ChrisHughes
Don Juan
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- Jul 16, 2013
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I'm spinning plates at the moment, have a lot of options, but there's one girl I've been gaming in the past month who is probably the hottest, and so my emotional investment has been dangerous.
Date one: Just a casual drink, lots of kino, a make-out within the hour, get invited in for coffee, tells me she's "very attracted" to me. More kissing, but we didn't go all the way - I realized I actually liked her and didn't want it to be another cheap same-night lay. She was very sexual, but we both stopped it from escalating.
She initiated texts, kept up communication. I phoned her a few days later, scheduled another date.
Second date: More subdued. Dinner and drinks. She has a very high powered job, and is a total workaholic (long hours, has to travel a lot). She was very tired from having just got back from a work trip. The sexual tension wasn't as great as a result, but there was still a make-out and lots of kino and flirting. Though, no invited coffee invite.
After this, no contact from her. I called her, she said she couldn't do weekday dates because it was too much, so we made plans for the following Saturday.
The week trudges by, and she doesn't initiate one text. When Friday comes, I get what I was expecting: the flake. A family function she forgot about, lots of deadlines, etc, etc. I have ignored the text.
I was thinking of silence for a few weeks and then trying again. Or is the best advice to just leave it? Some more context: this is a woman 5 years older than me (40s, never been married, no kids, and seems to have put the job first her whole life).
Date one: Just a casual drink, lots of kino, a make-out within the hour, get invited in for coffee, tells me she's "very attracted" to me. More kissing, but we didn't go all the way - I realized I actually liked her and didn't want it to be another cheap same-night lay. She was very sexual, but we both stopped it from escalating.
She initiated texts, kept up communication. I phoned her a few days later, scheduled another date.
Second date: More subdued. Dinner and drinks. She has a very high powered job, and is a total workaholic (long hours, has to travel a lot). She was very tired from having just got back from a work trip. The sexual tension wasn't as great as a result, but there was still a make-out and lots of kino and flirting. Though, no invited coffee invite.
After this, no contact from her. I called her, she said she couldn't do weekday dates because it was too much, so we made plans for the following Saturday.
The week trudges by, and she doesn't initiate one text. When Friday comes, I get what I was expecting: the flake. A family function she forgot about, lots of deadlines, etc, etc. I have ignored the text.
I was thinking of silence for a few weeks and then trying again. Or is the best advice to just leave it? Some more context: this is a woman 5 years older than me (40s, never been married, no kids, and seems to have put the job first her whole life).