Things got a bit out of control, and now I have to decide...?

[reality250]

Okay guys, we are still together, and she was not the ONE who choosed the open RELATIONSHIP and its closed.

Now we have a short relationship break. lets see how it will be the next one year, will keep ypu guys updated.

To be honest., I really don't care.

The only thing I care will be the money.

But that can be earned.

My son will get a younger, mature wife. Lets see.

One of the reasons I encouraged her to open was because we are cousins from middle east.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

There are sliding scales of morality, if you like watching your woman get railed go for it. In my world it points at abberant behavior.

And yea I’ve explored the Lifestyle and have been to big city clubs.

Telling yourself you’re so modern and enlightened doesn’t make it any less weird that you like to have men ejaculate inside your woman.

JFC

Any of you ppl ever been to sex clubs before? Big city one.
No not a strip club. I mean a sex club.

A real eye opener on what ppl are on about. Ive seen 75 year old couples at these things.
You tradcon types are the worst RPillers. They want a sexy slooty wife but they want there morals too so they can brow beat everyone.

 

[soulforge]

Okay guys, we are still together, and she was not the ONE who choosed the open RELATIONSHIP and its closed.

Now we have a short relationship break. lets see how it will be the next one year, will keep ypu guys updated.

To be honest., I really don't care.

The only thing I care will be the money.

But that can be earned.

My son will get a younger, mature wife. Lets see.

One of the reasons I encouraged her to open was because we are cousins from middle east.

Dude your woman gets railed by other men..

You lost your way big time.

My advice... Grow some balls & stop watching porn.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

I did not say I was telling myself anything dude. What Im talking is how the world really works. Not about how you feel about it.
Absolutism is something I threw out z decade ago.
What is the difference in cuckholdry?
Having a MMF or Being a beta clueless guy believing everything your women tellls you while shes getting railed by Brad at work?
stuff to think about. That sliding scale your talking about doesn't just apply to morality

Opinions are like anuses. Tell yourself whatever you would like to in order to sleep well at night dude.

 

[TheGrindEqualsHappiness]

Well, to each of their own. Cuckoldery is suprisingly common fetish and if someone wants to live that lifestyle I don't care.

With regards to PU there can be viewpoints there:

On one hand: It can be pretty un-needy and powerful frame if you really don't care who rails the b1tch. I mean she really hasn't any leverage on you at that point and it's easy to walk away.

On the other hand, why in the hell would you want to be in LTR with that kind of chick in first place? I cannot see any actual reason why to have for example deep connection or commitment with her in that kind of situation. But thats just me.


In OP:s case the end result is worst possible. In my opinion he's coming from really weak position of power at this point and the situation is unsalvageable with the mindset he has.

 

[SW15]

Any of you ppl ever been to sex clubs before? Big city one.
No not a strip club. I mean a sex club.

A real eye opener on what ppl are on about. Ive seen 75 year old couples at these things.
You tradcon types are the worst RPillers. They want a sexy slooty wife but they want there morals too so they can brow beat everyone.

The typical couple at one of those sex/swinger clubs is a couple between the ages of 40-65. If they are in the 40s, they typically still have children under 18 living at home with them.

It's less common to see women in their late 20s/30s with boyfriends/husbands at these clubs.

 

[Solomon]

Threads like this gotta be a troll? OP are you from Nigeria?
There is just no way, time for me to take a break from sosuave again

*sighs*

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Come on Pierce. Lol nice response.
Certainly you can do better then that. That has some girly over tones to it.

Nah, that would require me to care more. I spoke my peice.

 

[member162951]

Dude your woman gets railed by other men..

You lost your way big time.

Call me crazy but am I the only one who thinks men who get off on watching their wives/women getting railed by other men may have homosexual tendencies?

I'm imagining this scenario.-- another dude's c0ck railing my girl's pvssy and it sickens me however I could see a man with gay tendencies getting off on it.

I dunno, just a thought.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Wow smh OP. Why?

Contact divorce lawyer asap.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Call me crazy but am I the only one who thinks men who get off on watching their wives/women getting railed by other men may have homosexual tendencies?

I'm imagining this scenario.-- another dude's c0ck railing my girl's pvssy and it sickens me however I could see a man with gay tendencies getting off on it.

I dunno, just a thought.

Agreed but to the point...if a guy had skills in the bedroom what woman would want a downgrade?

This happens likely because they know they aren't good enough in the bedroom and wish they had the skills these other guys have and want to see what it looks like when their wife has real orgasms or squirts since they never experience it for themselves.

 

[member162951]

This happens likely because they know they aren't good enough in the bedroom and wish they had the skills these other guys have and want to see what it looks like when their wife has real orgasms or squirts since they never experience it for themselves.

OK but the man's own wife? Why not watch some good porn if he wants to see chicks having real orgasms and squirts? Then he can bring it to his wife and give her those orgasms himself!

IDK, I just can't see how any healthy hetero man could stomach watching another "bigger better" dude pounding his wife or girl. I would think such man would want to pound him as in beat the crap out of him!

Doesn't name sense, go watch some porn.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Hey, it takes a real man to share his wife!

(facepalm)

 

[BackInTheGame78]

OK but the man's own wife? Why not watch some good porn if he wants to see chicks having real orgasms and squirts? Then he can bring it to his wife and give her those orgasms himself!

IDK, I just can't see how any healthy hetero man could stomach watching another "bigger better" dude pounding his wife or girl. I would think such man would want to pound him as in beat the crap out of him!

Doesn't name sense, go watch some porn.

I don't get it either, but these dudes are likely under pressure from their wife to allow them to get someone who can satisfy them or divorce.

Plenty of simps out there that would choose to allow it rather than get a divorce

 

[member162951]

If you wach hetero Porn its no different.
All porn is watching your girl. You liars
Shame on your azzes.

Huh? I wasn’t talking about porn, gay OR hetero.

But even if I were, how do you get that when watching porn, I'm watching my girl or wife?
Serious question, I'd really like to know.

Anyway, this has nothing to do with porn. I was talking about real life.

But hey, if watching your wife or girl getting railed IRL by another dude is your gig, no judgment, to each his own as they say.

Not happening in my world.

 

[soulforge]

I'm get homo vibes about dudes who like to watch there chick get smashed by dudes.