this baffles the crap out of me...

[belividere]

Alright you like Diablo has said you cant figure out all types of women. It is impossible and people are dynamic meaning believe it or not they can change with respect to time. You would be better off spending time thinking and changing yourself.

Your post makes no sense really go back and read the opening post. She was with him for three years and never cheated on him. Now look at one of your most recent posts were you say you had hooked up 3 months ago. WTF? And you are getting married next year yet just got out of a relationship with this girls friend within the past year. And you're 21 what the hell you getting married for anyways? And yes I know she is a model, I think that you brought that up in every reply and in every post on your other thread about being yourself and your reputation.

This girl is probably in a comfort-zone where she is settling for what is there and scared to get out. It could be driven by low self-esteem but it could also be a whole host of other things that you will never figure out. The only person you will ever truly know is yourself. And then her bf says he will kill himself if he isn't with her putting a huge guilt trip down. Maybe she is scared he will and feels that she would be responsible.

And not all women want a man who is in control. Again you cant generalize this. People are different and have different wants, needs and experiences. I know plenty of women and have dated plenty of women who cannot stand not being the one in control.

 

[backbreaker]

well, I don't consider it cheating because me and her had sex before they ever met each other. Plus, we knew it was just sex, no strings attached.

You need to stop with the Judeo-Christian mindset. I love women. Just because I had sex with an attractive women doesn't mean I don't love my GF because I do. Hell, my GF knows we had sex, I told her, but I also told her it didn't mean anything.

If I could, I would have more than one wife, but that's just my way of thinking.

the only reason I said my GF was a model, was to rebute teh point that I was longing for this girl... actually my GF and her are around a tie, but I would give my GF the edge because my friend is very, very skinny and my GF while a size 0 has a coke bottle for a body.

 

[backbreaker]

oh forgot to mention the last couple of times we had sex, her BF was in the hospital (tried to kill himself) and she c ouldn't get any from him for like 2 months becuase of the medicance he was oen.

 

[belividere]

So you are dating a model who wants to marry you and let you have sex with other hot women who are your best friends no-strings attached. WTF are you on this site for if it aint to actually share relevant information? I aint even going any further on this you got some good answers from some of these posts and I dont see why it is an issue anyways.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by flexion_
I have to agree with the moderator on this one.
Why is she calling you every other Saturday morning telling you her problems? - because you are her emotional tampon.

You stated twice in your post that you like her and you are acting AFC towards her. Listen, if you want a piece of her ( I think this is the problem here ) then stop being her emotional tampon.

And where did the moderator allude to this idea in his post?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

oh and my thoughts about her...
you know how there are guys who hang around losers to make themselves feel better? She's probably just hanging on to him to feel better about herself. It was already said that her mother puts her down and she has low self esteem. She uses this guy as a way of power and feeling like a better person. All his AFC tendencies just feed her ego.

 

[backbreaker]

i can't believe i am getting flamed the way I am...lol, oh well. I still dont' think it was a bad question. Regardless of how they look, beatuy is only skin deep. I saw something, and instead of trying to figure it out myself, I tried to get some help here so like minds can help me with a conclusion, but oh well, no biggie.

Also, keep in mind that this girl is my FRIEND and if she has self esteem problems I want to try to help her with thoose.. I figured this COULD be it, but I guess I have never seen personally a physically attractive person have that type of persona.

Also, I am not trying to bang this girl, but we got soo off track with the topic because people here were trying to convence me that I wanted to be with her when I don't, that's how the whole sex thing with her came up, I didn't want it to come up, but my hand was forced by some of the previous posts. The fact that we had sex is irrelvent to the first post.

My question has been answered, but tell me, what does me having sex with this girl have to do with why she likes AFC's? not a damn thing, but that's what we are now discussing.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by belividere
Your post makes no sense really go back and read the opening post. She was with him for three years and never cheated on him. Now look at one of your most recent posts were you say you had hooked up 3 months ago. WTF? And you are getting married next year yet just got out of a relationship with this girls friend within the past year. And you're 21 what the hell you getting married for anyways?

I agree with you and Diablo. I´m sorry backbreaker but this thread is completely pointless!

 

[dietzcoi]

Not only is it pointless, but it seems Backbreaker is living a "Jerry Springer" type life.

