of course if you're successful with yourself, you will be successful with anything.
but directly regarding females...my best advice is to try to be 'just friends' with a few hotties. i'm talking hb12s. if you've got charm you can pull it off. they would never get with you, but appreciate your effort and confidence and are willing to be seen in public with you quite often. ask them questions about the guys....go out with them and observe how guys deal with them. I've found when you can put yourself in a womens shoes you can start to grasp why they act certain ways and why the DJ works. I can't explain why they randomly cry, or why they ***** at nothing. . but i've noticed that in a day or two of hanging out with very beautiful women... i realize they have to deal with guys trying to get them ALL OF THE TIME. if you want success with girls, learn what everyone else is doing, and do something else.
i didn't understand the whole 'be an *******' deal until i had a girl unknowingly explain it to me. she was a friend i was with at a bar and we were just having drinks one night. id rate her a 10. so i ask her whats new & she tells me about this guy. lets just call him justin. before we get into justin, let me make it clear this girl has got some sugar daddy in a mercedes buying her whatever she wants. back to justin.. so a few weeks ago she meets this guy justin and they totally hit it off good and he got her number. she said he was really confident and really into photography. well he never called her and of course she never called him and she told me she figured he was too busy with photography or something. so he calls her up randomly and talks to her like they're best friends. she says he never even mentioned that he didn't call. then she tells me she thinks he has a gf because he talks about a girl that helps him with photography a lot. so justin gets to know my friend pretty good and i ask her if shes into him and she says yes, but she doesn't think he is into her or has time for her. this is a totally beautiful woman saying some random college student studying photography doesn't have time for her. she tells me sometimes he calls and hes all nice and its like they're meant for eachother, then sometimes he calls and it seems like hes just trying to figure out whos number this is in his cell phone.
this guy totally won over my friend using all the steps explained on this site, except i understood it from a different perspective. although the girl is playing these games, this is stuff they've been programmed to do and they (for the most part) are completely unaware they are filtering thru the sub-alphas.
1. he met her, got a number
2. he proved to her that he is well satisfied with or without her presence.
3. he created a curiousity dependency by having fluctuation moods but consistent contact. she knew what he was capable of, but not what to expect. any time he called she would go crazy wondering if hes going to sweet talk her, or if hes just 'checking in'.
4. she thinks that he doesn't have much time so when they hang out, theres gonna be a lot of action.
guys are very basic in nature and any advice they give on this subject is going to be something direct, to the point, and psuedo general so that it applies to more than one person. females are the total opposite. if you friend up a female and you can trust shes giving you legit advice.. then by all means do it. just be sure to filter out the bull**** (90% of what she says) vs. the facts. try to relate what you learn here to what they say. although they speak a different language, there is a link between what we discuss here and what women discuss --there--> you just have to understand it thru the eyes of a woman.
no woman could ever accurately explain a guy to another woman... and we're basic ;D
p.s. being constantly seen in public with beautiful women is a good thing when you're seen in public without beautiful women!!
