The word "Goodbye"

[Desdinova]

This is the most powerful word you can use to end any relationship. The word "Goodbye" has an incredible inpact on a person. Goodbye means that you're never going to see this person again, nor will you ever talk to them again.

Method 1: Using it to close a chapter on your life
This is when you use the word to complete a part of your life that you never want repeated. When you break up with a woman you're sick of, or you get your ass dumped (but she was a b1tch anyway), wrap up any business you have with her, and then tell her "goodbye". This is when you make your goodbye mean goodbye. Vow to yourself that you're not going to break this goodbye and let her back into your life. It's finalized. It's finished. You finished it. Keep it that way.

Method 2: Using it to set up a returning fox scenario
So you've dated this chick a few times, and she's giving you excuses for not being available to date, she's flaking, or she's still broken up over her boyfriend. Tell her, "Allright, I'm moving on. Goodbye". Don't use it in an angry way, but use a stern voice. You've just closed the door on her and rejected her. She's going to feel empty. She's going to feel like she lost something important. Over the next little while, she's going to be thinking about you. Don't be surprised that you get a phone call from her within a few weeks.

Women hate sudden endings. They'd rather let it slowly fade away to ease their feelings. Tell any woman goodbye and you'll see them struggle with it. What you're doing is taking away any power she has to drag out the ending of the relationship or keep you as a backup. She'll give you some BS line like, "Don't think of this as goodbye, think of this as see you later". That's when you tell her, "No, this is goodbye" and end it there. Women hate sudden endings. They'd rather let it slowly fade away to ease their feelings.

In any event, this one word can be used to maintain your control over your life. Use it well.

 

[AFK Protector]

Excellent.

 

[DJDamage]

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Women hate sudden endings. They'd rather let it slowly fade away to ease their feelings. Tell any woman goodbye and you'll see them struggle with it. What you're doing is taking away any power she has to drag out the ending of the relationship or keep you as a backup. She'll give you some BS line like, "Don't think of this as goodbye, think of this as see you later". That's when you tell her, "No, this is goodbye" and end it there. Women hate sudden endings. They'd rather let it slowly fade away to ease their feelings.
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Right on the money. Women will always dictate the way they want to have a "relationship" with you as soon as they break up with you. That's why you don't know if she wants to be good friends with you, or she will never call you again.

If you feel a woman mistreated you unfairly or you still have strong feelings for her its best to say "goodbye" and never see her again.

 

[Hot Ice]

Hell yeah I have all my thumbs up here.
Well, only one since one is being used to feed me at the moment.


Anyways. This is a way to ALWAYS get upper hand on break ups and things like that.
Gets you over it faster and if she has been a b!tch this is a good way to get even. You just say goodbye to her and leave. The chicks jaw will drop to the floor and she will feel bad about it and will think all the good stuff she had with you with a pain in her sorry chest.

Another one is to the "let's just be friends" case.
I got this last time half years ago from one fvck buddy of mine that was moving to another town. I thought we could have still meet at some weekends and I wanted to talk about it. When we were about to talk about it (we were at club) we were going to sit to a table by my suggestion. As soon as she sits down she says "I think we should be friends." before even talked about it. I was still standing there, pissed off (but not showing it) now as I wanted to talk about it. I say "I have enough friends. I don't need any more." Then I left even she tried to make me sit down and talk. So I basically said goodbye.

A 1½ month ago I met her at club and talk for her first time ever since. Basic talk. Then just before the time to go home she comes to me and she says she has something to say. She told me tears in her eyes she still have feelings (feelings? haha, almost all I ever did with her was banging) and she still feels bad about the night when I left.
I was kinda feeling like ****ing so I took her to my place.

But I do not recommend communicating with a woman you've said goodbye. I knew what I was doing though as exception to the rule.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Women hate sudden endings. They'd rather let it slowly fade away to ease their feelings. Tell any woman goodbye and you'll see them struggle with it. What you're doing is taking away any power she has to drag out the ending of the relationship or keep you as a backup.

Although you're new here, you've been giving good tips. That's true.

