Things I have personally learned:
1.You must become what you want to attract. Like attracts like. If you want confidence then act confident. If you want power act powerful.
2. Be scarce. When people are having a good time because of you, LEAVE. Always under stay your welcome. But be happy when you leave. This makes you desireable because people will associate good times with you and when you leave people will want more of it.
3. Light up when you meet someone, i.e. be excited to see him or her. Always be enthusiastic whether in person or on the phone.
4. Have a crusade, or a major definite purpose you are trying to achieve and go after it with unswerving conviction, unshakeable confidence and an evangelistic attitude.
5. Always encourage others to talk and about themselves. Information is powerful, period.
6. Always be positive. Always. There is absolutely no reason to be otherwise. Life is too short to be negative.
7. Smile always and 3 seconds longer than the other person does.
8. Be spontaneous and surprising at times.
9. Never talk or associate with people when they are in a bad mood they will associate those feelings with you.
10. Be consistent with certain things so that people will expect that from you then suddenly stop and then restart again.
11. Act as if you don’t need that certain person because your higher calling or purpose in life consumes you.
12. Be courageous and pursue the untried. No fear.
13. Never give in. Never. Never. Never. Never.
14. Make decisions quickly, weigh benefits and cons then act!
15. Believe in nothing but yourself—100% absolute, undeniable confidence in yourself.
16. Never compromise your beliefs. NEVER.
17. Be dedicated to your highest potential. #1 or nothing.
18. AND NEVER EVER ENTERTAIN ANY DOUBTS OR ARGUMENTS ABOUT YOUR CORE BELIEFS! THEY ARE the TRUTH AND BY EXTENSION SO ARE YOU!
Another thing that I have learned is to have a fire burning in your eyes so that you can hold someone's gaze and they can see the enthusiasm in your eyes. True believers have this and leaders with passion.
1.You must become what you want to attract. Like attracts like. If you want confidence then act confident. If you want power act powerful.
2. Be scarce. When people are having a good time because of you, LEAVE. Always under stay your welcome. But be happy when you leave. This makes you desireable because people will associate good times with you and when you leave people will want more of it.
3. Light up when you meet someone, i.e. be excited to see him or her. Always be enthusiastic whether in person or on the phone.
4. Have a crusade, or a major definite purpose you are trying to achieve and go after it with unswerving conviction, unshakeable confidence and an evangelistic attitude.
5. Always encourage others to talk and about themselves. Information is powerful, period.
6. Always be positive. Always. There is absolutely no reason to be otherwise. Life is too short to be negative.
7. Smile always and 3 seconds longer than the other person does.
8. Be spontaneous and surprising at times.
9. Never talk or associate with people when they are in a bad mood they will associate those feelings with you.
10. Be consistent with certain things so that people will expect that from you then suddenly stop and then restart again.
11. Act as if you don’t need that certain person because your higher calling or purpose in life consumes you.
12. Be courageous and pursue the untried. No fear.
13. Never give in. Never. Never. Never. Never.
14. Make decisions quickly, weigh benefits and cons then act!
15. Believe in nothing but yourself—100% absolute, undeniable confidence in yourself.
16. Never compromise your beliefs. NEVER.
17. Be dedicated to your highest potential. #1 or nothing.
18. AND NEVER EVER ENTERTAIN ANY DOUBTS OR ARGUMENTS ABOUT YOUR CORE BELIEFS! THEY ARE the TRUTH AND BY EXTENSION SO ARE YOU!
Another thing that I have learned is to have a fire burning in your eyes so that you can hold someone's gaze and they can see the enthusiasm in your eyes. True believers have this and leaders with passion.