This girl has me confused, can't seem to figure her out

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Ok here's what happen. I met this girl from some other girl I knew (her sister), she gets my number from her and I talk to her, first night I meet her we get up around 1:00 am, take her back to my spot and end up having sex with her the first night, wasn't much I really had to do to get it. She met up with me in front of her apartment complex and after talking to her for about 10-15mins she was down to come back to my spot, it's not like I've never done this before.

Here's the thing this girl has done to me which no other girl has and I can't seem to figure it out. After getting in a girl's pants the first night they always call me back, this one didn't. This girl is actually one I want to go back and have sex with again, she's like an 8.5 and had some good puzzy, better than most.

So here's the thing, after not hearing from her, I text her and she tells me she's sick, don't think much about it and leave it at that call her back the next day and she still tells me she's sick. It's not like I'm bowing up this girl's phone either, I'll call her once in one day and that's it and maybe a text or two.

Around the second or third night I call her, that's when she told me she was still sick, she sounded sick, and told me she didn't feel good and couldn't talk, before we say our goodbyes over the phone I tell her what wrong with you, if you want me to lose your number I will if you don't want to talk to me, and pretty much all she said was that she was still sick. Right after that phone call she text me this "Im sorry i act that way towards you im just not feeling good", and I'm thinking to myself WTF!? she acts like she wants me to leave her alone and then she acts like she wants to keep me around.

The next day I text her asking if she's feeling better, it takes her about 2 hours to text me back saying 'no'. Later on in the evening I call her, and I'm pretty sure she hit the ignore button on her cell phone when i try to call her half way through the call. So I text her "I can't tell if you really sick r if you just want me to lose your number, just be really with me", about an hour later she text me back saying "I'll call you back later", and I'm thinking to myself we haven't even talked on the phone that day.

Well she didn't end up calling me back and now it's the next day (today), should I just leave it alone? I'm sure there's a few things I did wrong, I'm a bit rusty right now I just got out of a 2 year relationship about 4 months ago and been with about 4 girls since then, but this one has me completely confused and can't figure her out. My guess is she was just horny that night and that's all she wanted out of me?
 

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seems to me that you are new around here. If so, welcome and your problem is very common when guys don't know what they are doing... even though you mention you do..

well if you really knew what you are doing you wouldnt be asking for advice, you would have deleted her number and waited for her to call you, and if she didn't oh well her loss!!

not much you can do, when a girl doesnt call back and seems cold to you, I delete the number and leave it at that..... I dont see how anything you can do at this point is going to bring her back any closer to you..

from this point on the more you talk or text her, the more you gonna repell her to the point where she will feel nasty around you...


you were warned!!

why you even talking about a girl who won't reply???? those are garbage, disposable, if they dont put the effort, you ditch them on the spot and don't look back...

ahhh newbies... read the DJ bible!!!!! there is a link at the bottom of this page, it will help you a lot
good luck
 

Razor Sharp

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You got too emotionally involved.. and paranoid. Not a good combination, lol.

To me it sounds like she really was sick, but just got tired of you calling and texting all the time. You put too much of your cards on the table by expressing way too much interest. She knows you are "had" now, and the thrill of it all is gone.

That, or she's a straight slut who just enjoys random one-nighters with a wide variety of strangers. Either way your next move is obvious (no contact), and I really hope you protected yourself! Lord knows the REAL reason why she's sick
 

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You killed any attraction she had for you.
Congratulations.

You became insecure and contacted her everyday.

Chances are, she really was sick the first few days and just ran with it, simply because you were annoying the living hell out of her.

You basically bugged her for 3 days in a row. That's enough to scare any woman away. Your chances with this one is over. You should have played it calm and cool and you wuold have had your chance again, but by WANTING it more after the first time, you failed miserably. You should have treated her the same you would have any other woman.

Forget about this one.

MAYBE one night, she'll call back and want a Round 2, but at this point there is nothing you can do.
 

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Aright I see where I fvcked up at, you guys are right I should have never called her back. Now that I think about it the other one nighters I've had usually take about 2 days to call me back, oh well, I did this one to myself, I'm going to go find me some new azz tonight
 

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Don Juanabbe

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Yeah, you called her too much. You got the puzzy, and then started getting clingy. Wait a few days before you call back a woman you just boned the night before.

You're supplicating to a hor who spread her legs for you the first night, why are you even worried about her or taking her seriously at all.

Don't call her back until next week.

But your attitude is right - go get some more azz.
 
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