They think im a pimp...help!!

[Ken785]

ok heres my problem...

i started hanging out with a new group of friends. we were at the club where i got this girls number who is probably like a hb6.5, i wasnt really interested just practicing...they were making fun of me for doing that but said at least i had the balls to go talk to a girl. another time when we were hanging out at starbucks and there was this cute girl there, after we left i told them i had to brb to go to the bathroom i came back to hit on that same hb7, she said she had a bf so i walk out but for some stupid reason i told them i got her number and lied about her name and said she was 16 so im not pursuing. so now they think im this major pimp. then another time a was at school and got to talking to this hb8 and didnt ask for her number but gave her mine.

my mistake was telling them about these girls and now they got me having this big player image. they are all taken and when we go out i always end up being the fifth wheel.

they keep on asking me when im going to call the girl from starbucks!! they go to that starbucks sometimes...do you think asked her and they found out i lied?? how do you think i can get out of this mess im in because they think im a pimp but yet i never bring home dates or anything. i think i ****ed up...made myself out to be a pimp but right now that is not the case.

 

[Sloopy]

Chill out, man.

They think you're a "pimp" and that's cool. I highly doubt they will ever ask that girl if she gave you her number even if they do see her there. After all, that could totally blow your chances with her. Any guy with any knowledge of women would know that and the ones who don't would be too AFC to even talk to her.

Your image is not a bad one - they are probably even a little jealous of your confidence. Be cool about it. If you want, you can even tell them you just like to collect numbers and maybe once in a while you'll actually call if the girl is REALLY cool/hot.

That's what I think. Don't worry so much about what people think of you. Also, don't lie anymore (next time a girl has a boyfriend or rejects you, tell them that and then shrug it off like it's nothing. They will respect you for that). Just do what you want, be a man, and make it happen. That's what this is all about.

~Sloopy

 

[spider_007]

now if you only told the truth, you wouldn't be in this perdicoment would you???

 

[Mr. Cardio]

I dont get the problem here. You want to establish yourself as being a challenge, being someone THEY have to work for and prove themselves to, so WHAT if you talk to other girls. That is the point of being a masculine man, you should establish yourself as being the guy that every girl wants, and because they all want you, that is the reason why you can be a pimp or whatever. If you ask me, everything is alright.

 

[Ken785]

UPDATE 9/28/05!!

i think they went to the mall and asked her!!

the other night we were talking guy things and and i told them how i got anther number at school (true) and one of them said "hey why not call that girl you met at the mall??" (that was 2 months ago i lied about that) then he said "he just lies about things...are you a virgin???"

i was shocked. i tried to brush it off but he kept asking questions like...what does a ***** feel like?? hows it feel when you stick you fingers in it??? then the other one joked and said boobs feel like a bag of sand (40 year old virgin) and asked if i got layed since i moved down here (2 months) i said no.

i feel like they went to the mall and asked her...i lied about 3 things...her name, age, and how i got her phone number...

how do i recooperate from this?? i feel so embarrased!!

i dont think they respect me anymore since i lied which i feel stupid about. i dont know why i lied but it was a big mistake because they shop at that store all the time.

 

[Ken785]

what do you mean? how do i recooperate from this lie i told?? i think im a virgin now. they dont respect me anymore....

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by Ken785
how do you think i can get out of this mess im in because they think im a pimp but yet i never bring home dates or anything. i think i ****ed up...made myself out to be a pimp but right now that is not the case.

The lying thing definitely not cool, that's the flaw of a boy and not the virtue of a man.

As for the image thing there is a lesson to be learned here, what is it you ask? Most people aren't as pitiful in others eyes as they are in their own eyes. This is why confidence, or more importantly self assurance is very important!

Self assurance is simply the knowledge that if I aquired a hot girl once I can do it again. If i approach a girl once I can do it again. I was funny and interesting once I can do it again.

You need to see the greatness within yourself that those closest to you already see.

 

[Ken785]

huh?

 

[LongDrinkofWater]

Looks to me like you made a mistake in lying, and got caught.

Unfortunately your lie was over something that is seriously ripe fodder for joking - women. On the much brighter side, I didn't hear you say that any of your friends had the nuts to walk up to a woman for a number, but you do. Nothing to be ashamed of there; you're doing what most guys aren't. That joke is on them. Sooner or later your approaches will pay off.

Bottom line is that maybe you just got a bit carried away the one time. Don't be concerned with the playa/pimp image thing. Ask yourself how good these new friends really are.

 

[Unregistered]

Oh what a tangled web we weave,
When first we practise to deceive!

 

[C00L]

its your word against hers, they cant prove sh1t.

Whats it matter anyway. You played into the "image". you should have just been humble from the beginning, when they called u a pimp, just be like "yeah right im about as much as a pimp as Urkel".

thats what i do, play it C00L homie.

keep those chickens cluckin

 

[comic_relief]

Lying bad! Player image = good!!!

I play the player image very well. I got the nickname called the "Devirginator" and girls love it. They want to be with me now. Of course I ain't going to do anything because I got a girlfriend now. She is really good to me.

With the nickname the "Devirginator" I am going to win homecoming as King. Funny how two years ago I couldn't get a girlfriend and now I got lines of girls wanting at me. Funny how being confident, funny, and laid back gets you women.

To the original poster on lying. don't do it again. One lie turns into many lies. Problem gets bigger. Just stop the lying right here and go get some women on your shoulders. They will stop making fun of you when they find out you have a woman on your shoulders. My friends stopped when they found out that I got a girlfriend

 

[Jon341427]

Originally posted by Ken785
UPDATE 9/28/05!!

i think they went to the mall and asked her!!

the other night we were talking guy things and and i told them how i got anther number at school (true) and one of them said "hey why not call that girl you met at the mall??" (that was 2 months ago i lied about that) then he said "he just lies about things...are you a virgin???"

i was shocked. i tried to brush it off but he kept asking questions like...what does a ***** feel like?? hows it feel when you stick you fingers in it??? then the other one joked and said boobs feel like a bag of sand (40 year old virgin) and asked if i got layed since i moved down here (2 months) i said no.

i feel like they went to the mall and asked her...i lied about 3 things...her name, age, and how i got her phone number...

how do i recooperate from this?? i feel so embarrased!!

i dont think they respect me anymore since i lied which i feel stupid about. i dont know why i lied but it was a big mistake because they shop at that store all the time.

you seem to love to brag. just quit it. why do you keep telling them you are getting numbers? it's obviously just to impress them. just wondering, how old are you?

 

[Ken785]

22. your right. i shouldnt say anything. i dont even tell them when i go on dates.

 

[Marlimus]

Having a reputation for being a pimp INCREASES your social value. Woman will see you as being desired by other women. Those who criticise you are simply testing you.

 

[comic_relief]

Originally posted by Marlimus
Having a reputation for being a pimp INCREASES your social value. Woman will see you as being desired by other women. Those who criticise you are simply testing you.

agreed