Think good-looking girls have their lives figured out? Think again.

[Masculinity]

Went out with a an Asian HB7 last night. She has an amazing ass and a set of C-cups--easy-going, down to earth kind of girl. These girls do exist, but they are extremely rare, so I thought "either I hit the jackpot with this girl or I am about to notice some red flags." It was the latter.

After building rapport, I got her to talk about her past. She admitted being a former alcoholic, hanging out with heroin addicts, and getting kicked out of her house once and moving in with a guy she had known for 48 hours. Upon hearing this, I gave my gut all the credit for warning me (trust me, it is right most of the time). The girl is 18 years old and has a high-paying job. However, when we were playing pool, I noticed multiple cuts on her arms and inner thighs (she was wearing a skirt). She was loving my game. I grabbed her @ss a few times when she was bent over to shoot the ball and grabbed her t!ts. She said with a huge smile on her face "woah, you are a touchy one!" I smiled and said, "Mhm...I think she likes me," followed by getting punched on the shoulder. She then admitted she was not wearing any underwear and started grabbing my butt and making sexual references. She also hinted that she wanted to see me again "why not!?" she replied.

Unfortunately for her, I am going to have to give her the boot. A girl who is a former addict and has a bunch of guy friends smells like a high probability of acquiring an STI. Just because she looks good and is open about her sexuality (which equates to an easy fuck) does not mean she is good for one. So, that is my morale of the story. I am sure a number of you would still bang her, but I am really particular about STI's after taking a Human Sexuality class. On another note, I went out with another Asian girl about a year ago; she was a dancer with a solid rear end, an awesome singer, and a cool personality. Got it all, right? Nope, she turned out to be bipolar. Man, a lot of these women have a lot of issues--and I thought WE (men) had crap going on...trust me it is nothing compared to these two ^. Any thoughts or comments are welcomed.

Keep being money,

-R

 

[Harry Wilmington]

(Stands up. Applauds)

Bravo. There are so many guys on this site who meet girls that tell them similar stories about their lives, yet still ask the question, "So, how can I make her just an F-buddy?" I have found that some girls aren't worth the trouble, even for a simple lay.

 

[floydb25]

She sounds like pure trash. This is why you pay attention to EVERYTHING, and think with your head. These are the types you bang and forget, or just forget. Every crazy slut has a similar behavioral pattern, and past experiences to share. Red flags are always going off everywhere, but we tend to excuse, justify, sympathize, and try to change 'em. Good thing you kept on guard. Saved yourself a lot of torment.

But, I never thought they had anything figured out. Good looking girls are usually trouble.

 

[dap]

Nope, she turned out to be bipolar and had episodes while on our date.

You meant borderline. Bipolar is a completely different disease, but people confuse the two a lot here. Boderline personality disorder is marked by many short/intesne/firery relationships, splitting (loving or hating someone with no in between), cutting, suicide attempts.

Bipolar disorder is a debilitating disease that cycles between periods of depression (low mood) and mania (extremly high mood with racing thoughts and decreased need for sleep).

I study this stuff so I thought I'd help out.

 

[st_99]

your gut is good to trust because we pick up on small very subtle things sometimes but aren't able to really put them in context or are not even aware on a concious level. But it triggers us to step back and be suspicious.

Last girl I banged was seemingly very nice, shy type, well educated, great career, and any person meeting her would have zero reason to believe she isnt anything but a normal everyday cute girl.

After a couple times hanging out before i banged her I said to myself, "either this is the sweetest girl in the word or she is a complete and total fvcking cvnt."

Now how could i possibly have such huge conflicting views? that doesnt make any sense. Its because i picked up on a couple tiny seemingly insignificant things about her and it turns out i was right. The b1tch is a straight crazy ho. Its just hidden right beneath the surface.

