Think I've just found a perfect pivot :P + general status

[Kineti[C]harm]

I think I've found another pretty perfect pivot I love going out with my two best friends (both hot females) but one has a REALLY jealous boyfriend (He actually went home and took my bestfriend with him when I met them at a club because she was so happy to see me and he didn't like that LOL ).

Well anyways this girl that lives at the same dormcollective as I do phoned me last night and asked if I wanted to go out with her friend and her and I was like ye sure. So I pulled a friend with me and we were 2 boys and 2 girls. Now this girl is one of those supercute girls, not hot or smooth body or anything, just those cute, slender and stylish girls (She uses one of those cool artsy caps/hats etc). I've met her out before and she was really fun to dance with. Now she has a BF which is not jealous and that is what makes her so great because she does NOT cheat but she does want to have fun!

Was out dancing with her last night and DAMN was she on fire, hands down my backpockets, she constantly would feel up my biceps/triceps, chest and grind really hard. Sometimes she would grind her ass up against me and I was to just feel her up. This went on and on, really fun. I'm pretty sure she's into me cause of all the stuff she does, it's like she uses me for some perverted sexual thingy or just to feel a hot dude Whatever.

But anyways now I have yet another girl (And this one lives 1 minute walk away) that i can go out with, really cute, great dancer, loves bodycontact. The only negative she has as a pivot is that if it's only her and me and it's late she wants most of the attention/dancetime but when I bring my friend like yesterday (until the "#K%"O# Left at like midnight or 01) it works GREAT.

Starting to have a pretty big report of girls I can take out now and just have fun with Now I just need to find out which of my male friends are attractive enough and has game enough to go out and give a fvck with

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So current status:
Seeing one great girl (not exclusive but it's fun and good sex and potential)

Girl I thought I had blown with (She found out I was seeing other girls and listen to this some FVCKER from back home that also moved here managed to drop a ****load of bull**** about me behind my back) suddenly called me and said she really wanted to know wtf was up, some good talking etc and she wanted to see me this week (she is home for weekend). This girl is SWEEET, has her own big appartment payed by her father and ****.

Got a couple of girls I'm playing pingpong games with on SMS (pingpong as in they are attracted to me, but are trying to rationalize not doing anything because I'm a player).

Got a couple girls I've sexed earlier (including girl I picked up at a club without saying a word to, that was fun) that I meet occationaly out at clubs etc that are constantly trying to get more action.

Gotten a couple more female friends, upto 20+ close female friends in vicinity + two best friends in same town. + Several female friends that know me via other female friends and parties here (These are both friends and not because several of them are showing interest but I just keep them as friends until whatever).

Social circles are growing more and more (I still need to hit school more and hook up with my best friends there more cause they just make me feel good and are great fun +++ they got great female friends )

Only bad thing these days is that I'm behind on my economy Managed to spend abit too much for a student so I'm 200$ short until studentloan and paycheck comes.

Life: GREAT though I think I might actually start to consider a relationship now so if girl that called me again is game I'm gonna see how that turns out cause that girl has alot of good stuff going for her as a potential relationship(test) (Great looking, funny, very intelligent, taking a good education, big free appartment in town ++)

What do I feel I need to change with myself?
- Drink less (Ye I drink too much when I party, not a bad thing but not a good thing either)
- Show more emotions but not alot more but don't seem so careless
- Give more of a fvck towards strangers and new girls. Actually start picking up (more). Since I generally don't do straight pickups because I don't need to, but I miss out on alot of fun by not doing it because I could meet alot more people which I love.
- Get a friggin haircut when I get money, 2.5 months since my last one so I need to recolour and get a new style again.
- Get better control of my economy.

But most important of all: Have even MORE FUN!

 

[AMF]

With all due respect, what is the point of this post?

Oh forgive me, I get it! You just wanted to tell us how great your life is. AGAIN.

Heres some quotes from other threads.

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Parties, social gatherings. I mean I NEVER go straight to clubs anymore, I did when I was like 18. Now we always have some party first and maybe hit clubs afterwards and if we do we have an afterparty. Sometimes we'll go a bunch out to dinner or movies or whatever. And no this isn't ONE gang, I have several of these social circles I can go do this with and that's whats nice.

Mostly party party party. But if I'm low on cash or whatever else comes my way it's usually some date or dinner or movie or movienight at someones house or whatever.

Hang on, heres an older post by you

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Not only that. At the same time I'm high energetic, playfull etc I will have this sexually driven "mysterious" aura, like there is something more to me. I think it's all in the eye and bodylanguage

And another one. Here the topic is opening doors for women. You hijack the thread to tell us what a suave player you are.

