Thinking this girl has "ex"cess baggage

[DJHoolahoop]

hey guys,

well i hung out with this girl this weekend and things appeared to go well, but when i had to leave, some things threw me off. She mentioned she had an ex, but I asked if it was going to be a problem and she said no.

Now I'm not so sure and I'm getting the feeling that he may have more of a part in her life than I thought previously. I'm wondering if I should just go on thinking she was right when she said there's nothing up between them no more or blatantly asking if there is any real potential between me and her atm.

I like this girl and I get the feeling that she likes me and would like the chance to see it go further, but definitely not if she's still involved with her ex. So do I ask about it? and if she says no, should I just tell her that I don't like wasting my time and would rather know now if he'll be a problem or if it's too soon? Or should I be all like "forget about him and move on to me, you wouldn't want to miss out on that would you?" or something similar.

Jim

 

[Kaptain]

Originally posted by DJHoolahoop
She mentioned she had an ex

Shock Horror!

Hoolahoop why would up and cumming DJ like youself give 2 thoughts about some chicks ex?

If you talk to her about her ex you are acting like her friend.

Originally posted by DJHoolahoop
forget about him and move on to me, you wouldn't want to miss out on that would you?

That would be acting like her lover :woo:

 

[Fash]

sometimes women need that extra push to move on from the "trap" of the ex boyfriend.

You need to show her that you are the alpha male and that you have higher value. Before you know it, she wont even remember the chump's name.

Next time you see her, do not mention her ex. If she brings the subject off, change the subject, act like that guy's whole existance is nothing to you.

Read up on NLP. While you are with her, constantly remind her what a good time she is having, teach her to associate those good feelings with your presence.

It's no big deal. Women move on from the ex's all the time. She just needs that extra encouragement.