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Dr.LASR

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Hello. There's this girl...
I love her. I want nothing more than to be with her. There's a problem, though. She has a BF.
I've never met her BF, but from what I heard, he's an *******. I know this is incredibly noob like, but I'd kill to be with her. Any tips to be available if they break up?

TL:DR what do I do to get a girl, when the girl and guy break up.
 

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Dr.LASR said:
Hello. There's this girl...
I love her. I want nothing more than to be with her. There's a problem, though. She has a BF.
I've never met her BF, but from what I heard, he's an *******. I know this is incredibly noob like, but I'd kill to be with her. Any tips to be available if they break up?

TL:DR what do I do to get a girl, when the girl and guy break up.

You want tips in case they break up? Ok. Well first of all....


STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM HER......RIGHT NOW.

DON'T hang out,laugh,talk,joke,and kid around with the chick for weeks and weeks into months waiting for her relationship to end.....get THE HELL away from her.

If you don't,if you just be friendly with her while waiting for your "turn" to date her,you'll friendzone yourself.


Direct ALL your attention to your life and OTHER AVAILABLE women. Don't put your social life "on hold" until she's free......date and meet other chicks.
 

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Igetit! said:
You want tips in case they break up? Ok. Well first of all....


STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM HER......RIGHT NOW.

DON'T hang out,laugh,talk,joke,and kid around with the chick for weeks and weeks into months waiting for her relationship to end.....get THE HELL away from her.

If you don't,if you just be friendly with her while waiting for your "turn" to date her,you'll friendzone yourself.


Direct ALL your attention to your life and OTHER AVAILABLE women. Don't put your social life "on hold" until she's free......date and meet other chicks.
I still have a social life. I fool around and what not with other woman, I'd just leave anyone for her. And wouldn't that make her completely forget about me? Talking to her now, and got her to say she likes me...
 

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Dr.LASR said:
I still have a social life. I fool around and what not with other woman, I'd just leave anyone for her. And wouldn't that make her completely forget about me? Talking to her now, and got her to say she likes me...
Dude, how old are you 15? Got her to say "she likes me"? Great job. She said that to you, meanwhile she "hates" her boyfriend but is at home with him now having his balls imprinted on her @ss from him fvcking her from behind so hard...

Actions count, words don't. The first reply is correct, but do what you want and when it ends in disaster don't cry in your beers to us, you've been told what to do.
 

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marmel75 said:
Dude, how old are you 15? Got her to say "she likes me"? Great job. She said that to you, meanwhile she "hates" her boyfriend but is at home with him now having his balls imprinted on her @ss from him fvcking her from behind so hard...

Actions count, words don't. The first reply is correct, but do what you want and when it ends in disaster don't cry in your beers to us, you've been told what to do.
You gotta start somewhere.
And seriouslly, calm down -_- just asking for some advice.
 

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You don't have to STAY AWAY from her, that's just stupid. The only guys who get friend zoned are guys who are ugly, have no game, or act like complete pussies. I have a friend who I've known for 2 years, we've been very close the entire time, but I actually never flirted with her until the past few months. Was I friend zoned? No. Why? Because I'm not some awkward looking pushover. I always maintained power over the friend zone by being dominant and dropping subtle comments here and there that made the girl want it. Friend zones are for kids in high school who haven't learned how to improve themselves or their game.

If you still talk to her, hang out, etc you must keep up the flirting, kino, etc to insure you do not get friend zoned. She likes you? That's great, but her boyfriend is a jerk and she is still with him, so her word doesn't mean much. Maybe you two will keep hanging out and you end up hooking up, if you do, or if she says she wants to do something like that with you, force her into an ultimatum. Don't let her have her cake and eat it too. If she wants you, make her choose you, not get you and then go back to the boyfriend.

In the end, do your best not to compare yourself to him or force her into choosing because you DO NOT WANT TO COMPETE WITH HER BOYFRIEND. If it's an LTR, you have to be a complete knockout in all aspects to win her over, because what he might not have in looks, game, money, etc he has in time invested with her, which weighs in as a lot.

Best of luck.
 
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