There's nothing wrong with dating promiscuous women

[Dr.Suave]

I think most ppl are under the assumption that if a girl is a virgin or has less sexual partners that they will be biologically and some what psychologically attached to you, basically a blue pill/simp way of keeping a woman. A lazy attempt to retain a woman.

With how hard and improbable it is to even find such a girl in the 1st place in these modern times, and not only finding one but also pulling her, I politely disagree with the "lazy" part.

 

[Stuffnu]

Promiscuous women should rank just above your tube sock.
Use only when necessary.

 

[soulforge]

I think most ppl are under the assumption that if a girl is a virgin or has less sexual partners that they will be biologically and some what psychologically attached to you, basically a blue pill/simp way of keeping a woman. A lazy attempt to retain a woman.

I don't see how seeking a low body count female or a virgin & retaining her for an LTR can be considered lazy. These are unicorns.

I would say lazy is picking up some 304 who has been around the block 22x times, as this type of girl is dime a dozen.

 

[soulforge]

Promiscuous women should rank just above your tube sock.
Use only when necessary.

How much body count till you decide she is promiscuous.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Try looking at the same question from another angle. Let’s say you find this woman. She is sexually active. She’s not monogamous. She gets her rocks off just like 90% of this board wishes they could get their rocks off. That same woman becomes monogamous and starts bending over backwards with gestures and displays of affection and commitment when you bond and start banging her brains out. Let’s say on average she had sex 15-25 times a year on average with a couple different regular partners, in rotation, and that number of new partners never broached let’s say, 20. On the other hand you have sally from high school who is having sex 75-200 times a year but her notch count is only 4. Same age. Why wouldn’t in either scenario feel a massive ego boost if you could have either of them volunteer to a monogamous situation? That inherently makes you superior, which at the end of the day is all this line of thinking is going for, egotistical satisfaction. Prove me wrong.

 

[CornbreadFed]

 

[pipeman84]

Try looking at the same question from another angle. Let’s say you find this woman. She is sexually active. She’s not monogamous. She gets her rocks off just like 90% of this board wishes they could get their rocks off. That same woman becomes monogamous and starts bending over backwards with gestures and displays of affection and commitment when you bond and start banging her brains out. Let’s say on average she had sex 15-25 times a year on average with a couple different regular partners, in rotation, and that number of new partners never broached let’s say, 20. On the other hand you have sally from high school who is having sex 75-200 times a year but her notch count is only 4. Same age. Why wouldn’t in either scenario feel a massive ego boost if you could have either of them volunteer to a monogamous situation? That inherently makes you superior, which at the end of the day is all this line of thinking is going for, egotistical satisfaction. Prove me wrong.

Why would you feel a massive ego boost if an old, beaten down, +150k miles on the clock car wants you to be its owner, for the price of a brand new 2023 Porsche Panamera?
Being monogamous is a huge investment ... do it wisely.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Why would you feel a massive ego boost if an old, beaten down, +150k miles on the clock car wants you to be its owner, for the price of a brand new 2023 Porsche Panamera?
Being monogamous is a huge investment ... do it wisely.

Bottom line, in both scenarios you should assume the same amount of tread on the tires. Perhaps sally actually has been smashed more often in a committed relationship with Chad. It was an illustration for the people here who are lamenting finding monogamy in their later years because in their early years they didn’t settle down. You can’t ’spin Plates’ and then assume you’re going to find the unicorn that saved herself for you for a decade. It’s a logical fallacy that ‘red pill’ men can’t comprehend
@Rollo Tomassi please advise next time you come through.

 

[soulforge]

Attachment, Detachment, Attachment, Detachment, Attachment, Detachment,
Attachment, Detachment, Attachment,

When they become sensitised to this cycle over & over again.. Believe me, they will not remain in a relationship when the going gets a little tough.

She is practiced in the art of Detachment & hopping onto the next Dik.

That doesn't mean, the girl with 5 bodies won't ever leave you.. She might do so.

However dating, commitment, it's about risk management and reducing the possibility of getting divorce graped.

If risk management wasn't a factor, then why do we care about red flags.

 

[Dr.Suave]

You can’t ’spin Plates’ and then assume you’re going to find the unicorn that saved herself for you for a decade. It’s a logical fallacy that ‘red pill’ men can’t comprehend

If you spin plates with the objective of getting laid as much as possible, obviously you will attract certain type of girls. If you spin plates with the mentality of "Im spinning temporarily because I want to be available if (not when) I ever stumble upon a Unicorn" might be a small but very important difference. But that´s a very big "If", there are no garantuees in life that you will stumble upon a unicorn.

Now, the decade thing. A guy who started spinning in his late teens, early 20s, has a better chance of stumbling upong a Unicorn a decade later than someone who started much later in life.

I get the feeling that when I talk about Ltr/marriage material, most guys here assume Im talking about an HB9.9. Im not, Im conviced there are a few women out there that barely pass the boner test but have a bunch of green flags and little to no red flags that make them good candidates for LTR/Marriage. If a brand new Porsche Panamera 2024 is a hypothetical 18 year old virgin girl who is an Hb9.9 with lots of green flags and little to no red flags; then yes I agree its "unrealistic/delusional" whatever words some guys here love to throw around. But you can shop around for an unused Nissan 2019. Its not a brand new Porsche Panamera 2024, but its still technically a new car and it gets you form point A to point B.

That same woman becomes monogamous and starts bending over backwards with gestures and displays of affection and commitment when

She didnt do this mostly because of you or for you, she mostly had to do this sooner rather than later because she realized The Party Years are over and now she´s in The Epiphany Phase.

