backbreaker
Master Don Juan
After a long work week, I am watching the Basketball game and I get a call from my best friend, who tells me we are going out. I say, what the hell, let's go. We all decided to go bowling. No problem.
So we get our lane, pick our balls, shoes, things like that and we happened to be sitting next to some decent, yet country, women/girls. They were around 6.5/7.5's body wise but I wasn't attracted by the way they carried themselves, although one of them was flirting with my best friend (there are 3 of us) So they leave, and around 10 mins later, this girl, who was around 21-22 years old, and was very nice looking, around a 8-8.5 face wise (rather slim and no shape) came and asked me how to set up the scorecard (I happened to be sitting at the table), so I showed her ,and her "friends"showed up.
Now I used alot from what I learned from this site to figure a couple of things out: a) She didn't date anyone of them, rather they seemed to be jockying for her attention. b) Although she was nice looking, very nice looking, I caught myself glancing a couple of times, she wasn't by any means a supermodel, but she had been treated like one. Had guys brining her drinks, laughing at her un-funny jokes and so on.
Anyway, I am a VERY good bowler, as so are my friends, on an average game the winner has around 180-190. The first game we bowled I bowled HORRIBLE, around 125, but honestly it was mainly the ball, I kept picking up the wrong ball which was too big and I couldn't control it, therefore I co uldn't pick up spares. Anyway, around the 8th frame I got the energy to put up the balls that wern't ours and I bowled 4 strikes and hit 8 pins down to end the game, bringing my score to 132 (just to let you know how bad it was before that) so I was feeling it, and it carried into the next game, which is when these guys and the girl showed up. So I was going first and she happened to be going first. I let her go first (bowling edquitte) and she gave me a smile, which I wasn't paying any attention about, we play for 20 a game and I didn't want to loose anymore money and I came out HOT, I bowled 4 stikes and 1 spare in the first 5 frames, so needless to say I started talking off at the mouth to my friends. I wasn't being obnixious but some of the stuff I was saying was downright funny. I notied the girl was laughing at some of my jokes, which I though was cool, at least someone was. So around1 min later I hear this guy say "he's not that good" and she says "he has 100 points in the 6th frame and you have 40". so he gets up with me when it's my turn, I guess he is trying to prove apoint, and he gave me this look. I looked back at my friends and they started laughing so hard one of them started crying. I bowl straight usually, but this time I put some spin, alot of it on the ball, to show off, and bowled a strike. This guy gut up and knocked 3 pins down and guttered the 2nd frame. What is even funnier is the for the next 4-5 times he got up we kept laughing at him, so much so that they quit and left after the first game. I actually bolwed over 200 that game, around 220 (even so, I only won by 9 pins) or so, which Isn't my high but it's pretty darn close, havn't felt it like that in a while, but that as you know is besides the point.
What I don't understand is why did this guy think he had to prove something against me. Even though she was attractive I wasn't going to try to take her, too high maintance. It's not like I pulled her to the side and asked for her number. Not only that, why would you try to prove something against someone who you know is better than you. Not trying to brag, but I was head and shoulders better than him, or anyone of her friends, just as my friends were. Are guys so insecure that they think that they have to "fight" for a womans attention at allt imes? Again she was cute but damn, No one is cute enough for me to make me look like a damn fool just so you can get a good laugh.
Let me poose this questoin? If you were trying to impress a girl but there was someone there clearly better than you doing what ever it is that you are doing, how would you handle the situtation.
So we get our lane, pick our balls, shoes, things like that and we happened to be sitting next to some decent, yet country, women/girls. They were around 6.5/7.5's body wise but I wasn't attracted by the way they carried themselves, although one of them was flirting with my best friend (there are 3 of us) So they leave, and around 10 mins later, this girl, who was around 21-22 years old, and was very nice looking, around a 8-8.5 face wise (rather slim and no shape) came and asked me how to set up the scorecard (I happened to be sitting at the table), so I showed her ,and her "friends"showed up.
Now I used alot from what I learned from this site to figure a couple of things out: a) She didn't date anyone of them, rather they seemed to be jockying for her attention. b) Although she was nice looking, very nice looking, I caught myself glancing a couple of times, she wasn't by any means a supermodel, but she had been treated like one. Had guys brining her drinks, laughing at her un-funny jokes and so on.
Anyway, I am a VERY good bowler, as so are my friends, on an average game the winner has around 180-190. The first game we bowled I bowled HORRIBLE, around 125, but honestly it was mainly the ball, I kept picking up the wrong ball which was too big and I couldn't control it, therefore I co uldn't pick up spares. Anyway, around the 8th frame I got the energy to put up the balls that wern't ours and I bowled 4 strikes and hit 8 pins down to end the game, bringing my score to 132 (just to let you know how bad it was before that) so I was feeling it, and it carried into the next game, which is when these guys and the girl showed up. So I was going first and she happened to be going first. I let her go first (bowling edquitte) and she gave me a smile, which I wasn't paying any attention about, we play for 20 a game and I didn't want to loose anymore money and I came out HOT, I bowled 4 stikes and 1 spare in the first 5 frames, so needless to say I started talking off at the mouth to my friends. I wasn't being obnixious but some of the stuff I was saying was downright funny. I notied the girl was laughing at some of my jokes, which I though was cool, at least someone was. So around1 min later I hear this guy say "he's not that good" and she says "he has 100 points in the 6th frame and you have 40". so he gets up with me when it's my turn, I guess he is trying to prove apoint, and he gave me this look. I looked back at my friends and they started laughing so hard one of them started crying. I bowl straight usually, but this time I put some spin, alot of it on the ball, to show off, and bowled a strike. This guy gut up and knocked 3 pins down and guttered the 2nd frame. What is even funnier is the for the next 4-5 times he got up we kept laughing at him, so much so that they quit and left after the first game. I actually bolwed over 200 that game, around 220 (even so, I only won by 9 pins) or so, which Isn't my high but it's pretty darn close, havn't felt it like that in a while, but that as you know is besides the point.
What I don't understand is why did this guy think he had to prove something against me. Even though she was attractive I wasn't going to try to take her, too high maintance. It's not like I pulled her to the side and asked for her number. Not only that, why would you try to prove something against someone who you know is better than you. Not trying to brag, but I was head and shoulders better than him, or anyone of her friends, just as my friends were. Are guys so insecure that they think that they have to "fight" for a womans attention at allt imes? Again she was cute but damn, No one is cute enough for me to make me look like a damn fool just so you can get a good laugh.
Let me poose this questoin? If you were trying to impress a girl but there was someone there clearly better than you doing what ever it is that you are doing, how would you handle the situtation.
