Theory: It is easier to get women who are darker than you.

[Good Gao]

Which means that of all the types of men out there, blond men probably have the highest value on the dating market with all else being equal.

I even notice it as an Asian guy, I have black women (especially darker skinned) and darker skinned Latinas throwing themselves at me, barely have to do any work to get them. Same goes for Indian women, the darker ones are easy but the more Arab looking ones are tough!

Because of colonisation and how it happens among even minorities.

I notice in so many pairings when the girl is hot, the guy is always lighter, even among whites.

If you see a hot brunette in an LTR, she is likely with a blond haired guy if there are blond men available.

Same with minorities, hot women in general love going for guys lighter than them because it signifies status.

As an East Asian guy, I can slay darker skinned Asian women with ease.

 

[Barrister]

I think it is more about you attract those opposite of you. I have a dark complexion. Dark brown hair and olive skin. Out of the 6 relationships I have been in my life, 5 were light skinned blondes. Only one was a brunette. However, the brunette was my favorite.

 

[mrmuscles2]

A lot of the girls i met told me they find blonde guys unattractive and i've met a lot of couples where the girl is hot and her bf/husband has a darker tone than her.

now, it is kinda true that men like fair skin, yes the lighter the more attractive she is to most men regardless of her ethincity , as for the guy, most women seem to like men darker hair and lighter shades of tan, or more accurately olive skin ... for example check antonio banderas skin tone, thats the kind of skin tone most women really like , not too dark yet not too light and "feminnie" , of course your color doesnt mean youre a certain way but its just natural instinct and how we are as humans are programmed .... almost all girls i approached, really liked and dated had light olive or fair skin , i find some darker women attractive but not attractive enough to attract me i just dont find dark skin hot, not that i hate it or think less of it its just .... when i look at two girls one has fair skin and one has dark tan skin, the fair one will always look hotter to me everything else being equal .

As for it being easy or hard .... idk i never really noticed a difference it comes down to you as a guy and how much she wants you .

 

[Dingo]

Dude.... Give this race obsession a rest.

 

[claudolfgeorgini]

Well I have brown hair blue eyes but I get waaaaaay more women than my blonde cousin. Simply because women find me better looking.

I've been rejected by women darker than me. I've had it really easy with blonde women sometimes.
The common denominator was that I was better looking than them.

 

[Murk]

Nonsense. Lot's of girls don't prefer fair/blonde blue eyes hence the saying tall dark and handsome.

Good Gao how tall are you? Why do you think race so important?

 

[flowtheory]

This is a hypothesis not a theory.

And it’s incorrect.

 

[MatureDJ]

This is really a manifestation of the fact that White folks, especially the Nordics, are considered the most attractive, with the other races being less attractive, and the fact that women are hypergamous. So of course, a darker race woman would be more likely to consider a White man rather than a White woman, save for the ones that have "jungle fever".

Evolutionary biology thought posits that the reason that Nordic folks are considered the most attractive is because this subrace is the only one in which there is generally a marked difference in hair color from early adulthood to later adulthood, and that the "gentlemen who preferred blondes" got with younger women, and therefore had more offspring due to the longer time of fertility for those women relative to older, darker haired women.

 

[Soflobro#2]

Most non-white women have white fever. Especially if you're good looking and light colored hair and green or blue eyes.

This makes sense because whites have had so much influence and power as a result of winning the survival of the fittest competition in the world.

It's not really white privelege. Any other race or group had a fair shot but only one group succeeded to the extent that brought us into the modern world with all of our advancements in all fields of stem, medical, ect.

Because of this white people are look up to (and often hated by some seething, envious self loathing non-whites). But think about how some non-white women perceive white men. You don't even have to have success. As long as you are intelligent and show great potential, this will be enough to build rapport and create attraction.

Also this is why some of the seething envious, beta, non-white men here and in society HATE good looking white men and will try to bring them down. They are pathetic and obsessed and weak. Remember a hater is just a fan, a pathetic fan, but still a fan.

It used to be surprising to me, how obsessed they could become and how consuming their envy could become. But hey if they want to waste their time i guess that's their choice.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Not true in all culture. Some cultures "lighter" is "weaker" and less sexually potent. So colonism doesn't help you one bit.

Take two people built the same, similar features, melanin is an additional dimension that fair skinned folks don't have.

Anyway dark skinned indian women are attractive to me, and they are still feminine in their culture. They are so sweet.

 

[Soflobro#2]

Not true in all culture. Some cultures "lighter" is "weaker" and less sexually potent. So volonism doesn't help you one bit.

Take two people built the same, similar features, melanin is an additional dimension that fair skinned folks don't have.

Anyway dark skinned imdian women are attractive to me, and they are still feminine in their culture.

Fair enough. Yes white men can be just as hateful as a result of consuming envy too. Especially the younger ones who have had little to no experience yet they think they have understanding that they don't. These types are just as feminine as the non-white fans also.

For me i had more than one girl ask me out in high school. I was homeschooled until 8th grade so by the time I got to high school, I was still shy and introverted but i didn't act like I was shy and introverted and some people take that as you thinking you're better than them (regardless of if you are or not). Also in high school all i did was people watch. I observed everyone.

I didn't grow up the same as many people. My parents were careful of what we watched on tv or even movies. I was taught that your sexuality is not something you should give away so easily. It is precious just like your emotions.

Some people want to be your friend just because you're better looking than them. Good looking people absolutely get treated differently. I had this "friend" sabotage me with this girl i really liked. I know he did. He was jealous. Like i said I was very reserved and this often will attract people to you, and when people are attracted to you, they validate you. This makes others jealous sometimes.

Also being white and good looking means you are held to a high standard. People expect you to be successful, they will treat you like you are even if you haven't been in some ways.

But haters are FANS. The opposite of love is not hate. It is indifference. Some people struggle with sorting this concept out though. But that is THEIR fault and problem.

Some people do the right thing their whole life and get stuck because they have a small mind because their experience is limited to one path. Some people, whether intentional or not, have had to adapt to very different and sometimes chaotic paths, and as long as they can keep it together, by the time they find their way, they are a more complete and well rounded individual with a whole arsenal of tools because of the well rounded past they had. These people are also much wiser and have the best people skills (when motivated).

Often a good tactic is to do nothing. But you have to know when.

Anyways you will always be better than your haters. The only reason they hate you to begin with is because you are superior to them. They are generally powerless anyways.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

It always helps to focus on and work on our goals and to minimize distractions such as hate and games . Flat out fly .

 

[Soflobro#2]

It always helps to focus on and work on our goals and to minimize distractions such as hate and games . Flat out fly .

And patience and or simply not caring. Two things I've really improved in the last 5 years of my life.