Exhumed
Senior Don Juan
How much does the environment you live in affect your chances at meeting/sleeping with women? I would guess, a lot. I'm a sophomore at a well-known party school, and I'm in a fraternity, but I'm still a virgin. While college girls may be sluttier and partygoers may get drunker than people at bars/clubs, there's one thing college isn't great for: practicing game. With the exception of drinking holidays, most parties at my school are really nothing special, and weekends like this (the weekend after Halloween) there's barely anything going on.
I know if I were living in a big city, I could go out every night of the week, or even during the day, and meet beautiful girls who if I failed with I would never see again. I'm thinking of moving to LA, and this is one of many reasons--I want to enter the music industry, I hate cold weather, I smoke weed, etc; just to make it clear that I'm not thinking of moving JUST to hook up with women. I'm going to move to LA regardless, it's just a question of now or later. My favorite things in life are music, warm weather, partying/going out, smoking weed, and girls, and I have money, so please don't try to tell me I shouldn't want to live there; as far as I can tell it's the capital of everything I enjoy.
I'd have to transfer schools and I'd be far away from my family, and for a few months I'd be in a strange new place with absolutely no friends; everybody I know would say "That's a random decision, why not just go to grad school there?" but I'm tired of living here and I want some variety and excitement in my life.
Feel free to weigh in on the whole idea if you want, but I'm wondering one thing in particular: Would moving to LA make it easier to bring my game up to a workable level?
I can't go out five or six nights a week here, and most weekend parties aren't great. I've never had sex, and I make out with a girl roughly once every three months, but it's not like I can't flirt with a girl or carry on a conversation; people with less social skills have probably made more improvements in as much time as it would take me to get good. If I moved to LA, I feel like I'd be able to go out really frequently until I had a few girls I could hook up with regularly. In fact, that appears to be how every single pickup guru out there found success, the largest portion of them in LA specifically.
On the other hand, I'm not 21 yet; I'm 19. Don't get me wrong, I'd have no problem with going to under 21 venues and hitting on high school girls in the meantime (it would be still legal, and easier), but I'd probably be missing out on all the good clubs and environments in which to meet women since I'm only 19. And I have no idea what college parties in SoCal are like.
I know if I were living in a big city, I could go out every night of the week, or even during the day, and meet beautiful girls who if I failed with I would never see again. I'm thinking of moving to LA, and this is one of many reasons--I want to enter the music industry, I hate cold weather, I smoke weed, etc; just to make it clear that I'm not thinking of moving JUST to hook up with women. I'm going to move to LA regardless, it's just a question of now or later. My favorite things in life are music, warm weather, partying/going out, smoking weed, and girls, and I have money, so please don't try to tell me I shouldn't want to live there; as far as I can tell it's the capital of everything I enjoy.
I'd have to transfer schools and I'd be far away from my family, and for a few months I'd be in a strange new place with absolutely no friends; everybody I know would say "That's a random decision, why not just go to grad school there?" but I'm tired of living here and I want some variety and excitement in my life.
Feel free to weigh in on the whole idea if you want, but I'm wondering one thing in particular: Would moving to LA make it easier to bring my game up to a workable level?
I can't go out five or six nights a week here, and most weekend parties aren't great. I've never had sex, and I make out with a girl roughly once every three months, but it's not like I can't flirt with a girl or carry on a conversation; people with less social skills have probably made more improvements in as much time as it would take me to get good. If I moved to LA, I feel like I'd be able to go out really frequently until I had a few girls I could hook up with regularly. In fact, that appears to be how every single pickup guru out there found success, the largest portion of them in LA specifically.
On the other hand, I'm not 21 yet; I'm 19. Don't get me wrong, I'd have no problem with going to under 21 venues and hitting on high school girls in the meantime (it would be still legal, and easier), but I'd probably be missing out on all the good clubs and environments in which to meet women since I'm only 19. And I have no idea what college parties in SoCal are like.