 

[Burroughs]

take this as law

100% of the good looking, non-fvcked up biyaches are taken/locked down by some dude since the age of 16

no exceptions

the only way to get a good chick is to steal her away from her man by being a better catch

there are NO good looking and good character single girls after age 19....none..pick either good looking and batsh!t or good character and fugly....you aint getting both bank on it.

and if you are able to steal a 'good' girl from her man...how good was she really

 

[BeDJ]

take this as law

100% of the good looking, non-fvcked up biyaches are taken/locked down by some dude since the age of 16

no exceptions

the only way to get a good chick is to steal her away from her man by being a better catch

there are NO good looking and good character single girls after age 19....none..pick either good looking and batsh!t or good character and fugly....you aint getting both bank on it.

and if you are able to steal a 'good' girl from her man...how good was she really

Well....fvck

 

[donking]

move to a state where legal age is 16

 

[Masculinity]

You meant borderline. Bipolar is a completely different disease, but people confuse the two a lot here. Boderline personality disorder is marked by many short/intesne/firery relationships, splitting (loving or hating someone with no in between), cutting, suicide attempts.

Bipolar disorder is a debilitating disease that cycles between periods of depression (low mood) and mania (extremly high mood with racing thoughts and decreased need for sleep).

I study this stuff so I thought I'd help out.

Good observation, I think I made it appear as if we only hung out once. However, we saw each other a few times (because of class together) and I noticed the differences in her behavior (from one day to the other). I did not see immediate changes in one single occasion--that would be borderline.

 

[C-quenced]

I would just **** her and leave her.

 

[Trump]

take this as law

there are NO good looking and good character single girls after age 19....none..pick either good looking and batsh!t or good character and fugly....you aint getting both bank on it.

By that you have to be born with a silver spoon in your mouth, because average, normal, decent, hardworking, law abiding isn't going to get you anywhere.

 

[Masculinity]

100% of the good looking, non-fvcked up biyaches are taken/locked down by some dude since the age of 16, no exceptions.[T]he only way to get a good chick is to steal her away from her man by being a better catch.

[T]here are NO good looking and good character single girls after age 19...
none...pick either good looking and batsh!t or good character and fugly....you aint getting both bank on it. [A]nd if you are able to steal a 'good' girl from her man...how good was she really

This mentality will inevitably lead to frustration and helplessness. They cannot all be taken; that's a hasty generalization. There are desirable women [in a limited number] who are single, just waiting for one of us to have the balls to approach and pass their shit tests. Meeting women is actually quite simple, finding one that is all you want is what is difficult.

On the other hand, though, I agree that most girls with good characters tend to be on the less attractive side of the looks spectrum. It is basically a trade-off between looks and good character. We are all primates, stealing a girl is not something that hasn't been done before and it won't be the last time it happens when one does it. I have stolen girls before; it is dangerous, but can also be rewarding

 

[AAAgent]

Just had a huge rant about how retarded women are.

The ulitimate realization is, if you give them a chance to talk and spill their guts out, you will always hear sh1t you don't want to hear. If you take charge and direct them and the conversation you won't really have to hear anything you don't want to. Keep everything lighthearted and happy too this way things do stray too far from that.

 

[Hexagram]

We are all primates, stealing a girl is not something that hasn't been done before and it won't be the last time it happens when one does it. I have stolen girls before; it is dangerous, but can also be rewarding

Not sure how this can be rewarding. If she branch swings from someone else to you,who's to say that she won't do it to you?

 

[HalfAddict]

move to a state where legal age is 16

Dude, I live in Indiana and I still would not get with a 16 year old... aside from the social taboo.... do you remember what 16 year old girls are like?

No thanks.

 

[Masculinity]

Not sure how this can be rewarding. If she branch swings from someone else to you,who's to say that she won't do it to you?

The reward is getting the girl and have her bang you without you being in a relationship with her. Sure, she could cheat on you with another guy. But that is why become DJ's, otherwise we'd just be hoping that girls like us the way we are and play the dating game blindly.

Girls who have boyfriends and are unhappy are also easy lays; my paradigm is: as long as you aren't banging a married chick, everything is valid.

Just had a huge rant about how retarded women are.

