without a hubby, daddy or boyfriend CREATING them. They don't know how and don't think they should HAVE to put out the work needed to become worth a hoot. That's why I say to get a young Filipina and train her to be what you want. To avoid having to return to the sewer she came from, she will put up with any reasonable training program, even act very much as if she LIKES it. That's all I ask/expect of any woman, is that she put on a GOOD act, for a few years. Even just that is more than 99% of US women can bother with. The 1% have 100 men hanging around them, too.