This girl is history, but I need a big way to end it!

[JCKey618]

I'm a junior and my freshman girlfriend (please, no comments about this, I already see my mistake) just did something that has me angry as hell. Two days ago (today was a half-day at school) I said "I'm going to go see the Matrix on Thursday, do you want to come with me?" and she said that she had to see what she was doing on Thursday. So, the next day while talking to her I ask "So, are you going to go to the movies with me?" and she just said "No." She was sick yesterday so I just left it at that so I wouldn't get on her nerves.

Last night I called to see how she was doing and I asked her what she was doing tomorrow (today) and I guess that was my subtle way of asking "why can't you go with me to the movies?" and she said that her mom told her that she had two options: she could either come straight home or go to her mother's job after school. She said she thinks her mother had something planned for them. So, I had a backup friend and I arranged for my friend (female) to go to the movies with me instead.

By the time school ended, I had a group of 7 going with me to the movies, so as we leave the school I see Lauren and talk to her very briefly anf kiss you good-bye and say I'll see her later. I go with my peoples to the movies and after the movies are over we walk out of the theatre and I see some of my other friends and they say "Hey, I just say your girlfriend" and I'm like she's supposed to not be able to go out. So, I think, maybe her mom brought her to the movies but my friends told me she was with a group of her freshman friends.

So, this trick lied to me for no damn reason and then was dumb enough to go to the same movie theatre I was at. I kinda looked around for her, wanting a confrontation cause I was heated, but I didn't see her.

This is embarrassing that a freshman did this sh*t to me, but I swear I'm going to come out on top. I need a way to get back at her, publicly. I'm thinking of gathering my friends tomorrow at school and going up to Lauren and introducing her as my "ex-girlfriend" and then have some fun with it and my friends would laugh at her and sh*t. I also want to try to catch her in a lie. I need a way to make this girl feel as bad as I did today.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

This isn't a competition to see who can diss who the most. The best way to go about it is to confront her in private and ask her why she did it to you, and decide accordingly

Or if that doesn't seem like the right way, think of it this way. Break up in front of her in public and girls will see that you got played or that you are out just to look good in front of your boys. I don't think you should think that she is lower than u cuz she's a freshman, but if you date someone younger.... games will be played and stupid stuff like this will happen

 

[punkrockpylot]

yeah...

-OR-

you could bicycle kick her in the face...that might be kinda funny...obviously im kidding, you should break up with her in private only afc's and guy with small penises who need to look good for their crew break up dramatically in public...

 

[JCKey618]

She had a good explanation. I'm almost disappointed because I was ready for some drama!

 

[blienk]

Ever seen American History X? Curb stomp her.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by punkrockpylot
you could bicycle kick her in the face...that might be kinda funny...obviously im kidding, you should break up with her in private only afc's and guy with small penises who need to look good for their crew break up dramatically in public...

BWAHAHAHA...im stealing that from ya! But anyway home skillet, dont be such a fukkin drama queen.Just chill the hell out and handle it like a normal person would.

 

[punkrockpylot]

Originally posted by blienk
Ever seen American History X? Curb stomp her.

off topic but this is one of the greatest movies ever...

 

[drixsa]

Your an AFC

and quite the skitzo too

one minute its trying to get her to love you the next its i wanna embaress the **** out of her

listen you suffocate a girl and then get upset when she wants some air

This is embarrassing that a freshman did this sh*t to me, but I swear I'm going to come out on top. I need a way to get back at her, publicly. I'm thinking of gathering my friends tomorrow at school and going up to Lauren and introducing her as my "ex-girlfriend" and then have some fun with it and my friends would laugh at her and sh*t. I also want to try to catch her in a lie. I need a way to make this girl feel as bad as I did today.

be a fvckin man and take the high rode

learn to conduct yourself in a man-like fashion

she made you feel bad?

grow up fast

 

[Jimbo2k]

Originally posted by drixsa
grow up fast

Speaking of which...JcKey how old are you?

 

[ShizamDaMan]

Keep playing childish "Got you back worse!" games and see how far it gets you.

Or you could snap out of it and be a man. Confront her, ask her wtf is going through her mind and then make a decision based on her response.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

just grab your balls and stop being dramatic.
ive been there and yes, people are just gonna think that you got played. not the image you like to have.
personally, the introducing her to JUST ONE FRIEND to "break up" with her would be subtle enuf.
at best, she's gonna chase you and ask you why and at worst, she's gonna let it pass and poof! goes the relationship.
confront her privately and just tell her that you dont deserve her **** or something like that.

 

[Craig Reeves]

Your freshman girlfriend did something that got you really mad, I see. Now I'm not excusing what she did, but if you had not been doing such AFC-ish things in the first (and probably in the past) then this disaster could have easily been avoided.

Basically, you kept her from having to ever put in a little effort for your time. See, we as humans do not see things as valuable unless we have to work for them. For example, you invited her to a movie with you one day, then she said that she had to check her plans. But then you messed up by asking her again the next day! What you should have done was not even bring it up - if she wanted to go see a movie with you, she would have brought it up herself and would not have lied to you about her mom (mainly, because she wouldn't have gotten a chance to, because you never asked).

And then you twist the knife by bugging her and asking her what she's doing the next day, making you look to her as if you are sooooo concerened about whether she has time for you or not. That's AFC if I haven't seen it, my man!

Trying to humiliate her or "get back" at her will only make things worse - because it will make you look like a big, insecure, weak, flaming jackass. Not only that, but you brought most of this trouble on yourself by being an AFC.

I know this is embarrassing to you that a girl right out of junior high could pull this on a supposed DJ like yourself, but you're just going to have to face the music that it happened and move on. So what you need to do is that the next time she sees you, confront her about it and live to fight another day.

 

[4nando]

I honestly don't see wht the problem is. How exactly did she embarrass him?

 

[Craig Reeves]

Well he feels embarrassed telling US this. He shouldn't be embarrassed at all - most guys would have reacted the same way as him, if not worse.

 

[JCKey618]

She had a good explanation, it's all good now. She even said she wanted to talk to me about "us" and then apologized for not opening up to me and told me how much she liked me. Then we made out .

Anyway, I did NOT bug her about the movies. I asked her the second time in a "I need an answer now" kind of way because I needed to know whether I should set up the movies thing with my friends or not. And when I asked the third time I brought it up subtlely in the middle of the conversation.

Also, when she said she needed to talk about us, I thought at first she was going for the dump, but her friend (close friend) told me that judging about how she talks about me, she doesn't plan on breaing up anytime soon. Said she talks about me all the time.

So, my AFC ass must be doing something right.