This site has been enlightening. Yet it has also been a curse. This site has been more of an explanation as to WHY things happen. We all have seen people playfully touch each other We all have seen guys present flowers to girls on the first date. We all have seen some guys bust on women and still somehow manage to score left and right. This site just reinforces that all those things DO happen and gave them names; kino, AFCness, C&F...whatever.
How many of us are guilty of reading a post on confidence or alpha dominance or how to be a challenge and gone out thinking those thoughts before, during, and after we meet a girl? I know, I know, as you think you shall become. But when you do it naturally, you never think about that stuff at all. This is the real "DJ".
When you talk to your male buddies, you don't think "Confidence" in your head. You didn't read an article on an internet site somewhere on how to relate to your fellow man. When you talk to your buddies, you do it naturally. Genuine things are the best. Fakers always get caught.
When things are natural, you don't need to think about them. You don't think about how to walk, you just do it, and you do a fine job of walking. You don't think about how to laugh, you just do it. Believe it or not, you learned all these things through trial and error, or experience. Do you really think the best DJs in the world have never crashed and burned countless times before they learned from their mistakes and got good?
So how do you do things naturally? Get in the habit of doing something regularly and do it a lot. That's all there is to it. Everyone makes mistakes at first, but you'll see that the world does not come crashing down when you don't succeed at first. Your friends aren't going to abandon you. Your family isn't going to stop loving you. Quit whining.
Quit analyzing everything. When you hesitate, always resort to action. Just get out there and enjoy life. Out of the millions and millions of sperm that could have fertilized the egg, it was YOU who succeed. You are special. You are a man. Live like one. In other words, quit analyzing and resort to action.
How many of us are guilty of reading a post on confidence or alpha dominance or how to be a challenge and gone out thinking those thoughts before, during, and after we meet a girl? I know, I know, as you think you shall become. But when you do it naturally, you never think about that stuff at all. This is the real "DJ".
When you talk to your male buddies, you don't think "Confidence" in your head. You didn't read an article on an internet site somewhere on how to relate to your fellow man. When you talk to your buddies, you do it naturally. Genuine things are the best. Fakers always get caught.
When things are natural, you don't need to think about them. You don't think about how to walk, you just do it, and you do a fine job of walking. You don't think about how to laugh, you just do it. Believe it or not, you learned all these things through trial and error, or experience. Do you really think the best DJs in the world have never crashed and burned countless times before they learned from their mistakes and got good?
So how do you do things naturally? Get in the habit of doing something regularly and do it a lot. That's all there is to it. Everyone makes mistakes at first, but you'll see that the world does not come crashing down when you don't succeed at first. Your friends aren't going to abandon you. Your family isn't going to stop loving you. Quit whining.
Quit analyzing everything. When you hesitate, always resort to action. Just get out there and enjoy life. Out of the millions and millions of sperm that could have fertilized the egg, it was YOU who succeed. You are special. You are a man. Live like one. In other words, quit analyzing and resort to action.
