Ever since coming back onto this site, I've taken an interest in the High School section. Why? It's where I started out in. The same place as most of you have. However, there is a BIG difference between then and now. Things were a LOT better around here then. People understood things and knew what to do. Good advice was given throughout, and good listening was also done. Now I look at this place and laugh. Field Reports from some people that don't know Kino (the act of touching) from Keno (the lottery game) if a model grinded against them. People that wouldn't know what it feels like to achieve something you set your mind to that doesn't involve World of Warcraft. Here are some things that I haven't see on here in a while (they are called "good tips.")
- Yes, girls play games. However, guys can play too. I see a bunch of posts of guys whining. "I'm sick of her games!" or "That b!tch! I can't figure her out!" Come on guys! I see posts about playing games with girls all the time, so why do you complain when they do it to you? Be a man, suck it up, and realize "hey, it'll happen. Now I know what I'm dealing with."
- Yes, girls have guy friends. "I saw her with a bunch of guys! What a ho!" Tsk tsk tsk. Girls have guy friends. Guys have girl friends. Deal with it. So you want to be mad because she is talking to some guy that she always talks to, that is her friend? Ok Mr. Insecurity. While you are sitting there going "oh, she was talking to a guy, she's off my list" some TRUE guy is there, chatting with her, being friends with her guy friend, gaining trust, and gaining her number. Don't be a pansy or a whiner.
- Patterns will lead to failure. So will repetition. With that being said, what is the point of running "patterns?" I see a few posts about how someone ran a "visulization pattern" to try and plant images of himself in the girls mind. Another ran a "sexual function" pattern. Then I see one saying "it worked with this other girl!" Patterns are for shirts and quilts. If you did something right to being with, she SHOULD be thinking of you anyway, regardless of how many times you say "the pleasure of within, the feeling you get from that gentle friction." Same with repetition. Does it matter if you say "froth" 10 times or 100? Keep the dream speak to when you are breathless because she is causing gentle friction on you, ok?
- Does she like me? Why do you wonder? If you paid attention, you would know that. Just observe how she reacts to you. How she speaks. What she says. Which leads to...
-My gut says it went well, but I don't know? TRUST YOUR GUT! Does your gut tell you to approach? Good. Does it tell you things went well? Good. Does it say something went bad? Good. When you learn to trust your gut (aka: not doubting yourself,) then you are doing great. You will be doing better than 94% of guys out there! You hear that! 94%! That means that if you think that girl is looking towards you and your gut says to go talk to her...Then do it! Which is worse: "Should I have approached?" or "Hey guys, just approached this chick. It failed, but I still did it!"
-Practice practice practice! "This was my first time and it didn't go well, I should give up." Athletes get good by practicing. Salesmen get good by practicing. Public speakers get good at practicing. The more you do something and learn from it, the better you get. I love hearing how people want to approach 100 girls in 50 days. Why? They will learn more in 10 days from that than people will in 50 days on here. The reason? They are getting experience at it, instead of just reading. You can not tell me you won't pick up more subtle signs on your 12 approach of the week after reading for a bit than you would on your first approach ever after reading for a while. You will be too nearvous to notice because you'll be trying to pay too close attention instead of watching naturally.
This had to be said. You know what, I'm issuing a challenge.
I want to see better posts, more success, and more learning on here. Infact, I'm offering a special deal: Whoever shows the most improvement during the next month in my opinion will get a special reward. What is it? A personalized lesson/gameplan from me for a month. Feel it isn't worth it? Ok suit yourself. Guess you can wander around high school and college (and the rest of life) reading this site and wondering where you went wrong...Or not push yourself.
- Yes, girls play games. However, guys can play too. I see a bunch of posts of guys whining. "I'm sick of her games!" or "That b!tch! I can't figure her out!" Come on guys! I see posts about playing games with girls all the time, so why do you complain when they do it to you? Be a man, suck it up, and realize "hey, it'll happen. Now I know what I'm dealing with."
- Yes, girls have guy friends. "I saw her with a bunch of guys! What a ho!" Tsk tsk tsk. Girls have guy friends. Guys have girl friends. Deal with it. So you want to be mad because she is talking to some guy that she always talks to, that is her friend? Ok Mr. Insecurity. While you are sitting there going "oh, she was talking to a guy, she's off my list" some TRUE guy is there, chatting with her, being friends with her guy friend, gaining trust, and gaining her number. Don't be a pansy or a whiner.
- Patterns will lead to failure. So will repetition. With that being said, what is the point of running "patterns?" I see a few posts about how someone ran a "visulization pattern" to try and plant images of himself in the girls mind. Another ran a "sexual function" pattern. Then I see one saying "it worked with this other girl!" Patterns are for shirts and quilts. If you did something right to being with, she SHOULD be thinking of you anyway, regardless of how many times you say "the pleasure of within, the feeling you get from that gentle friction." Same with repetition. Does it matter if you say "froth" 10 times or 100? Keep the dream speak to when you are breathless because she is causing gentle friction on you, ok?
- Does she like me? Why do you wonder? If you paid attention, you would know that. Just observe how she reacts to you. How she speaks. What she says. Which leads to...
-My gut says it went well, but I don't know? TRUST YOUR GUT! Does your gut tell you to approach? Good. Does it tell you things went well? Good. Does it say something went bad? Good. When you learn to trust your gut (aka: not doubting yourself,) then you are doing great. You will be doing better than 94% of guys out there! You hear that! 94%! That means that if you think that girl is looking towards you and your gut says to go talk to her...Then do it! Which is worse: "Should I have approached?" or "Hey guys, just approached this chick. It failed, but I still did it!"
-Practice practice practice! "This was my first time and it didn't go well, I should give up." Athletes get good by practicing. Salesmen get good by practicing. Public speakers get good at practicing. The more you do something and learn from it, the better you get. I love hearing how people want to approach 100 girls in 50 days. Why? They will learn more in 10 days from that than people will in 50 days on here. The reason? They are getting experience at it, instead of just reading. You can not tell me you won't pick up more subtle signs on your 12 approach of the week after reading for a bit than you would on your first approach ever after reading for a while. You will be too nearvous to notice because you'll be trying to pay too close attention instead of watching naturally.
This had to be said. You know what, I'm issuing a challenge.
I want to see better posts, more success, and more learning on here. Infact, I'm offering a special deal: Whoever shows the most improvement during the next month in my opinion will get a special reward. What is it? A personalized lesson/gameplan from me for a month. Feel it isn't worth it? Ok suit yourself. Guess you can wander around high school and college (and the rest of life) reading this site and wondering where you went wrong...Or not push yourself.
