Think I'm losing a plate
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SandHawk
Master Don Juan
Just be honest with her? It's a girl's task to bring up the "where are we going with this?", but from there on it is your task to work out what you want from her.
Feeding her bullsh*t is wrong in my opinion, as you'd be leading her on, something I really hate. Just be open about it. And yes, that means you might lose a plate. Just make sure you have backups
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Feeding her bullsh*t is wrong in my opinion, as you'd be leading her on, something I really hate. Just be open about it. And yes, that means you might lose a plate. Just make sure you have backups
.women haze
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Honesty is the best policy...you should be having more than one plate on your menu.
Plates come and go. Once you hear that line you have a choice to make. Lie and BS and extend it until you can find someone else or tell her the truth and its over immediately. Oh you might still get a fvck or two out of her..but for all purposes its dead. Usually when you hear that line, that kinda means they have been bringing up the spare guy and are ready to either try it on with him or stay on with you. Gotta have that next branch, so don't be hurt or surprised when you see her with another guy or her FB status changes to in a relationship very soon.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
SweetDannyJ
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Quick tip to help your game along:
Before being honest and open, which I also totally recommend, ask her what games she thinks you are playing.
However you go about convos in your relationship with her, bring it up and try to get some info. There's a hole somewhere, apparent with the "enough games" remark, and she might help you fix it by exposing some transparency you are unaware of.
Before being honest and open, which I also totally recommend, ask her what games she thinks you are playing.
However you go about convos in your relationship with her, bring it up and try to get some info. There's a hole somewhere, apparent with the "enough games" remark, and she might help you fix it by exposing some transparency you are unaware of.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
K-man said:
nothing...except try to avoid that next time..she clearly has feelings for you, and it is something you probably knew.
you were probably bitter a time or two over women?
**** I still get bitter thinking about a few things from YEARS ago..why didn't I have SS at 12, instead of 21!!!
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
K-man said:
she is a woman.
she can trash you on FB and there will be 10 guys ready to help heal her wounds.
you trash a girl on facebook and your an ******* creep.
