As you think you shall become
Everything that you want in life, specifically becoming a Master Don Juan is done through your mentality. Your mentality is a product of your thoughts. Focus on mentality and your thoughts will come automatically. I believe there are two types of people in this world. There are winners and losers. If you focus on being a winner you will automatically attract everything that you desire in your life. You will get yourself the best job that you can get in your current situation, you will be the best at that job, you will have no problem walking up to a girl, saying “Hi my name is ___” and getting her number.
Think about people that you view as winners. Think about what you would be right now in your life that would justify you looking at yourself in the mirror and saying, “I am a winner.”
The Losers Mentality
- When he is insulted or rejected he actually acknowledges it and doubts himself
- He loves his TV. He can’t wait for the next episode of Lost to see what happens this week.
- When he is alone he uses his time on non productive, pass-the-time activities
- He is unable to identify love for what it is: temporary infatuation. Go on a date with another better, even an equal girl and then lets see how much you think about the girl you “love”
- Doesn’t workout because he’s unable to see the enjoyment in it
- Gets cheated on and stays because he convinces himself it was a one time thing
- Has a bad personality: this is the most imporant aspect of being a Don Juan. When you have a winners mentality you work at having the personality of a winner. Look at people you view as having good personalities. Act as if. Work on improving your personality every single day.
The Winners Mentality
- Views insults, rejection, and negativity as irrelevant. He is working to become the best he can be so his mind does not even acknowledge these things because they are useless and a waste of time.
- Writes down goals. This is the key to life. How can you ever be AFC when you know that you are working towards your goals every moment of everyday. When you do this you feel like a Genie that can manifest whatever you want in your life. The only catch is you have to spend your time working instead of playing. The harder you work the quicker you manifest a goal.
- He loves working towards goals. How can anything or anyone touch you when you know you are constantly manifesting what you want to happen in your life? Make it fun. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. Keep that in mind if you catch yourself laying on your bed watching Frasier.
- His goals are the number one priority in his life. Success with girls is but one of his many goals and is no more important than any other. This is because he knows they will all be achieved eventually. Girls take A LOT of time away from manifesting in your life, so you really are indifferent to if there is a girl there or not. Ya it’s nice but it’s taking away useful time. Walking away is no problem, ya you’ll be missing out on some sex but frankly it’s better to be single because you are able to work on your goals more.
- One of his goals is based on his work in the gym. Working out is a main aspect of his life and he always has a goal in this area. He actually enjoys working out. As Arnold Swarzeneger said, “working out is like making your muscles ***.”
- When with other people, focuses on his own fun. The other person is just a tool you’re using to have more fun.
Picture yourself being on top of your game. Just close your eyes for 60 seconds and think about what you would be at the top of your game. Become this vision. You have to because everytime you catch yourself doing something that is not bringing you closer to becoming this vision, you are going to feel like you can’t breathe because you are wasting your short existance.
Winners turn all negatives into positives, all they are left with is positives
Think about the bad things that have happened in your life that weren’t of your own doing. Anytime you are hesitant or scared use this to turn yourself into a bad ass. For me personally I’ve been cheated on by two different girls that I loved very much and was very good to in my AFC days. Whats worse is that it wasn’t isolated incidents, they continued the relationships while they cheated on me. I walked away from both of them. I know what I am going to become. They both still call me to this day and I do not answer. They see the other girls on my myspace. They are slowly realizing what a mistake they made. And it’s only going to get worse. Another thing that motivates me is that I missed out on a lot in high school because I had very bad acne. My face has now cleared up and if I was in highschool what I am now I would have had an amazing time instead of having low self esteem throughout highschool.
Everytime I see a girl that I’d like to **** and I start to clam up, or I catch myself doing an activity that is not working me towards a goal, I think about those two girls and what I want to show them. I think about how I missed out on so much in highschool. I actually become angry and I care less and less about what this girl is going to think and I start thinking about what I want and need to do to get it. Everytime I don’t approach, I lose. But I am a winner. I picture one of my ex’s banging one of the guys that they cheated on me with while I was at work. Suddenly, approaching the girl becomes the easiest thing in the world.
I remember after the Cowboys lost to the Giants in the playoffs, I was watching the highlights on SportsCenter. Marion Barber was in almost every highlight for the Cowboys. They showed receivers dropping passes, Romo playing crappy, the defense getting owned, but Marion Barber was single handedly keeping them in the game. Even though no one around him was doing anything, he was running his ass off. I remember one of the announcers saying something like “Someone must have wronged this guy somewhere in his life. Somebody stole from his Mama or something.” This stuck with me as I try to live my life with the same zeal that Marion Barber had in that game.
