As we're all aspiring DJs in high school, and hell, as we're all boys in high school, its inevitable that we've all had oneitis. Some of us have had it worse than others, but being clung onto a girl is something that we've all experienced at one time or another in our adolescent lives. Having oneitis not only screws up your game - it also makes it hard to move on and get out of the slump you're in. Its absolutely crucial that you avoid having oneitis at this young of an age because its not like you're marrying the damn girl anyway, and if you're all depressed or infatuated over this one girl, how are you going to go out and meet more? How many days, weeks, or even months are you going to let this girl control your life?
In this topic, post a bad case of oneitis that you've had and, if you feel comfortable, how you got over it. This will hopefully:
- Serve as a deterrent to new DJs about making the same mistakes
- Bring closure to yourself and possibly other people who have been in that same situation
- Laugh about your AFC days
- Help people suffering from oneitis really see that their situation isn't so isolated
- Console other people that are suffering from the same problem
For me personally, I have a nasty habit of getting attached easily to hot girls that I've dated. Especially in high school where there's something so "innocent" about them and that I have the possibility of being their "first" - and that thought that some other guy is going to be that with a girl I had a fling with gives me the worst sinking feeling ever. I've found, at least for me, that reading other peoples' stories has done wonders for helping me just move on.
If it'll help break the ice, I'll go first
In this topic, post a bad case of oneitis that you've had and, if you feel comfortable, how you got over it. This will hopefully:
- Serve as a deterrent to new DJs about making the same mistakes
- Bring closure to yourself and possibly other people who have been in that same situation
- Laugh about your AFC days
- Help people suffering from oneitis really see that their situation isn't so isolated
- Console other people that are suffering from the same problem
For me personally, I have a nasty habit of getting attached easily to hot girls that I've dated. Especially in high school where there's something so "innocent" about them and that I have the possibility of being their "first" - and that thought that some other guy is going to be that with a girl I had a fling with gives me the worst sinking feeling ever. I've found, at least for me, that reading other peoples' stories has done wonders for helping me just move on.
If it'll help break the ice, I'll go first