1st and foremost, not all women will find you attractive. Why? Because at that point in time when you meet each woman, she may be in love, have psycho problems e.g. depression, self esteem issues or other problems and she may not be available.... or maybe you are not her type (just like you may have your own choice of body preference) you get the idea. This does not mean you are ugly, un-attractive, stupid or dumb. Just move on, this after all is a numbers game.
Practice, practice, practice...'nuff said.
Smile! They look at you funny? Smile! The are having a bad day? SMILE!
When approaching, (what works for me is) I compliment some thing they are wearing: e.g. "Hey, nice shoes, where you got them?" or "That is a cool handbag, who makes it?" ..You get the idea, the point is to get them talking.
( DON'T compliment HER LOOKS (Physical beauty))
Smile!, Smile!, Smile!
HB not giving you the time of day? No problem, open as above but then turn to NegHits.
Be funny, what I mean by funny is that you need to be CONFIDENT in yourself and don't be afraid to laugh and make fun of yourself.
Dress clean and well groomed, keep your shoes and hair cut in top shape.
Get out there and take action, remember practice, practice.....
Learn from your mistakes!
and
DON'T FORGET TO CLOSE THE DEAL! DO IT!
Have fun and hope you find this helpful, like the stuff in this awesome forum!
-Sapiens
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I was asked about "Closing the Deal."
In my experience, note that only a very small % of approaches will get you laid on the first contact (less than 1%), anyone who brags otherwise about is blowing smoke up your ass.
Why you ask? Well let see;
1. Biology: Women are very social creatures because it takes a lot of resources to raise their young. So if their mate is killed/lost they will need the help from their social network to raise their young. Just ask your mom how easy it was to raise you, and if she got help from her social network bringing you up.
2.Safety: She needs to trust you. Why? incase the gets pregnant, see 1. above.
3.Social Standing: If she gets pregnant she will need help, again, see one above.
Yes, women love to get laid, but due to 1. above, they really love to be laid by someone they know and trust. That is why you must create rapport, so they can trust you.
Why are they hard to lay? Well, besides 1. above, they know that once you ***, they may never see you again. Your need has been satisfied and therefore they may no longer hold your interest and value. That is why hookers ask for payment up front (or so I am told, LOL).
Practice, practice, practice...'nuff said.
Smile! They look at you funny? Smile! The are having a bad day? SMILE!
When approaching, (what works for me is) I compliment some thing they are wearing: e.g. "Hey, nice shoes, where you got them?" or "That is a cool handbag, who makes it?" ..You get the idea, the point is to get them talking.
( DON'T compliment HER LOOKS (Physical beauty))
Smile!, Smile!, Smile!
HB not giving you the time of day? No problem, open as above but then turn to NegHits.
Be funny, what I mean by funny is that you need to be CONFIDENT in yourself and don't be afraid to laugh and make fun of yourself.
Dress clean and well groomed, keep your shoes and hair cut in top shape.
Get out there and take action, remember practice, practice.....
Learn from your mistakes!
and
DON'T FORGET TO CLOSE THE DEAL! DO IT!
Have fun and hope you find this helpful, like the stuff in this awesome forum!
-Sapiens
_________________________________________________
I was asked about "Closing the Deal."
In my experience, note that only a very small % of approaches will get you laid on the first contact (less than 1%), anyone who brags otherwise about is blowing smoke up your ass.
Why you ask? Well let see;
1. Biology: Women are very social creatures because it takes a lot of resources to raise their young. So if their mate is killed/lost they will need the help from their social network to raise their young. Just ask your mom how easy it was to raise you, and if she got help from her social network bringing you up.
2.Safety: She needs to trust you. Why? incase the gets pregnant, see 1. above.
3.Social Standing: If she gets pregnant she will need help, again, see one above.
Yes, women love to get laid, but due to 1. above, they really love to be laid by someone they know and trust. That is why you must create rapport, so they can trust you.
Why are they hard to lay? Well, besides 1. above, they know that once you ***, they may never see you again. Your need has been satisfied and therefore they may no longer hold your interest and value. That is why hookers ask for payment up front (or so I am told, LOL).
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