Everything that you want in life, specifically becoming a Master Don Juan is done through your mentality. Your mentality is a product of your thoughts. Focus on mentality and your thoughts will come automatically. I believe there are two types of people in this world. There are winners and losers. If you focus on being a winner you will automatically attract everything that you desire in your life. You will get yourself the best job that you can get in your current situation, you will be the best at that job, you will have no problem walking up to a girl, saying “Hi my name is ___” and getting her number.
Think about people that you view as winners. Think about what you would be right now in your life that would justify you looking at yourself in the mirror and saying, “I am a winner.”
The Losers Mentality
- When he is insulted or rejected he actually acknowledges it and doubts himself
- He loves his TV. He can’t wait for the next episode of Lost to see what happens this week.
- When he is alone he uses his time on non productive, pass-the-time activities
- He is unable to identify love for what it is: temporary infatuation. Go on a date with another better, even an equal girl and then lets see how much you think about the girl you “love”
- Doesn’t workout because he’s unable to see the enjoyment in it
- Gets cheated on and stays because he convinces himself it was a one time thing
- Has a bad personality: this is the most imporant aspect of being a Don Juan. When you have a winners mentality you work at having the personality of a winner. Look at people you view as having good personalities. Act as if. Work on improving your personality every single day.
The Winners Mentality
- Views insults, rejection, and negativity as irrelevant. He is working to become the best he can be so his mind does not even acknowledge these things because they are useless and a waste of time.
- Writes down goals. This is the key to life. How can you ever be AFC when you know that you are working towards your goals every moment of everyday. When you do this you feel like a Genie that can manifest whatever you want in your life. The only catch is you have to spend your time working instead of playing. The harder you work the quicker you manifest a goal.
- He loves working towards goals. How can anything or anyone touch you when you know you are constantly manifesting what you want to happen in your life? Make it fun. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. Keep that in mind if you catch yourself laying on your bed watching Frasier.
- His goals are the number one priority in his life. Success with girls is but one of his many goals and is no more important than any other. This is because he knows they will all be achieved eventually. Girls take A LOT of time away from manifesting in your life, so you really are indifferent to if there is a girl there or not. Ya it’s nice but it’s taking away useful time. Walking away is no problem, ya you’ll be missing out on some sex but frankly it’s better to be single because you are able to work on your goals more.
- One of his goals is based on his work in the gym. Working out is a main aspect of his life and he always has a goal in this area. He actually enjoys working out. As Arnold Swarzeneger said, “working out is like making your muscles ***.”
- When with other people, focuses on his own fun. The other person is just a tool you’re using to have more fun.
Picture yourself being on top of your game. Just close your eyes for 60 seconds and think about what you would be at the top of your game. Become this vision. You have to because everytime you catch yourself doing something that is not bringing you closer to becoming this vision, you are going to feel like you can’t breathe because you are wasting your short existance.
Winners turn all negatives into positives, all they are left with is positives
Think about the bad things that have happened in your life that weren’t of your own doing. Anytime you are hesitant or scared use this to turn yourself into a bad ass. For me personally I’ve been cheated on by two different girls that I loved very much and was very good to in my AFC days. Whats worse is that it wasn’t isolated incidents, they continued the relationships while they cheated on me. I walked away from both of them. I know what I am going to become. They both still call me to this day and I do not answer. They see the other girls on my myspace. They are slowly realizing what a mistake they made. And it’s only going to get worse. Another thing that motivates me is that I missed out on a lot in high school because I had very bad acne. My face has now cleared up and if I was in highschool what I am now I would have had an amazing time instead of having low self esteem throughout highschool.
Everytime I see a girl that I’d like to **** and I start to clam up, or I catch myself doing an activity that is not working me towards a goal, I think about those two girls and what I want to show them. I think about how I missed out on so much in highschool. I actually become angry and I care less and less about what this girl is going to think and I start thinking about what I want and need to do to get it. Everytime I don’t approach, I lose. But I am a winner. I picture one of my ex’s banging one of the guys that they cheated on me with while I was at work. Suddenly, approaching the girl becomes the easiest thing in the world.
I remember after the Cowboys lost to the Giants in the playoffs, I was watching the highlights on SportsCenter. Marion Barber was in almost every highlight for the Cowboys. They showed receivers dropping passes, Romo playing crappy, the defense getting owned, but Marion Barber was single handedly keeping them in the game. Even though no one around him was doing anything, he was running his ass off. I remember one of the announcers saying something like “Someone must have wronged this guy somewhere in his life. Somebody stole from his Mama or something.” This stuck with me as I try to live my life with the same zeal that Marion Barber had in that game.
. Keep it up Dice 
