards you because she has a boyfriend and most taken women are naturally more flirtatious with other guys than if they are single. But then again, she blocked you on facebook and may be setting you up to get some drama with her boyfriend.
 

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Dude, she's friendly towards you because she has a boyfriend and most taken women are naturally more flirtatious with other guys than if they are single. But then again, she blocked you on facebook and may be setting you up to get some drama with her boyfriend.
Other posters on here say high level HBs just have too much drama to deal with. I mean, I'm up to the task for drama if it's a high level HB.
 

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Other posters on here say high level HBs just have too much drama to deal with. I mean, I'm up to the task for drama if it's a high level HB.
Why are you focusing on a girl who has blocked you on facebook and has a boyfriend just because she threw a little bone your way? That's what you call bone-dry. You are not even getting asian girls? What kind of an incel are you?
 

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Why are you focusing on a girl who has blocked you on facebook and has a boyfriend just because she threw a little bone your way? That's what you call bone-dry. You are not even getting asian girls? What kind of an incel are you?
I didn't message Asian ones yet. Most of them up by Tampa and that. Some really hot ones though. Only Asians you will see around here are the short Chinese ones at the Chinese restaurants. No Korean of Japanese girls around here.
 

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I didn't message Asian ones yet. Most of them up by Tampa and that. Some really hot ones though. Only Asians you will see around here are the short Chinese ones at the Chinese restaurants. No Korean of Japanese girls around here.
Why do you care if they are in Tampa? You don't have on record any Asian girl rejecting to drive 100 miles to see you because you never tried. So go an email Asian girls in Tampa florida and stop chasing trouble. You are supposed to be an asian chick magnet because you are white. Leave the other HB8s to the Chads and Tyrones and get what you can get.
 
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