1. WTF are you getting married to a "coke bottle" for?
2. Why are you even considering getting married at 21?
3. Why do you have a woman as a BEST FREIND anyway, much the less one you have slept with, and cheated with on your GF?
4. Why are you friends with a women who has a suicidal BF? What if he goes nuts and comes after you?


This is all, all wrong. I am thinking this is all made up.

Dietzcoi

 

[diablo]

well, I don't consider it cheating because me and her had sex before they ever met each other.

Good. So when your fiancee gets gangbanged by 6 guys that she used to date, it's not like she's not actually cheating on you, because they've each had sex with her before.

Hell, my GF knows we had sex, I told her, but I also told her it didn't mean anything.

Even better! "I love you so much, and I know we're about to get married, so I just wanted to let you know that I had meaningless sex with a girl 2-3 months ago. Wait, don't cry - it's not like I cheated on you or anything, because her and I have had sex before!"

the only reason I said my GF was a model, was to rebute teh point that I was longing for this girl...

How stupid of me to have thought that even though you say you have a hot fiancee, that you could still sexually desire another woman, especially one that you've claimed you've been banging for 7+ years... *bangs head on the wall*

Originally posted by dietzcoi
1. WTF are you getting married to a "coke bottle" for?
2. Why are you even considering getting married at 21?
3. Why do you have a woman as a BEST FREIND anyway, much the less one you have slept with, and cheated with on your GF?
4. Why are you friends with a women who has a suicidal BF? What if he goes nuts and comes after you?


This is all, all wrong. I am thinking this is all made up.

You left out #5; that's when he slept with the chick while her mentally unstable boyfriend was in the hospital. Although I'm sure that if he explains why it wasn't cheating, he won't hold any grudges or try to cut him apart with a chainsaw.

I'm starting to think the thread is bogus too...

 

[backbreaker]

That's the difference between you and me... I have the upmost confidence in my abilities with women, and I know wihtout a shadow of a doubt that she isn't getting ****ed by other men, and if she was, then she can leave. it's that simple.

If you must know smartass, me and my GF werent' seeing each other during that period when me and her had sex.

Like I said, I don't give a damn what you think, beause all this isn't the point. Let me go back to the first question...

I wanted to see some other opinions on why she was acting the way she does with men, because to be frank I have never seen anything like it.

I wasn't asking for advice on how to **** her.

I wasn't going to morality court.

I wasn't trying to describe my GF to anyone.

all these came up because of people getting off of the original question and me having to prove myself.



Like I said, if you aren't going to help with the question, dont' bother posting. If you think it's pointless, fine, that's your honest opinion and you are entitled to it. If you think it's bogus, more power to you, however this is somethign that I wanted to know and this forum is put here to answer questions, not to break down people who are l ying.

About her BF, I have meet him before, let's just say it's the last person I am scared of, if I were a scared person which I am not.

 

[diablo]

That's the difference between you and me... I have the upmost confidence in my abilities with women

Actually, I'd have to say I'm rather confident. Also, I back up with I say with pictures and videos - not just words on a computer monitor such as "coke bottle".

If you must know smartass, me and my GF werent' seeing each other during that period when me and her had sex.

Now, now. No need for hostility. So what you're saying now is that you've been dating your g/f for less than 2 months but you've already got plans to get married to her?

Like I said, I don't give a damn what you think, beause all this isn't the point. Let me go back to the first question...

Yes, let's. Here's the one simple answer to everything you've been asking about her: She needs somebody to need her.

I wanted to see some other opinions on why she was acting the way she does with men, because to be frank I have never seen anything like it.

Take some college-level psych classes and learn about the different types of personalities, as well as what her family and relationship history was like growing up. You'll be able to answer your own question soon enough.

 

[backbreaker]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68504

look at that post... pretty much same as mind, a guy wanting to see how a girl could go for what she is currently going for, doesn't want to date her or anything like that, only difference is that's his cousin, this is my friend... why aren't you flaming him saying he knows he wants to **** his cousin?

 

[AMF]

Originally posted by backbreaker
my gosh guys do you listen?

Yeah we're listening, to the incessant whine of some dude prattling witlessly about himself.