Staying in line with the thread though, maybe it is because I came of age in game at a much later time (lost V card at 19) and missed out on a lot of the fun in my youth. Given that other things in my life are on lock and doing decent, I actually wanted to go even harder despite the success of the past 5 years. I enter my 30s and I legitimately would not mind sticking to sugar daddy game and when it is legal in spots, escort game.
Maybe my beliefs are different but I want to sleep with a lot of different women that are hot and are also of different background. I peek around and see the weak nonsense on other places of getting married, wanting someone who "loves you", and how the game gets old but I think its a load of fluff. I think it speaks to the fact that most of these men are emotionally and mentally weak, wanting company and love from a woman because maybe their moms hugged them too tightly.
If anything. I think the PUA community fell apart because it became pussified. Instead of dudes wanting to plow through hordes of women, you got this weak crap of LTRs and how valuable marriage is, this probably explains the obsession with politics and wanting things to go back to when you had 1 spouse by 21 and got married with kids by then. It's a loser's paradise so no wonder these places all fell apart.
Even now I feel like I am one of the few men out there who is okay with the following after 30:
- Making money
- Looking good
- Being in good health
- Continue to sleep with a lot of different women (through easier means than cold approach of course)
- Experiment with orgies and threesomes and all wild sex with random women
The idea of LTRs and wife and kids never appealed to me. Yet I feel like we had so many beta males that flooded into PUA, stayed, and are now tearing to tear apart the foundation of it meant to be centered around sex with different women than being a husband. We have these spineless cowards whose mothers hugged them too tightly and fathers never beat them being desperate for a wife and because they stuck around, the movement fell apart.
I'd enforce a strict policy keeping dudes who want LTRs out and make the game strictly about notch counts. The second some b1tchboy starts praising marriage, wife, kids, and LTRs, ban them immediately and let them cry in places where they are okay with having men whose balls never dropped.
I do legit think LTR worship and desperation for a family life tore PUA to shreds.
Only alpha males and strong men can handle not needing a woman in their lives, living their lives fulfilled, and treating women as sex toys or some only available for sex.