rascal99v
Senior Don Juan
zekko said:One thing I don't think the anti-texting crowd understands is how quickly the texting can turn to sexuality. And once that seed is planted, it's on. The "alpha types" here are thinking "Oh, isn't that cute, she's texting her AFC beta orbiter - you can see he is an AFC because he texts her".
Zekko makes a really good point here. Glad that you posted
These anti texting guys have no idea what they are talking about. They have limited experience with women. So, this is why they keep repeating these same lame texting myths.
They never had any sexually interested women to text. So, they say "texting kills relationships" because it never worked for them. The problem is, that they were texting chicks who weren't interested in them. That is why they failed. Replace those disinterested women with sexually interested women, and you have your success with getting laid. So yes, texting does work.
What's funny is that most of these anti texting guys end up agreeing with me that texting does work, after they rant and rave about how bad texting is. LOL. That's how hypocritical they are. They say it's bad, but then they agree with me. So, texting isn't all that bad when they disagree against their own myths. :crackup:
Then they say "yeah texting does work but you will only get wh0res" or "you can do the same thing or better with a phone call." Well, aren't they getting wh0res too if they are doing the same thing over the phone? Just more contradictions in which they keep proving me right each time they post. :yes:
You should be talking to chicks on the phone as well as texting them. Texting is just an accessory to get the job done faster. You still talk to them on the phone so they hear your voice. And you still meet up with them to go on the date to get laid. Texting is just one piece of the game to add to your arsenal. But these anti textng guys make it out to be everything. Which is why their false points are just lame myths.
It all comes down to interest and attraction. If the chick has zero attraction, a phone call isn't going to make her panties wet. But these anti texting guys don't seem to understand that.
They like to scoff at men for texting, but they have no clue how the game even works.
The fact of the matter is, the chick is one who initiates most the texting. Highly interested women always put in more effort than the man ever does. Highly interested women want to text you because they are interested in you. So, when you are replying to them at your own leisure, you can game several chicks at the same time. They have high interest because they are texting you.
So, no interest is going to be "killed" by the time you get her into bed when she is the one doing most of the texting. But these anti texting guys who have no experience don't know that. But they seem to have all the answers about how bad texting is. :crackup:
When a chick wants to fvck you, it doesn't matter what communication method you use. The desire will still be there.
Now in these relationships with chicks texting other dudes, it's the chick who wants to hear from the other guy. She gave him her number so he can text her. She wants to hear from him. Her interest is declining in the boyfriend, so she is out looking for other options. If she was still attracted to her boyfriend, respected him, and loved him, she would only want to be with him and not trying to add other dudes into the mix.
Some guys have no problems with their girlfriends hanging with orbiters. Doesn't matter what the guy looks like. As long as you don't set any boundaries and allow her to hang out with other men, that gives her the green light to hang out or fvck a guy she really want to. '
Why would she listen to you now if you object, when you let her hang out with the ugly beta guys before? She won't take you seriously because you let her do what she wanted. You were too afraid to do anything at the beginning, so you will suffer the consequences at the end. Also, if she wants to bang the other guy she will no matter if you set boundaries, object, or not. Still, you should set boundaries anyway because there is no reason for her to be spending time alone with other men.
It isn't hard to game and get a taken chick into bed. It's only a "title" that she doesn't even respect. Guys will treat her a single chick and the boyfriend will be irrelevant. She will still be initiating texting or calls when she likes you over the boyfriend. So, the dude who is doing the gaming really doesn't have to put in much effort. She will be making it easy for you. As long as she is DTF, she will fvck him, most often when the boyfriend confronts the girlfriend about the other dude.
I was in a Civil War History class and we broke up into groups to do a project. Had a chick in my group and got to talking during the class. After the class we exchanged numbers. Later that night, she sent me a text about something regarding the class. She initiated the first text. She continued to text more than I did.
I found out a week later or so that she had a boyfriend. But she down played it like the relationship sucked and the guy was a loser. Since she didn't give a sh1t about him, then why should I? She is the one who hinted that we should hang out We hung out and were making out on our first hang out date. She brought up after that her boyfriend was asking who I was because she was texting me on the phone. She told him "just a friend from class." Not too long after that, she told me that her boyfriend said he doesn't want her talking with me anymore. Right after that incident, we had sex.
It's all about interest and attraction. It all goes hand in hand with texting, your girlfriend, and getting laid. When it's high you will do well and be successful. When it's not, you won't get laid and your girlfriend will leave you or cheat. Don't dismiss the other guy as "just a friend" or a "loser". When your girlfriend is spending more time with him than you, that is a huge red flag. I've seen people get cheated on, and I cheated with other girls.
When her interest is higher for someone else, the game is over. Trying to play interest level games, pretending to be a prize, ignoring the other guy, being aloof, confronting her about it is not going to change things. She already decided that she is going fvck him and it will happen sooner or later. That's why you should always have other options, set boundaries, and screen for red flags with these women. When something is off with her behavior, there is always something else going on. You need to realize that and get ready to eject because you will get dumped or be cheated on.
Leprechaun2013 said:View yourself as the prize. Once you think it you will become it.
LOL. Yeah, well, some dude "viewing himself as a prize" as he watches his girlfriend go out with another guy, will soon feel like a piece of sh1t after he finds out after that she fvcked the dude. :yes:
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Here's another lame myth that these guys like to talk about. This "phony prize mentality" nonsense.
Thinking that you are a prize, equates to pretending to be a prize, which means that you are not a
prize. :yes:
I could think that I'm the world's greatest doctor. Is me thinking about being a great doctor going to make me become a great doctor? No. In order for me to become a great doctor, I'm going to need to go to medical school to become a doctor. Then, I'm going to need the experience to become a great doctor. I just can't think that and become that without doing anything.
Same thing as becoming good with women. Pretending to be a prize will do nothing for you unless you go out and get the experience needed to be good with women.
Athletes gain confidence by their achievements. They go out and win games, they improve their stats, which makes them more confident as they improve. So, they keep that confidence because of the success they are having which allows them to be good athletes.
This same applies to actually becoming a prize with women. By going out, getting numbers, learning how to game chicks, and banging them gives you that needed experience. Each time you accomplish that task, you become better, and that gives you the confidence you need that allows you to be good with them.
Sitting on your couch "viewing yourself as a prize" without doing anything will get you nowhere. :yes:
backbreaker said:Even if I agreed on the notion that texting can escalate to sex, which is very iffy, that's not a good enough reason for me to partake in something. It takes up too much of my time, it emasculates me, it makes me too available these are all things that i want to avoid.
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Very iffy? Then why are chicks fvcking other men behind their boyfriends backs through text? It's not "very iffy". That's a lame myth and only your opinon. It will be very iffy when the chick doesn't like you. That would happen with any form of communication.
Dude, when a highly interested chick wants to fvck you, she will. Texting is just another form of communication.
This is another lame myth that you guys like to spread around. Even Harry Wilmington finally agrees you will get women into bed by texting. So, he even disproved his own lame myth he preaches. LOL :crackup:
So, a chick telling you through text telling you how she wants to be fvcked would make you feel emasculated? Aren't you married? So, why do you care about texting?
You text chicks when you want to. You don't text them all day. That's why it's easy and doesn't take up much time.
I didn't answer any of my texts until an hour ago. Then a few minutes later they all started coming in. I won't reply until later.
So, you would talk to 6 or 7 chicks instead on the phone instead of texting them quickly?