The wonders of online dating

Lexington

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Bible_Belt said:
Yes you are, which is why you started this thread. Your little dominant man act is pretty gay. At least you're a "top." That would make you the "man" in the relationship. :D
Actually, it was a reply to BB's comment about a lack of plates. I misunderstood him to be talking about me and not the guy who got cheated on.

Don't hate just because you have such a paucity of options that you're contemplating marrying a broke a** 37 year old land whale.
 

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backbreaker said:
Lexington said:
Plates aren't a problem. I'm not even bragging when I say that I can fvck a new girl every week. I've seriously had days when I f-closed 3 girls in a 24 hour period. Of course, I happen to live in New York where there is a limitless supply of pvssy and a favorable girl-to-guy ratio in the 18-30 age group.

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i never implied that they were a problem. lolt this thread isn't about you it's about your beta friend. your beta friend needs plates. if he had plates he wouldn't be worshiping the feet of a 26 year old single mom because she put it on him
Gotcha. I wasn't sure who you were referring to when you were talking about the bitterness of the red pill etc.

As for the guy, yeah be does need more plates. Big time. But he's learning. A lot of us were there once (myself included).
 

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the_stig said:
You can try to analyze this situation to death but in my opinion it's just the common behavior of most attractive women using online dating who don't know what to do with the limitless options bestowed upon them. We all know they're riding the c0ck carousel so I don't know why this comes as a big surprise.

Think about it, if guys could pick and choose who they wanted to have sex with on a daily basis, wouldn't we be doing the same thing? Of course.

Online dating allows women to act like wh*ores because they can hide under a thick blanket of anonymity. I seriously doubt you two are the only guys she has slept with recently, and if you wouldn't have put two and two together, you'd have been none-the-wiser. Her family and friends will never know. So why wouldn't she [they] sample the product if there is no fear of slut shaming?
I wouldn't say it's just with online dating. ANY HB6 and up has a wide selection of c0cks to choose from. Whereas in days past a woman's chastity was highly valued and promiscuity was strongly discrouraged, today it's the norm for the average American female to fvck lots of dudes until they start to approach the Wall. Some of them can't even stop after they're past the wall.
 

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MikeOck said:
I'm curious what your friend's plan is now for this girl. Will he go silent on her? Will he keep sleeping with her but treat her like a f#ck buddy? Will he get mad at her? Will he ignore her "mistake" and continue to treat her like a princess?
He was pissed. My advice to him was to keep fvcking her but to stop spending money on her. She's obviously not good LTR material (any woman with a kid is disqualified in my book), but she's still a good lay.

I think this guy is too angry and bitter to follow my advice.
 

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Lexington said:
He was pissed. My advice to him was to keep fvcking her but to stop spending money on her. She's obviously not good LTR material (any woman with a kid is disqualified in my book), but she's still a good lay.

I think this guy is too angry and bitter to follow my advice.
I gather he's just planning on going no contact with her then? I don't blame him. I know it was his own naivety that led to his bitterness here, but he still feels betrayed. I know guys here love to use unworthy women as FBs, but I certainly wouldn't reward any woman who disappointed me with sex.

I really think you have to see a woman for about six months minimum before you even get the beginnings of a feel for what she's really about, and ideally longer than that. Although with this woman the red flags were clearly there. Having said that, when I met my (now ex) wife, my gut told me the very first night we went out that I had found what I was looking for. But you still have to put the time in to verify.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Lexington said:
I think this guy is too angry and bitter to follow my advice.
Not really. Once you have emotionally invested in someone, you can't just take all that back and treat such person as if you have never done so. Only psychopaths can, and your friend doesn't appear to be one. That's why our standard advice here is to go NC.
 
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