There but not there

[Lamia]

Today I went to a dance and I was talking to this girl. I met her at school but I really didnt know a lot about her.

Most of the time we talked and walked. However when we walked we started holding hands and sometimes she grabbed my hand.

I was way nervous :nervous: and I wanted to kiss her but I didnt know how to do it and I was afraid that it would be to awkward.

By the end of the night I pecked her on the cheek and we said good bye. I wanted more but I just felt really nervous but I had a good day.

So now what I want to know is how do you get a girl to kiss you?

 

[bigw]

You go in for the kiss, i.e. you initiate it

 

[Lamia]

You go in for the kiss, i.e. you initiate it

big you make it sound so easy lol

 

[Climax]

Here is something you can do...

Lamia: Here is what you need to do to make things easier for you to kiss her, properly.

1) Arrange for you and her to do something together. A movie, a picnic (I like the beach for a picnic), or anywhere where you and her will have some alone / personal time.

2) Just enjoy each others company, get to know each other better.

3) Ask her to go for a walk with you, doesn’t have to be a long walk

4) While you are walking, hold her hand and continue to walk, while observing her reactions.

5) If she hold your hand back then continue walking for a minute or 2 and then say something along the lines of "Wow look at the ocean/mountain/flower/whatever, its so beautiful... *look at her* but I think you're even more beautiful"

At this stage she should be flattered by you, and this would be a great time to kiss her. This girl has given you obvious signs that she is into you, I don’t think you have much to worry about.

 

[Lamia]

thankss I'm gonna see if it works!

 

[DontQuitYet]

big you make it sound so easy lol

that's because it is. Just doo it. She took the energy to initiate, that means she's interested. So just escalate it the next time, go in and get more than a peck

 

[Lamia]

that's because it is. Just doo it. She took the energy to initiate, that means she's interested. So just escalate it the next time, go in and get more than a peck

I'm going out with her saturday to the beach
wish me luck!