i gotcha.Solomon said:Garruk don't get it confused, I'm not a "absolutist" who thinks every "hot guy" is trying to bone a fattie/whale/UG. But when its the end of the night and the hotties are shutting every guy down, its a mudturtle fest where I live
(just to clarify there hot chicks were I live)
i think what happens is that the hot girls know they can get any guy they want at the club. so unless they are planning to get laid every time they go out (which they arent) they will only hook up when a guy is truly exceptional.
the actual guys these girls are boning regularly are boyfriends or FBs they already know (from school, mutual friends, work). These same guys, when out in a club, are getting shut down as well.
I can totally relate to this. the top 5 hottest girls i've ever been with girls i knew from school or mutual friends. The girls, if I approached at a club, I would have gottten shut down.
i think we have a misunderstanding, where you are talking about a club dynamic and im talking about dating as a whole.