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Open the damn door! I also open house/buildingdoors on dates (especially first dates)! When a girl cooked for me I even helped with the dishes, cleaning them off and putting them in the dishwasher!

She was really impressed by my acting... That is opening door, helping with dishes etc! I was stupid though and started seeing another girl the day after and I was very stupid. This girl called/SMS(TXTD) our fellow female friends almost every SINGLE day for 3 weeks asking what I was upto (in those 3 weeks I sent aprox 3 SMS to her....). Finally they told her I was seeing someone else. God that fvcked me over and she got MAD pissed and wouldn't see me. The dumb thing was that I was completely broke two of those weeks so I actually couldn't see her due to 20 min traveling distance with buss...

Fun thing was that I saw her out friday or something and tried apologizing (Ye FVCK IT I DO ACTUALLY APOLOGIZE. And besides I did treat her like ****)... She said lets just drop it and all that and I just went dancing. Whole time I was dancing she was looking at me and you could see the sadness inn her eyes! Sooooo I'm thinking I'm gonna try and madgame her on the side abit later on!

But anyways, being a gentleman = BIG YES if it fits your style. If you are the badass motharfvckar rockstar type then no... I'm the boyish player that dresses suave (shirt, dressjacket etc) and even though I'm a player I have Style and I'm a gentleman when the situation calls for it!

And another

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Btw just to tell you a fun fact about two of these best friends of mine... First time they saw (yes SAW not talked) me they thought damn hot looking ******* they wanted to have sex with, they STILL think I'm that ******* but at the same time they care for me and tell me everything...

Honestly, no offense intended Kinetic, but quite a few of your posts seem to end up referring to yourself, and whats so great about being him. You come off as the good looking, suave, confident socialiser with a huge range of friends and activities to choose from.

All of which makes you wonder how you found time to post over 8 posts every day for the last 4 months.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

This post was about PIVOT and how good they are =)

I also forgot to mention how reading here and reading peoples successreports have given me a confidence boost and renewed joy for life. This post is yes about how things are going good for me but it's also ment to make people see that everything can go great =) There are certain things from my past that would make me now seem like impossible. You could call it a complete 180 degree turn.

I also use myself often as a reference for what has worked when people ask questions. Like the dooropening thread, I use references as how things like that has worked for me in REALLIFE situations. Those are the only things I can refer to, MY experiences.

 

[Genghis Juan]

KC,

You're in a good place. I think the economic pivot that you mentioned becomes especially important if not as important as the DJ skills once out of college; depending on the kind of girls your targeting. Getting a good job, having class, being well-spoken, living in a nice place, etc. are all part of the "looks" that girls consider a little later on.

As far as scouting for fellow DJ's, I wouldn't put so much importance on the dude's looks. I would put more importance on his DJ skills. There are alot of average looking guys with Jedi-like DJ skills out there that I have seen, and there are alot of model-like guys out there that attract girls like a magnet but can't hang on because they have a personality of a door knob.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Yes I really do need to fix my economy. I have a decent sparetimejob out of university that pays 14$ an hour and I get 900$ (almost half goes to rent, like 400-450 somewhere) a month as a studentloan/scholarship but it's not enough or I'm very bad at managing it that is

Ye it's not like I'm going for a DJ by his looks but I don't know, it just makes me feel more comfortable if the guy looks good, atleast dresses good etc. It just makes me feel more at home and more in the "right" company. I don't really care about it though but it's a nice extra. The skills is the most important yes, that he knows how to talk, know what makes women tick etc.

 

[Quickclicker]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
Yes I really do need to fix my economy. I have a decent sparetimejob out of university that pays 14$ an hour and I get 900$ (almost half goes to rent, like 400-450 somewhere) a month as a studentloan/scholarship but it's not enough or I'm very bad at managing it that is

Ye it's not like I'm going for a DJ by his looks but I don't know, it just makes me feel more comfortable if the guy looks good, atleast dresses good etc. It just makes me feel more at home and more in the "right" company. I don't really care about it though but it's a nice extra. The skills is the most important yes, that he knows how to talk, know what makes women tick etc.

Hey, Kinetic, just curious but what job are you doing that pays you $14/hour? I work during the summer time as a computer technician, and I thought I was doing good making $8/hour . What year are you btw? Thanks.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

I work with computers, all sorts of stuff.

I'm first year in this course, took some diff course last year that bored me so I switched to psychology this year. Going to try something new next year.