They all have boyfriends

[Ricky]

The majority are dating someone at a given time. However that's why you game alot of women. You capture them at different times, different states. The phrase that it is a numbers game is mainly due to this.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Since last week Ive got 5 numbers, all of which have pursued me with high interest, playful messages.

However Ive rode this rodeo many times, and I can tell with text patterns, obstacles etc that 4 of these chics have boyfriends, that they didnt tell me about.

when it comes to arranging plans they overlook the message etc, (but messenger works fine the day after). can only meet in the day, etc weird text patterns. 3 of them I bump into weekly, So I cant imagine they "arent interested". clearly keeping me for orbiting, and trying not to be found out.

Insufferable already

I was at the gym one time. College girl blonde in stretchy pants. Eye ****ing the **** out of me with her man. All I needed to do is start my car. Bf don't matter. High interest. Compliance and it's a wrap.

 

[B80]

Since last week Ive got 5 numbers, all of which have pursued me with high interest, playful messages.

However Ive rode this rodeo many times, and I can tell with text patterns, obstacles etc that 4 of these chics have boyfriends, that they didnt tell me about.

when it comes to arranging plans they overlook the message etc, (but messenger works fine the day after). can only meet in the day, etc weird text patterns. 3 of them I bump into weekly, So I cant imagine they "arent interested". clearly keeping me for orbiting, and trying not to be found out.

Insufferable already

Yeah indeed mate. Bit different bit I'm meeting up with a married woman this evening after the bournemouth match. Well, maybe, not sure if I want to go through with this.

She said 7-9pm tonight, I said no havevtickets for the football, so she said OK can she come or 10-midnight should be OK.

I half jokingly said I'll book a room at hotel, she said yes, do it...

Her Anniversary last week (16 years), birthday tomorrow night...

Part excited, turned on, the other half disguisted (by myself and her )

 

[DontThinkTwice]

Unless you think you are doing something to put them off yourself, I wouldn't waste brain cells trying to figure them out. They sound like time wasters.
Don't entertain long text conversations with any girl not giving you sex yet. You are too busy and unavailable. If these girls hit you up, turn the conversation to meeting right away. "I am good but real busy. You able to meet up for a drink Thursday?" Wouldn't give them a weekend day since they've avoided you and you don't want to end up with them cancelling plans last minute and messing up your weekend.

 

[derby1]

Unless you think you are doing something to put them off yourself,

one of them, we have exchanged 7 texts at most, most of which is me addressing her points, Id like to think Im pretty good at this stuff so i dont believe ive done anything wrong that fast.

one said she struggles to get a child-sitter, which I know ive heard that line before. no woman struggles to get things, they have whole matriarch family systems set up.

2 of them have failed to read my "meet up" message even though they were the ones pursuing beforehand, they left unread as soon as it was time to make plans.

All this hassle used to be with chics 5 -10 weeks in, now there doing it right off the bat

 

[BDDazza]

Since last week Ive got 5 numbers, all of which have pursued me with high interest, playful messages.

However Ive rode this rodeo many times, and I can tell with text patterns, obstacles etc that 4 of these chics have boyfriends, that they didnt tell me about.

when it comes to arranging plans they overlook the message etc, (but messenger works fine the day after). can only meet in the day, etc weird text patterns. 3 of them I bump into weekly, So I cant imagine they "arent interested". clearly keeping me for orbiting, and trying not to be found out.

Insufferable already

It seems the women are interest enough to give you their number, but not interested enough to progress to meeting. Some women are not emotionally available to date but will happily take free attention, and we should treat this as non-interest regardless. When a lady likes you and is available she will make an active effort to work around obstacles like babysitting problems.

Moving forward I think you need to filter women for availability before you get their number. If you're in doubt end the conversation and move onto another women.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I flirt a lot because it’s fun. I’m not going to cheat on the GF though. Lots of girls flirt too. It’s fun & they like the attention. Doesn’t mean they’re going to cheat.

 

[RangerMIke]

All women have something they call a 'boyfriend'. The only time it becomes an actual issue is if they are engaged, married, or live with some dude. Otherwise they are fair game.

BF or not, try to meet on a date, if she shows up then see what happens. Chicks toss out the I have a BF line for a couple of reasons, if they are really still available, they think it makes them more desirable, and they are sending you a message that they don't want a casual thing. Her goal is to have a boyfriend, not a one night stand. But if you play your cards right, you can change her mind.

 

[derby1]

Chicks toss out the I have a BF line for a couple of reasons,

Theyre not saying they have one, thats the point. you have to figure it out like columbo. They also bomb you with interest but dont actually meet.

 

[firstbornunicorn]

Maybe they do now. Things change: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...friend-over-a-year-ago-now-hits-me-up.268257/

 

[jimwho]

I got a text. Lets go get Mediterranean food I know a great place. I replied what ever that is sounds yummy, then I texted a couple days later "I'm hungry". That was June-21. She texted yesterday. 9-months later. Wtf?

 

[spred]

I got a text. Lets go get Mediterranean food I know a great place. I replied what ever that is sounds yummy, then I texted a couple days later "I'm hungry". That was June-21. She texted yesterday. 9-months later. Wtf?

You were at the time option #56
Now you are number 3 or 4. She is warming you up.

 

[RangerMIke]

Theyre not saying they have one, thats the point. you have to figure it out like columbo. They also bomb you with interest but dont actually meet.

And if they don't tell you they are supposedly taken, then it really doesn't matter. A man really shouldn't be worrying about things they do not know. Trying to figure out what is going on with a chick in her personal life really isn't anyone's business.

When you are after a woman, you shouldn't be talking about other dudes unless she brings it up, and when she does... well.... you change the subject. Because talking about exes, and other dudes really isn't any fun.

Any attempts to try and figure out where you stand with a chick (social media stalking, asking about her with friends, grilling her with questions) really puts you in a weak mindset, because this is what women do. When she meets a man, she checks in with the 'chick network' and all her friends start trying to figure you out. Her friends will start running background checks on you, will start stalking your social media, try and find people who know you to get the skinny on you. By the time you have a second date (if it goes that far) she'll pretty much know a great deal about you. Many times when a dude has a great first date with a woman, then after she totally shuts him down... it's because the chick network gave him a thumbs down. The more you date in a particular area, the more she will know about you.

Make a run at her, and let her reject you. Too many guys get into analysis paralysis and don't take action. But yeah, as soon as you know she is in a serious relationship, you should pop smoke and move on.

 

[RangerMIke]

I got a text. Lets go get Mediterranean food I know a great place. I replied what ever that is sounds yummy, then I texted a couple days later "I'm hungry". That was June-21. She texted yesterday. 9-months later. Wtf?

Well... you are doing things correctly.