CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
1). Don't cope with the The Wall because it is bullshvt
Women will always have males worshipping them for the rest of their lives. Men on the other hand have a wall because we have to offer more things than our looks and we value younger women. Women under the age of 25 outside sugar babies & passport prostitutes are not looking for older men period. In addition, the later you wait to interact with women, the more difficult it becomes. Men coming into college with little experience with women often have a brutal time adjusting. Men waiting until their 30s & beyond have the highest risk of getting owned the worst.
2). Girls care about physical attraction first-
If a girl doesn’t find you physically attractive, it’s over before it even begins. Attraction comes first, followed by personality, confidence, and then game. The good news is that women are attracted to a variety of types, so you’re not SOL just because you’re not a stereotypical "Chad." Focus on improving your presentation and personal hygiene—it will make attracting women much easier than trying to rely on tricks or manipulation.
There were many times when girls showed clear interest in me, but I completely missed the signs, either because I was too arrogant or too scared to take action. Looking back, I realize I could have lost my virginity much earlier and gained valuable experience with women, rather than struggling to break the ice well into my twenties.
4). Learn to read what women want initially-
Not every girl is looking for a boyfriend, so learn to give them what they want. Too many guys are trying to turn street property in to girlfriends and wives into street property. STAWP IT!
5). Yes, race matters, so adjust your game plan
Some Girls will not give you a rat’s chance because of your race. Some girls will only fvck you and not proceed further because of your race. Some girls will only like you because of your race. Some girls don’t care about your race and will see beyond color. Filter out the racist girls, and make do with the rest.
6). Women are op in the early
The girl you are asking out on a first date is more than likely talking to 3 other dudes and banging an ex/certified side dude on the slide. The average man must accept that he will suffer a lot of mental abuse during the early stages of dating. I recommend taking hiatuses from dating after dealing with enough trauma, breakups, and etc to reset your mindset. Guys that refuse to take breaks end up bitter, jaded, and black pilled.
7). Learn to be yourself and stop frauding
Most men struggle in the dating game because they’re either lazy, overly entitled, or often both. I’ll admit this described me at one point. It wasn’t until I focused on my own priorities that I started developing better chemistry with women.
This shift led to easier conversations, a natural aura of mystery (rather than forced tactics like taking twice as long to text back), less tolerance for low-interest behavior, meeting women in places outside of bars and dating apps, and women naturally gravitating toward me instead of being repelled.
At the end of the day, many guys will continue to face these struggles until they drop the fraudulent persona and become genuinely comfortable with themselves.
8). Be more social outside parties-
In hindsight, most people form meaningful connections outside of parties and bars, and I completely missed this point during college. If you haven’t mastered the ability to socialize beyond these settings, you’ll struggle to build relationships outside your comfort zone or situations that involve alcohol—period.
9). A man’s sexual peak is his youth-
Unless you become this rich Don in Northern Mexico surrounded by hotties, your prime peak will be in your youth preferably college or post college. If a guy is over here selling you a scam that your 40s/50s are prime then he is a complete fraud. Never in your life will you be around numerous hot young women within walking distance from your place. However, some washed up post divorced secretly remarried to a 4/10 manosphere guru is trying to tell you otherwise? It is CAP bro. Ditch the youtube/podcast manosphere shvt and go out and talk to women. Take advantage of your youth and do what you need to do within reason of not screwing up your life.
Women will always have males worshipping them for the rest of their lives. Men on the other hand have a wall because we have to offer more things than our looks and we value younger women. Women under the age of 25 outside sugar babies & passport prostitutes are not looking for older men period. In addition, the later you wait to interact with women, the more difficult it becomes. Men coming into college with little experience with women often have a brutal time adjusting. Men waiting until their 30s & beyond have the highest risk of getting owned the worst.
2). Girls care about physical attraction first-
If a girl doesn’t find you physically attractive, it’s over before it even begins. Attraction comes first, followed by personality, confidence, and then game. The good news is that women are attracted to a variety of types, so you’re not SOL just because you’re not a stereotypical "Chad." Focus on improving your presentation and personal hygiene—it will make attracting women much easier than trying to rely on tricks or manipulation.
3). Take your soft ball pitches- There were many times when girls showed clear interest in me, but I completely missed the signs, either because I was too arrogant or too scared to take action. Looking back, I realize I could have lost my virginity much earlier and gained valuable experience with women, rather than struggling to break the ice well into my twenties.
4). Learn to read what women want initially-
Not every girl is looking for a boyfriend, so learn to give them what they want. Too many guys are trying to turn street property in to girlfriends and wives into street property. STAWP IT!
5). Yes, race matters, so adjust your game plan
Some Girls will not give you a rat’s chance because of your race. Some girls will only fvck you and not proceed further because of your race. Some girls will only like you because of your race. Some girls don’t care about your race and will see beyond color. Filter out the racist girls, and make do with the rest.
6). Women are op in the early
The girl you are asking out on a first date is more than likely talking to 3 other dudes and banging an ex/certified side dude on the slide. The average man must accept that he will suffer a lot of mental abuse during the early stages of dating. I recommend taking hiatuses from dating after dealing with enough trauma, breakups, and etc to reset your mindset. Guys that refuse to take breaks end up bitter, jaded, and black pilled.
7). Learn to be yourself and stop frauding
Most men struggle in the dating game because they’re either lazy, overly entitled, or often both. I’ll admit this described me at one point. It wasn’t until I focused on my own priorities that I started developing better chemistry with women.
This shift led to easier conversations, a natural aura of mystery (rather than forced tactics like taking twice as long to text back), less tolerance for low-interest behavior, meeting women in places outside of bars and dating apps, and women naturally gravitating toward me instead of being repelled.
At the end of the day, many guys will continue to face these struggles until they drop the fraudulent persona and become genuinely comfortable with themselves.
8). Be more social outside parties-
In hindsight, most people form meaningful connections outside of parties and bars, and I completely missed this point during college. If you haven’t mastered the ability to socialize beyond these settings, you’ll struggle to build relationships outside your comfort zone or situations that involve alcohol—period.
9). A man’s sexual peak is his youth-
Unless you become this rich Don in Northern Mexico surrounded by hotties, your prime peak will be in your youth preferably college or post college. If a guy is over here selling you a scam that your 40s/50s are prime then he is a complete fraud. Never in your life will you be around numerous hot young women within walking distance from your place. However, some washed up post divorced secretly remarried to a 4/10 manosphere guru is trying to tell you otherwise? It is CAP bro. Ditch the youtube/podcast manosphere shvt and go out and talk to women. Take advantage of your youth and do what you need to do within reason of not screwing up your life.
