This blows my mind

[sazc]

My hampster isn't spinning too hard I don't give a f**k who or what other girls do I'm not trying to get with them. I'm just saying I wonder if this is a trend and I too think it's kind of refreshing because at least a guy knows where he stands and can play within that context if he so chooses or can move on.

From what these guys say, it's a trend. Ew!

I was on an OKC date last night (3rd) He told me he was also on tinder. I laughed and asked how many ONS he had found on there. He looked at me shocked, he laughed, and said none. I was surprised.

 

[GoodOne123]

Yea, you seemed a little over eager.

After that night, you should have exchanged numbers, and then let her do the chasing. If you REALLY liked her and didn't hear back after a few weeks, then reach out.

Bro I did exchange numbers. Contacted her after 3 days. We met up for drinks again. She made the excuse that she was on her period again so she can't invite me over.

She promised me though that she will invite me over to hers in a few days.

A few days passed I heard nothing from her. So I contacted her. No reply.

I was hardly eager imo

 

[GoodOne123]

Seriously? One night a girl wanted to blow you or whatever.

Then she lost interest.

Maybe she was repulsed at the shape of your wee wee.

Maybe she met somebody who made her forget about you.

Maybe she found Jesus.

Why is this so confusing?

Humans have these things called "emotions" and "desires."

They are kind of like the weather in that they are unpredictable.

Especially modern humans. It's like one day they like one thing, and the next day they like something else.

It's maddening!

Bro I know. But from what I have recently heard about her, she was out to use me and failed because I stood my ground.

Her lack of interest was strange because on the night she said she was dying to sleep with me, and would invite me over every single day if possible.

She said she loved my D, and would invite me over again after her period ended.

As soon as I contacted her she pushed the idea of expensive drinks etc. This was different from what she said before where she said I can just show up to her place.

She pushed the idea of food too while we were there, and didn't seem as eager to have sex compared to the last night.

I made it clear that I wanted benefits too, i.e sex, if she was to spin plates while I was seeing her. I also made it clear I expected to be invited soon.

At this point she ghosted. I think she realised I can't be manipulated. She wanted me to invite her out to places, even though she admits she want to mess around with other guys. That's so beta, I don't do that.

Dude she has like a few guy friends she manipulates. They all think they have a chance of sleeping with her, while they spend money on dates, give her discounts where they work etc.

If a girl is messing around, and wants no relationship, then it's a fwb type of thing. I'm not spending dates and quality time to get attached to that type of girl wtf lol

 

[Billtx49]

Yes, she only wanted a free drink, dinner, and attention ticket without putting out for it.
Typical bait and switch technique using the bj and sex promises, but can’t do it right now, for her bait…

 

[GoodOne123]

Yes, she only wanted a free drink, dinner, and attention ticket without putting out for it.
Typical bait and switch technique using the bj and sex promises, but can’t do it right now, for her bait…

I can't believe she can be so manipulative, all for a dinner? Wtf how desperate can you be ffs. Surely there was no need for it.

Damn she was a great actor too, made me believe she was so into me.

She's playing with one of the guys I know now. She even told me she doesn't like him that way, yet uses him for free dates. The poor guy is too naive to see.

Lol I am a lot less trusting now

 

[RichardTheFrog]

We need to start holding women who say sociopathic things like this accountable(by immediately dropping them and telling them they are sociopaths) rather than normalizing it or even taking pride in being privy to her "candor"(enlistment, actually, part of being conditioned).

Even if you do, you cannot change the world.

They have the freedom to act like that in society. And it's not just the USA and Europe, either. I talked to a girl from Mexico earlier this year, and her friends did the same thing to guys.

Some people think that girls in the 2nd and 3rd world are not as bad as they are here, but this is untrue.

How can an average citizen like you or I truly hold someone accountable? We are not the law.

What are the chances of EVERY GUY IN THE WORLD changing? If we're gonna go that route, why not stop building them houses, fixing their cars, or building them roads?

Even girls on this forum considering changing an air filter to be some kind of challenging work. They truly don't realize how helpless they are without males.

And when given freedom and the illusion of independence, they show their true selfish colors.