The ulitimate realization is, if you give them a chance to talk and spill their guts out, you will always hear sh1t you don't want to hear. If you take charge and direct them and the conversation you won't really have to hear anything you don't want to. Keep everything lighthearted and happy too this way things do stray too far from that.

That's true, you are very likely to hear things you do not want to hear; however, not knowing the truth is ignorance. It is better to know the truth and then make an informed decision given the circumstances. What if a girl you are banging is HIV positive and you never knew it because you didn't direct the conversation that way? Not only would you acquire the detrimental and literally lethal disease, but if you're banging other plates, you would be a contributing spreader of the former. Condoms break and unprotected sex happens even if you don't intend it, especially when alcohol is present. Think it through; it is better to know the truth, even if it's fugly.

-R

 

[AAAgent]

Thought you might say that....and this philosophy that a friend instilled in me was....

whatever happened in the past is the past and don't bring it into your future. You lead the way and create a new future for the 2 of you. Unless it's necessary, don't bring up anything that isn't needed. number of parters, your first love, etc. leave all that sh1t out. STD, baby, any phobia's let them know that stuff as it is important and can affect your future. If it doesn't affect your future, leave it out.

 

[krpt]

Thought you might say that....and this philosophy that a friend instilled in me was....

whatever happened in the past is the past and don't bring it into your future. You lead the way and create a new future for the 2 of you. Unless it's necessary, don't bring up anything that isn't needed. number of parters, your first love, etc. leave all that sh1t out. STD, baby, any phobia's let them know that stuff as it is important and can affect your future. If it doesn't affect your future, leave it out.

Dumb, glib post.

History matters, and you have to be brain-dead to believe otherwise.

 

[AAAgent]

Dumb, glib post.

History matters, and you have to be brain-dead to believe otherwise.

noob. first post and your already setting yourself to get owned.

No guy wants to hear about all the ****s his chick has sucked or about any crazy drama filled relationship the girl went through, vice versa. Great if your not insecure and don't care about those things. Sure history matters but you learn from the mistakes not every single minute details. Once again, you mention the mistakes.

Unless it's something that a need to know....you leave the baggage behind. Every relationship should have a fresh start and shouldn't be judged off a previous relationship. Now if your divorced, STD's, single mom, drug addict, those are things you need to know and the only part of the history that should be brought up, otherwise your just setting yourself up to fail.

 

[floydb25]

Just had a huge rant about how retarded women are.

The ulitimate realization is, if you give them a chance to talk and spill their guts out, you will always hear sh1t you don't want to hear. If you take charge and direct them and the conversation you won't really have to hear anything you don't want to. Keep everything lighthearted and happy too this way things do stray too far from that.

I agree, but from a different perspective. Its not that you should keep things light to not hear bad things - you should keep things light to not attach yourself in leui of them. You dont spill your heart out, have your head in the clouds, focus on a relationship, avoid red flags, etc. You just chill, have a good time with no expectations, and PAY ATTENTION.

They're going to reveal **** regardless. Almost every crazy slut I dated had baggage like this. They talk about it so quickly, because its always on their mind. Its all them. Everything they are telling you. Thats why theyre crazy. Its also why theyre always *****ing. *****ing excessively, having baggage, acting slutty, being crazy, hating this and that, being obsessed with drama, etc are all linked together. And theyre all red flags. Sane, normal, decent people DONT do this. They dont have a horrible past, they dont ***** from day 1, they dont require emotional support in the form of a pseudo-therapist, they dont share their **** stories, get wasted, talk about ****, and so on.

This is why its vital to not be desperate, needy, obsessive, etc, and also to have standards. Not only does it attract them, but it prevents you from dating a complete dumbass or nutcase. Too many people learn game to attract women, and thats it. When they SHOULD be using certain techniques to weed them out, as well. Instead of, "Yeah, this ***** doesnt like me... WHAT CAN I DO?" [Insert gameage] "Oh yeah... I did well... The psycho likes me! HA HA. HIGH FIVES GUYS!"

:cuss:

I hate you.