Prove me wrong.

I dont wanna prove you wrong, bro. If you decide to continue in an exclusive relationship with her, I hope you are the one who ends up proving us wrong.

 

[Dr.Suave]

Why would you feel a massive ego boost if an old, beaten down, +150k miles on the clock car wants you to be its owner, for the price of a brand new 2023 Porsche Panamera?
Being monogamous is a huge investment ... do it wisely.

No, no, no. That f0cking car better be a 2024 model. 2023 or less is Plate Status / Recreational Use only

 

[Divorced w 3]

If you spin plates with the objective of getting laid as much as possible, obviously you will attract certain type of girls. If you spin plates with the mentality of "Im spinning temporarily because I want to be available if (not when) I ever stumble upon a Unicorn" might be a small but very important difference. But that´s a very big "If", there are no garantuees in life that you will stumble upon a unicorn.

Now, the decade thing. A guy who started spinning in his late teens, early 20s, has a better chance of stumbling upong a Unicorn a decade later than someone who started much later in life.

I get the feeling that when I talk about Ltr/marriage material, most guys here assume Im talking about an HB9.9. Im not, Im conviced there are a few women out there that barely pass the boner test but have a bunch of green flags and little to no red flags that make them good candidates for LTR/Marriage.



She didnt do this mostly because of you or for you, she mostly had to do this sooner rather than later because she realized The Party Years are over and now she´s in The Epiphany Phase.



I dont wanna prove you wrong, bro. If you decide to continue in an exclusive relationship with her, I hope you are the one who ends up proving us wrong.

What you’re saying is possible, maybe even probable- but I think the plate mentality should then be applied equally to both sexes (which, btw nobody ever actually take the time to explain, it’s simply taken as gospel that thou shalt spin plates for life), and you should be open that you are equally likely to wander through the desert without someone that clicks for you just like she is. As someone whose been married and knows what it looks like when monogamy goes bad, I can invert that experience to understanding when something can look good.

 

[pipeman84]

Since we are talking code here, very few men have the "money" to buy the brand New 2023 Porsche Panamera.

Jeff Bezos is driving around in a car he got from the junk-yard so I don't think it's an issue about money.

When I look at it from a larger perspective, I can't help wondering who are the monogamy worthy +20yrs old women getting together with? It's not like they are all out of the market because they're coupled up with a high school sweetheart. I wonder because it seems like all the guys who you'd think would be a catch (LMS wise) are either gay or with hoes/women with baggage.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Why would you feel a massive ego boost if an old, beaten down, +150k miles on the clock car wants you to be its owner, for the price of a brand new 2023 Porsche Panamera?
Being monogamous is a huge investment ... do it wisely.

I actually don’t even think men who understand what women are like can get ego boosts from sex with women. What women get turned on by has nothing to do with redeeming features in men.

 

[behimo]

I don't see how seeking a low body count female or a virgin & retaining her for an LTR can be considered lazy. These are unicorns.

I would say lazy is picking up some 304 who has been around the block 22x times, as this type of girl is dime a dozen.

everybody wants to be the exception, i thought men spoke in probabilities and not possibilities?

believe it or not 304's have standards too.

i'm not sayin that a person can't find the unicorn or rare girl, but that possibility as you yourself become older is less and less.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

What man in his right mind wants a four-door Porsche? If you’re going to dream about dropping 6 digits on a car at least get a decked out black Macan or a Cayman 4 T.

 

[behimo]

What man in his right mind wants a four-door Porsche? If you’re going to dream about dropping 6 digits on a car at least get a decked out black Macan or a Cayman 4 T.

I would say like anything else, it's a matter of taste for the individual. panamera is a pretty damn good driver's car even if you don't like the looks.

 

[Divorced w 3]

What man in his right mind wants a four-door Porsche? If you’re going to dream about dropping 6 digits on a car at least get a decked out black Macan or a Cayman 4 T.

Beat me to it

 

[devilkingx2]

My experience is that almost all girls are slvts and the few who aren't are somehow even worse.

If a woman lets you see her slvtty side it's because she likes you (in the way that matters) she's letting you know what's on the table for all the fun you'll be having with her soon. This is the best kind of woman imo.

If she wants you to think she goes to church on sundays and volunteers at the animal shelter/ feeds the homeless she either doesn't like you or likes you in the beta provider free therapist kind of way.

But I have met women who don't spend all their time fvcking their 3 boyfriends or selling their bodies for social media clout/VIP access...
They're usually entirely focused on their career/family or living paycheck to paycheck making ends meet and don't have any time for fun or living life.
At least in my opinion, this is way worse than a party girl.

 

[Divorced w 3]

My experience is that almost all girls are slvts and the few who aren't are somehow even worse.

If a woman lets you see her slvtty side it's because she likes you (in the way that matters) she's letting you know what's on the table for all the fun you'll be having with her soon. This is the best kind of woman imo.

If she wants you to think she goes to church on sundays and volunteers at the animal shelter/ feeds the homeless she either doesn't like you or likes you in the beta provider free therapist kind of way.

But I have met women who don't spend all their time fvcking their 3 boyfriends or selling their bodies for social media clout/VIP access...
They're usually entirely focused on their career/family or living paycheck to paycheck making ends meet and don't have any time for fun or living life.
At least in my opinion, this is way worse than a party girl.

Totally agree. She may not be a very experienced woman but if she likes you she’s going to do whatever you can convince her to be comfortable with. You’re absolutely getting played if you’re only doing missionary.