This girl is confusing: in person = flirty, via texting = aloof and apathetic

[thelastclap]

She is 15 and I am 16. We dated previously, but that was 7 months ago or so.

She has seemed to start liking me again. When we went on a school band field trip a month ago she was basically all over me. She slept on my shoulder on the bus, we held hands everywhere we walked, and she let me hold her when we sat on the bus.

When we got back to normal school days, it was like it never even happened. She just acted like a friend towards me again. When I asked her about dating, she said that she wants to but she wants to see if she still feels the same outside of our field trip, and that we should hang out outside of school to see.

But the thing that really confuses me is whenever I text her it's like she doesn't want to talk to me. It's really hard to make plans to hang out with her, not to mention her father is strict. But whenever we do get to hang out it is so much fun, and we have such a good time flirting and everything. I can tell that she even gets a little jealous when I laugh with other girls.

Why is she apathetic and affectionate when I text her, but completely opposite in person?
And how do I work around this to get her to hang out with me or talk to me (not in person) more?

P.S. - It is summertime so I don't have the same opportunities to see her everyday.

 

[bassmastajazzyj]

Basically she's thinks she's hotter than she might actually be and is trying to go for (in her eyes) a better, maybe hotter guy to date. In my opinion I'd move on, because eventually she will come crawling back to you after she realizes shes not that great and sooner or later she will try and ditch you for another better guy.

 

[Hakuna]

1. Be liked by other girls (game them)

2. Be less available and less needy (don't send concurrent texts, act disinterested and aloof. You must give off the aura that you have other options)

3. Build social proof (Become the best at a sport or be dominant in a field that interests you)