One day, my sister was interested in a guy and something went wrong and he simply said goodbye and disappeared. My sister went crazy and was thinking about him all the time. If I'm not mistaken, she even called him to "see what happened". Now, she's been dating a cool guy, she overcame the one that disappeared!

Anyway. It's a good tip and I gave it 5 starts. Although it's a simple idea, it's a new "weapon" in our Dj arsenal!

 

[water]

How true. The question is: if you treat it as a weapon, are you actually planning to take her back? If you don't care for it at all - whether she is to come back - then you would not even care if this is a weapon or not. You will just, well, do it. I was involved in such an incident recently. A guy walked out on her and although she was still with me, she still thought of him (you got it: that guy simple said 'goodbye' and disappeared). Now, it is my turn; we broke up and true enough, although she is with someone now, she admits she still thinks of me. Weird isn't it? Anyway, I have seen enuff of her that I am very sure she is history. I have not spoken to her for 2-3 months now.

Don't get me wrong. Depending on the individual situation, I think it may be OK to take a girl back, provided that she really learnt from her experience; but this 'goodbye' thingy should be used only very sparingly. Just my 2c worth. Cheers.

 

[tonysat]

exceellent

excellent tip...
worked very well for me too...

although took me 3 attempts 2 finally walk away , she kept coming back.. but i feel dam good i got rid of her..

this tip always works~ i read online on thsi forum.. manipulative *****es can't stand walking away.. soo true!

 

[disciple]

Good post.

"Goodbye" is a powerful word and it is useful in different situations.

There really are different types of "goodbyes".

I think the reason why women don't like sudden endings is because they are more emotional than we are.

You can't turn emotions on and off like a faucet.

They take time to build and time to go away.

 

[squirrels]

That's some powerful sh!t...

The last couple of girls I was with, I couldn't say "goodbye". When you can't do that, women WILL put you on the "back burner" and let relationships drag out.

Funny you mention it...when I was dating that stripper, our first date we were making out on the floor, and she stopped me and said something about being "old-fashioned" and said she expected the guy to pay and was upset that I didn't do that for her. I got up and told her "Good night" (with a smile, of course) and walked out the door. Never called her again.

Sure enough, she calls me at 3 in the morning one night...fvcked her on the very next date.

Don't EVER let her think that her stuff is in such high demand that you can't break contact and just find someone else.

 

[disciple]

Originally posted by squirrels

Don't EVER let her think that her stuff is in such high demand that you can't break contact and just find someone else.

Damn right!!

NEVER get so attached to any woman where you can't say goodbye or walk away if you have too.

I don't care if your married to the chick.

Sh*t, 50-60% of marriages end in divorce anyway.

So there is no guarantee you'll be with any particular chick long-term.

Also, there are many divorced people who remarry and are happier and have a better marriage on the second try.

Maybe their first marriage was with the wrong person or for the wrong reasons (pregnancy, loneliness, financial, etc.)

The point is that no matter how great any chick seems to be, there are many others out there that can give you everything she can and more.

We as men, should never forget that.

 

[Scheda]

Well, I thought I'd make my first post a useful one. I can very much attest to the power of this single word. Let me preface this by saying, until about 3 months ago, I was a complete and utter NG, no doubt about it.

Almost 7 months ago, I broke up with a girl after she cheated on me three times...it took me that long to get up the courage to do it. I was an idiot. But I eventually did it. I told her on the phone, "I'm sick of you lying about everything, especially little things that don't matter. I'm sick of you cheating on me. This is over, goodbye." To this day she still calls or instant messages my friends asking them to get me to call her. While I would never even consider going back out with her because of past just plain stupid things, it's nice to know I got the upper hand in ending the relationship. I will never again leave a relationship without the word "goodbye".

 

[sapphire]

I believe that anything you do to indicate, whether through words or action, that you are ready willing and able to walk out on a girl without looking back, is powerful enough. For instance if some girl does something that annoys me, I will cutoff contact, thus indicating to her that I have higher priorities in life, including perhaps other women. The end result is that she will usually call me within no more than several weeks wondering why I stopped calling and with a much better attitude (i,e no more annoying conduct).



Certainly the word "good bye" has a ring of finality to it. That is why I agree that it is effective.

Then again it is only effective to the extent that the girl in question had any interest in you in the first place.