There is too much toxic male dating advice for younger men these days

[CornbreadFed]

Andrew Tate and Fresh and Fit have inflated the manosphere with sushi roll advice. Overall crappy toxic advice with a sprinkle of better yourself to make it appear not completely toxic. Dating is not that hard and it should be easier judging the increasing amount of feminized men I am seeing out in public. It seems like the guys with useful content are being shadow banned on YouTube, but I see a lot of FreshandFit and Andrew Tate stuff being spanned everywhere. I really do not think these are good role models for younger man to be taking advice from and I am finding it extremely worrisome.

 

[SW15]

Fresh & Fit is way better than any blue pill normie advice out there.

 

[Robert28]

Men wouldn’t have to pretend to be something they aren’t and be a dancing monkey if women didn’t go for it. It’s why you don’t see many authentic people anymore, why ever woman wants you to act like Chad instead of being different. Our entire culture is toxic, not just dating.

 

[Stanley]

Agree. Some of the things they say carry some weight to them, but often times they really create a negative outlook. That said that outlook is a result of the modern dating culture, I do not blame them for that, but I imagine the majority of their viewers come from an impressionable age.

Take the knowledge found in the 'manosphere' (cringe) and apply what is needed that suits you.

 

[zekko]

I've got to agree. It seems like most manosphere material these days is flat out discouraging to men. Like if you're not 6'2" and have women hanging from your jock strap, don't even bother, because women won't give you a second look. Fact is, girls still want to get with guys (unless they're going through a heavy LGBTQ phase), so might as well take your shot. If you can form an emotional attachment with her, she'll be interested.

The other thing that annoys me is how these guys tell everybody this stuff, but then they're like "Oh, this doesn't apply to me, because I'm alpha". Yeah, whatever.

 

[bat soup]

Fresh & Fit is way better than any blue pill normie advice out there.

Those two actually helped me to become a CEO. I used to think that to become a CEO you had to study hard, go to university etc. It turns out all you have to do is put on a t-shirt with the words CEO on it. And you can guess which one is "Fit" because the other one...

 

[EyeBRollin]

Yes, they are quite toxic. Unfortunately, there aren’t many level headed red pill creators out there. The manosphere tends to attract men that are more jaded. Add to the fact that most YouTubers are grifters to begin with.

With that being said, it is better to be “toxic” than a blue pill simp. Just keep yourself grounded.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Andrew Tate and Fresh and Fit have inflated the manosphere with sushi roll advice. Overall crappy toxic advice with a sprinkle of better yourself to make it appear not completely toxic. Dating is not that hard and it should be easier judging the increasing amount of feminized men I am seeing out in public. It seems like the guys with useful content are being shadow banned on YouTube, but I see a lot of FreshandFit and Andrew Tate stuff being spanned everywhere. I really do not think these are good role models for younger man to be taking advice from and I am finding it extremely worrisome.

They're better than CNN or any other p*ssy whipped content going across all airwaves. Tv, movies, news stations, social media, school, even video games, boys and men are being attacked daily saying their masculinity is bad. In that context, any redpill advice is good advice for the unwoken.

 

[SW15]

They're better than CNN or any other p*ssy whipped content going across all airwaves. Tv, movies, news stations, social media, school, even video games, boys and men are being attacked daily saying their masculinity is bad. In that context, any redpill advice is good advice for the unwoken.

There's so much blue pill bullshiit on the internet. Red pill and black pill for the win!

In the last 7-10 years, the black pill has been gaining popularity. Millennials and Gen Z moving away from the blue pill seem to like the black pill more than the red pill. The red pill seems very Gen X to me. There are red pill Millennials. Older Millennials might be more red pill than the younger ones.

 

[BMX]

They are completely fkd from the get-go. How many sh it sandwiches has every generation passed down to them simultaneously? Seriously. Good luck to them separating the wheat from the chaff and navigating those minefields. The hopes is that they take the current toxic environment, the current toxic "advice" given to them and do what needs to be done to rectify all of it. I do resonate with a few content creators much more than others. It became too easy to tell who was on YT conducting mental masturbation psyops and speaking from a lack of experience.

 

[The Duke]

There comes a point when a guy will need to use the gray matter between his ears and sort out what is legit and what isn't.

The further down the road you get, the more you'll toss the toxic stuff to the side.

Guys like Andrew Tate remind me of instagram attention wh0res that think they are famous fashion models and offer very little. Their goal is to attract attention and they'll say whatever to get it. Guys like Richard Cooper are much more valid. He doesn't pedal the "shock & awe" smoke show.

 

[eli77]

To the original poster what would you suggest they do?

 

[Tilex]

Toxic male dating advice has been around since the internet was invented.
I clearly remember reading toxic male dating advice on many forums back in 2001
It was much worse back then, than it is now.

 

[BadBoy89]

It seems like most manosphere material these days is flat out discouraging to men. Like if you're not 6'2" and have women hanging from your jock strap, don't even bother, because women won't give you a second look.

No you can be 6’1.

But in reality, they are right when it comes to attractive girls. Any fertile attractive girl between 18-29 wont give a normal guy a second look. They want the Alpha men.

Only when they hit 30+ they will, not because they are in love, but because they are facing morality for the first time in their lives and need something secure.

 

[Robert28]

No you can be 6’1.

But in reality, they are right when it comes to attractive girls. Any fertile attractive girl between 18-29 wont give a normal guy a second look. They want the Alpha men.

Only when they hit 30+ they will, not because they are in love, but because they are facing morality for the first time in their lives and need something secure.

That thinking is 10 years old my friend. Most women in their 30’s are still demanding the same guy they were in their 20’s PLUS many other demands. Ain’t no settling going on these days til they hit 40. If then even.

 

[Stuffnu]

I take toxic over a bud light drinking trannies.

 

[corrector]

There's so much blue pill bullshiit on the internet. Red pill and black pill for the win!

In the last 7-10 years, the black pill has been gaining popularity. Millennials and Gen Z moving away from the blue pill seem to like the black pill more than the red pill. The red pill seems very Gen X to me. There are red pill Millennials. Older Millennials might be more red pill than the younger ones.

Red pill is not Gen X.

 

[corrector]

Toxic male dating advice has been around since the internet was invented.
I clearly remember reading toxic male dating advice on many forums back in 2001
It was much worse back then, than it is now.

True, people complained about having to cold approach, and today they are complaining about not being able to because women are too hooked up on their internet chads.

 

[The Duke]

I take toxic over a bud light drinking trannies.

I'll drink to that and raise you one....2 toxics!

 

[BadBoy89]

That thinking is 10 years old my friend. Most women in their 30’s are still demanding the same guy they were in their 20’s PLUS many other demands. Ain’t no settling going on these days til they hit 40. If then even.

If a guy is at least 6’0, has some money and looks ok, he should be able to get 30+. Now I don’t think he can get full blown marriage and kids, but he should be able to get 30 if he is at least 6’0 and has money,

Heck I went out with the hottest 29 year old yoga teacher at 43 and I’m not 6’1. And if I can do it, anyone can.