These SIGNS don't mean anything, do they?
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Haha......reality sucks eh?
I think for the benefit of each person here, the whole DJ thing should be JUST ABOUT getting your life together and making yourself a better person.Docs said:
No ANALYSIS of what women do should be given.
I blew it so many times because I looked at what she did and tried to think what it means.
Maybe some girls follow these trends, but I think most of the time its just a random thing. Its not a sign of anything at all.
How many times have you "blew it"? And what does "blew it" mean? You are confusing WHY a women does something instead of just looking at WHAT she did - big difference.Babnik said:
Where did you read that the entire basis for a women's interest level is their body language?
It sounds to me like you are using some black and white thinking there.
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if you're asking about these kind of things, it's probably too late to make a difference =P.
anyways, women are not consistent with their body language, imho.
anyways, women are not consistent with their body language, imho.
A common issue with the seduction community is over thinking. People get too caught up in the concept that everything means something. People sit here, read hundreds of posts about things that potentially do mean something, and they try to take it all in and learn it all so they are masters at any situation.
What happens from this is when you go out, you try to figure out every little thing about what she, you, surrounding, etc means. Your braind puts too much time into calculating the hundreds of little things going on, that you essentially can destroy your own chances with the girl.
I used to be guilty of doing this. I'll listen to the first word of her sentence and start running the index in my head of what to say next. Its counter productive... chill out, talk casually, keep a few basic stories/games to have fun with. Memorizing every opener/seduction/kino/C&F gambit isn't what this tries to teach. Its about taking some of the ideas and being them naturally. If it doesn't naturally occur, then you need to stay off the site a while.
What happens from this is when you go out, you try to figure out every little thing about what she, you, surrounding, etc means. Your braind puts too much time into calculating the hundreds of little things going on, that you essentially can destroy your own chances with the girl.
I used to be guilty of doing this. I'll listen to the first word of her sentence and start running the index in my head of what to say next. Its counter productive... chill out, talk casually, keep a few basic stories/games to have fun with. Memorizing every opener/seduction/kino/C&F gambit isn't what this tries to teach. Its about taking some of the ideas and being them naturally. If it doesn't naturally occur, then you need to stay off the site a while.