There is no such thing as 'messing up' with women. As soon as you think this way, you have already given the woman credit for EXISTING and lost the game. There is women losing attraction because she has no more use for you, or you are trying too hard to be funny /witty. But if you ask her out with the intentions of having sex and she doesn't reply positively, that's it. You've done your job and you move on.
I think this where a lot of men get confused. The woman is wishy/washy, doesn't respond positively, doesn't get back to you on time, hints you should try harder. The man tries harder, says one thing where the women doesn't like it and then the man freaks out because the woman uses it against him so he feels he 'messed things up'. Remember, the SAME woman who doesn't get back to you, delays sex, stays in the grey area about where you stand, makes your head spin, manipulates and emotionally destroys you is the SAME woman who would KISS your hand if you had a company that desperately needed a secretary and paid her $6,000/month.
A woman's behaviour and actions depends on their needs and situation AT THE TIME. You can not mess up with a woman by being polite, respectful, and escalating for sex.
I think this where a lot of men get confused. The woman is wishy/washy, doesn't respond positively, doesn't get back to you on time, hints you should try harder. The man tries harder, says one thing where the women doesn't like it and then the man freaks out because the woman uses it against him so he feels he 'messed things up'. Remember, the SAME woman who doesn't get back to you, delays sex, stays in the grey area about where you stand, makes your head spin, manipulates and emotionally destroys you is the SAME woman who would KISS your hand if you had a company that desperately needed a secretary and paid her $6,000/month.
A woman's behaviour and actions depends on their needs and situation AT THE TIME. You can not mess up with a woman by being polite, respectful, and escalating for sex.