Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
We all know women will test you regardles of how rich, how confident, how handsome, or how much of a player they think you are. If she is interested, sooner of later, regardless of how much you seem to think she's into you, will test you to see if you will buckle or if you will be worthy of pursuing.
The one $hit test that you might not see coming, specially if you are extremely confident, or are very good looking, is the "You must get a lot of girls"comment that women like to throw at you. Definitely a $hit test disguised as a compliment.
That is the easiest way of girls trying to $hit test you and make you qualify yourself to them. It puts most guys, even if they are good looking, at a defensive to try to come up with an answer that satisfies her, while seekin' approval. Its one of those that sounds like a compliment, but in reality, she's waiting to see how you react to the accusation.
Its not what you respond, but how you respond that will determine wether she's judging you, or you will turn it around and make HER qualify and prove herself to you.
Some responses:
"Obviously you seem to really like me." This will turn it around and force her to do some explaining.
"Are you tryin' to tell me that you are a player?"
"Is that your way of asking me to show you how to get girls?"
"You must have a very good reason why you say that, share it with me."
You just wait patiently as you give her a look that clearly tells her that you are expecting an answer. When they start telling you about all the good qualities they see in you, they are selling themselves on you all over again. This is one of the principles of persuasion, if its her saying it or if it seems like is her idea, she won't resist it.
"You must compliment a lot of men by telling them this." Or "Do you always come on to men this strong?"
Haha, now she must prove that her "compliment" is not generic and is only for you, and give you all the reasons she's finds you so attractive.
All of the above responses I have actually used, and will work to not ony dissarm her after she shoots her question that is obviously thrown at you to test you, but also to put her on the defensive and make her be the one who now must seek validation by coming up with an answer to me tossin' back the $hit test at her.
The one $hit test that you might not see coming, specially if you are extremely confident, or are very good looking, is the "You must get a lot of girls"comment that women like to throw at you. Definitely a $hit test disguised as a compliment.
That is the easiest way of girls trying to $hit test you and make you qualify yourself to them. It puts most guys, even if they are good looking, at a defensive to try to come up with an answer that satisfies her, while seekin' approval. Its one of those that sounds like a compliment, but in reality, she's waiting to see how you react to the accusation.
Its not what you respond, but how you respond that will determine wether she's judging you, or you will turn it around and make HER qualify and prove herself to you.
Some responses:
"Obviously you seem to really like me." This will turn it around and force her to do some explaining.
"Are you tryin' to tell me that you are a player?"
"Is that your way of asking me to show you how to get girls?"
"You must have a very good reason why you say that, share it with me."
You just wait patiently as you give her a look that clearly tells her that you are expecting an answer. When they start telling you about all the good qualities they see in you, they are selling themselves on you all over again. This is one of the principles of persuasion, if its her saying it or if it seems like is her idea, she won't resist it.
"You must compliment a lot of men by telling them this." Or "Do you always come on to men this strong?"
Haha, now she must prove that her "compliment" is not generic and is only for you, and give you all the reasons she's finds you so attractive.
All of the above responses I have actually used, and will work to not ony dissarm her after she shoots her question that is obviously thrown at you to test you, but also to put her on the defensive and make her be the one who now must seek validation by coming up with an answer to me tossin' back the $hit test at her.
