Things I believe to be true.

[Mike32ct]

I confirmed #14 so many times. Guys, I've lived with girls in university as housemates. ALL they talked about was whether a guy was good looking or not. They never spoke about how much confidence he has or how in charge he is. They never spoke about how "mysterious" he was. They didn't care about anything "game" related.

Precisely. You'll ONLY overhear this when females are in groups. It's like a whole secret world that most guys aren't aware of. Women can be VERY honest and open when surrounded by other women.

But it's not just young women... I work with 30s and even 40something women who are exactly the same. They go into GRAPHIC details about a guy's arms, abs, butt, height, hair, etc. It SHOULD be HR's worst nightmare, but women can get away with it. If a man said 1% of that stuff in the workplace about women, he'd be fired or at least reprimanded.

Yesterday morning, the women in the office spent 40 minutes disecting nearly every part of that Twilite guy Ed Kullen's body (mispelling on purpose) and how how hot he was, etc. But as I said, this isn't just celebrities, they do this about any guy they know of that they find attractive.

But even outside of work, in safe all male company, us guys don't analyze women's looks with a microscope. She's cute or she isn't. Maybe we'll even give her a rating out of 10. In extreme cases, we'll mention T or A. But we don't go ON and ON about it and give a 10-page report about her body. We're more interested in the interaction and how the guy met her, hooked up with her, etc. And most importantly, we are interested in how far he got with her lol.


All they spoke about was whether certain guys were good looking or not. They spoke about his arms, his abs, etc. The idea of just men being shallow creatures concerned only with large breasts and tight a$$es is feminist bullsh1t propaganda that is media driven . It is NOT based in reality.

It is a good thing forums like this exist. Otherwise, there would be more self-loathing men out there who think they are shallow and women are these pure angelic creatures. Horsesh1t!

Precisely. Look, if women want to be picky/shallow, fine. It's that they pretend they AREN'T that annoys me. Just be honest about it.

In a sense, women are the greatest AFCs in the world. They put the 10% guys on a bigger pedistal than men could ever do to women.

 

[thehustle]

- Know when to walk away
and to quote the above mentioned post by Bible Belt.

Laghter is an aphrodisiac. Make her laugh with witty comments and she's yours!

 

[Atom Smasher]

5, thanks for the mention in your list, but you belong in there too.

 

[5string]

5, thanks for the mention in your list, but you belong in there too.

Well, I don't know about that, but it's guys like you that keep ol' 5string hanging around this site.

 

[Mike32ct]

I really like this quote by betheman...

"You can't afford to go around thinking other guys are better looking than you. They may well be, but you are really limiting yourself and putting yourself on the back foot straight away. Knock that sh$t off! If it really worked like that, hardly any guys would get laid."

I have to re-read this every so often to remind myself .

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

1. Fake it until you make it.

2. Never be too analytical.

3. If you haven't brought a girl to the crib by the 3rd date she is not interested in you.

4. Make sure woman are the complement: not the focus.

 

[Eternal_water]

Before I started reading sosuave and PUA forum I had this idea in my mind that girls were innocent angels sent from heaven.

Pooks article in the DJ bible is far more accurate

The girls summoned up come from the underworld wreathed in flames, and the DJ's descend from heaven in white light wearing halos

 

[loveshogun]

I learned most of my sh*t in the real world, so most of what I get here is reinforcement or thoughtful "other side of the coin" type insights.

So, I've taken two revelations that have hit closest to the truth of the world, in my point of view: one downer and one light of hope.

Downer:

Not everyone is looking for ways to win. A lot of people, really, are just looking for excuses to lose.

Upper:

No matter where you are in life, someone will be willing to help you if you put yourself out there.

Whether you win or lose, well, you decide what happens after.

 

[coochieman]

Coochie's here, so listen up......

1. Nice guy's a no no. The game isn't for everybody.

2. The hungry don't get fed : pu$$ies dont get pu$$y.

3. A woman cannot love you more than she respects you.

4. 3 billion females worldwide! Never waste your time.

5. Weakest link: Their uncontrollable yearning for attention and drama.

6. Keep fakin' it till you make it... Just pray you don't get caught.

7. We crave what we sense but cannot/don't have.

8. The "bad-boy image" goes with good looks like bread 'n' butter.

9. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger aka. Rejection is game-on.

10. Hiding your sexuality is a self-insult.

11. Do not beg/Do not ask for permission.

12. Be a jerk. Be an a$$. Just be any fucckin' thing but boring.

13. See things for exactly what they are.

14. They don't say what they do like they don't do what they say.

15. Hate is never the opposite of love. Indifference is.

16. Sorry, but gotta treat 'em mean[no rape tho'] to keep 'em keen.

17. Never test water with both feet.... Have options.

18. Walk away easily. 90 days of trial is max.

19. Learn and Improve consistently. Please.

20. Everybody wants and adores good sex. All women LOVE sex.

21. He who cares the least, controls the most.

22. Women are in demand and demanding. Be the same or more.

23. Be a god-daymn muthafucckin' MAN! at all costs.

24. And yes, looks matter. Optimize yours.

So much more's left...................

 

[nismo-4]

Coochie's here, so listen up......

2. The hungry don't get fed : pu$$ies dont get pu$$y.

6. Keep fakin' it till you make it... Just pray you don't get caught.

8. The "bad-boy image" goes with good looks like bread 'n' butter.

10. Hiding your sexuality is a self-insult.

11. Do not beg/Do not ask for permission.

12. Be a jerk. Be an a$$. Just be any fucckin' thing but boring.

13. See things for exactly what they are.

15. Hate is never the opposite of love. Indifference is.

16. Sorry, but gotta treat 'em mean[no rape tho'] to keep 'em keen.

17. Never test water with both feet.... Have options.

22. Women are in demand and demanding. Be the same or more.

23. Be a god-daymn muthafucckin' MAN! at all costs.

24. And yes, looks matter. Optimize yours.

So much more's left...................

These are the most vital ones in that list in my opinion. Very great read!

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

From experience, girls who don't help carry the conversation are not interested. Never failed me yet.

 

[Mike32ct]

Women always know their true looks/value.

If you are looking for that hottie who doesn't know (deep down) she's hot, there's also a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. She might SEEM modest and down to earth, but she is still very much aware of how her looks rank vs other females AND vs YOU.

The same thing is true for UGs or fatties. She might SEEM all high and mighty and entitled, and yes, she still might F some decent or even handsome dudes, but deep down, she knows what her looks really are.