Ok guys so I was visiting my friend in another part of the country (UK) 6 weeks ago. Met this chick in bar who lived in the area, got chatting and we swapped numbers. Next day she whatsapped me the usual 'nice to meet you' etc. I responded and we had a brief text chat.
So I left the next day and went back to my home town. This chick knows I live 300 miles away but continues to msg me daily. Over the course of the past six weeks we have msged daily, skyped and phonecalls regularly. She was coming on pretty strong telling me how much she likes me and finds me attractive, sending me pics are herself half naked and just generally showing a degree of interest (well as much as a chick can via txt, phonecalls and skype). It seems we have similar interests and have good chat, Im teasing her, negging her and just generally making her laugh.
Everything seems to be going well and we agree that next time I visit my friend I will meet her for a date. I visit my friend fairly regularly for a week or so and was planning on going next month. Now heres the problem. I suspect shes playing me. Judging by her facebook it seems she has LOTS of guy friends (mainly guy friends) and she seems to be adding new guys almost every day (often from different parts of the country, she lives in a tourist city so will no doubt be meeting guys on holiday). From what I can tell she seems to have plenty of orbiters who are always liking her facebook pics and posts. I feel as if shes telling me what I want to hear (e.g. she cant stop thinking about me) and generally feeding my ego but it has a sense of her not being genuine about it.
Now recently I have started to slow down on the msging. She still texts her daily but Ive started taking hours (sometimes all day) to respond and have generally shown less enthusiasm than before. Im kinda starting to feel like Ive wasted the past 6 weeks talking to her and suspect she may be telling other guys the same stuff she tells me. Obviously with her living so far away I have no way to prove this but I have a strong suspicion.
So DJ's I need advice. Do I just cut her off and forget about her? Do I carry on and go visit as planned (although I suspicious on wasting my time as she may flake or LJBF) or do I back off and maintain minimal contact??
I admit despite gaming other chicks at the same time and having options I do feel as if she has sucked me in to some extent (I know, I know, schoolboy error). I suspect she knows exactly what shes doing and likes the attention.
I was thinking of maybe just ignoring her for a week or so and see how that goes?? I have no problem with just walking away and never speaking to her again but on the other hand wouldnt pass up a chance to bang her as shes very very hot.
So I left the next day and went back to my home town. This chick knows I live 300 miles away but continues to msg me daily. Over the course of the past six weeks we have msged daily, skyped and phonecalls regularly. She was coming on pretty strong telling me how much she likes me and finds me attractive, sending me pics are herself half naked and just generally showing a degree of interest (well as much as a chick can via txt, phonecalls and skype). It seems we have similar interests and have good chat, Im teasing her, negging her and just generally making her laugh.
Everything seems to be going well and we agree that next time I visit my friend I will meet her for a date. I visit my friend fairly regularly for a week or so and was planning on going next month. Now heres the problem. I suspect shes playing me. Judging by her facebook it seems she has LOTS of guy friends (mainly guy friends) and she seems to be adding new guys almost every day (often from different parts of the country, she lives in a tourist city so will no doubt be meeting guys on holiday). From what I can tell she seems to have plenty of orbiters who are always liking her facebook pics and posts. I feel as if shes telling me what I want to hear (e.g. she cant stop thinking about me) and generally feeding my ego but it has a sense of her not being genuine about it.
Now recently I have started to slow down on the msging. She still texts her daily but Ive started taking hours (sometimes all day) to respond and have generally shown less enthusiasm than before. Im kinda starting to feel like Ive wasted the past 6 weeks talking to her and suspect she may be telling other guys the same stuff she tells me. Obviously with her living so far away I have no way to prove this but I have a strong suspicion.
So DJ's I need advice. Do I just cut her off and forget about her? Do I carry on and go visit as planned (although I suspicious on wasting my time as she may flake or LJBF) or do I back off and maintain minimal contact??
I admit despite gaming other chicks at the same time and having options I do feel as if she has sucked me in to some extent (I know, I know, schoolboy error). I suspect she knows exactly what shes doing and likes the attention.
I was thinking of maybe just ignoring her for a week or so and see how that goes?? I have no problem with just walking away and never speaking to her again but on the other hand wouldnt pass up a chance to bang her as shes very very hot.
