The whole brad Pitt example....

[_sideways_]

I figured something...
Brad Pitt or his look alike isn't getting azz all the time if he isn't approaching, improving, living...

Would she be calling brad Pitt if all he did was eat pizza, play video games, drink soda.
No.
At least not the quality females out there wouldn't be knocking down his door.

You have to go out and make life your bytch in a manner of speaking.

You don't have to be brad Pitt.

He was born with those genes. But he went and gained his first audition, first movie.
He went through the gamut of dating average girls like Jennifer aniston to build his rep.

In the 20th century, no female gives you a free ticket.
If it seemed like it, she saw something in you that she liked. Not a generalized idea or version of what you are.
I think we forget that they sometimes too have a weakness that gets them every time.
Mind you, they won't admit it...

I bet that most posters here don't have brad Pitt looks, but have brad Pitt standards.
No way Jose...you gotta earn those standards....and continually stay on top of your game.

Basically, she didn't call you cuz ur "ugly", she didn't call you because you can't be that awesome guy just on Saturday night, just on date night.

Its in everything....that means too that making mistakes is a funny quirk you have...being dorky is a funny quirk...etc.

THERE IS NO BRAD PITT...
AND REMEMBER, YOU HAVE X AMOUNT OF TIME HERE, HENCE THERE IS NO YOU.

just the stuff you want to experience...
Also, females play the power play all the time....its their only card to play.


Young guys here, please start not giving an ounce of your care to anyone who isn't laying the cards on the table.

Otherwise assume no one is naive or pure.
Cuz this ain't heaven...

Idk man...its easy for me to attract females and get stuff...but not easy to stay " in love"
I feel all men have this inner charisma that you guys lacking it, are not in tune to how it all works.
We all look the same inside. Its the way you speak, the way you live that's truly attractive.

 

[Skyline]

That is pretty true about the powerplay card. Once you learn how to recognize one and pass it, you'll do fine. Every girl you will ever talk to will pull a power play or sh*t test, it's really inevitable.

Even if you're eating pizza, playing video games, and drinking soda all day as long as you're happy doing it then you should be fine. It's really more about the way you take care of yourself and the value you place on your lifestyle.

Frame is a state of mind. If you're fine with your current state in life then there is really no excuse to loose your frame.

 

[Julian]

jennifer anniston is average? pretty sure he was smashin that when she was in her prime and one of the hottest pieces of ass in hollywood dude..even now shes like 45 and definitely a milf.

i know thats not the point but lol just remember her being hot as fuk back in the day

 

[yuppaz]

Jennifer Aniston was and is average. She was never hot.

 

[Sho-No-Luv]

Wow! This is going to be hard for some guys here to swallow. But, yes even a non famous Brad Pitt (that's in his prime) will still pull major tail. Now of course a Brat Pitt thats laying on his ass eating pizza all day? No, that Brad will eventually get fat. But all things being equal physically he will still slay puss!!! These women will step to you when you are in the top ten percent looks wise. No you won't get every dame or dime, but you will have so much puss that you really won't care. And yes, there are guys who are super chrasmatic that slay too, but its more work for them.

Things are much easier for super good looking people period. Unfortunately most people won't ever really know, because well they are not part of that demographic. And when you are part of that demographic women will come right out and call you handsome, good looking even pretty and beautiful. Some will even ask if you are a model or stripper.

In the prime of my looks at my peak physically even after I became unemployed I had females(multiple) paying nearly all my bills one bought me a car, clothes and she cooked for me all the time. Gave me so much money it was ridiculous. To go a step further I was seeing five different women even told them about each other too. Everyday of the week I swaped them out on rotation, best friend got jealous and sabotaged me(but thats another story for another time). But the thing that remained constant was my looks and working out every day, eating right staying fit and maintaining a good positive attitude. Everybody's not meant to be super good looking alot of it is genetics. And guys who rely soley on it will eventually fail because as you get older looks start to fade. But females still do a double take (sometime lol)

Point is, be the best you can be don't worry about the Brad Pitts of this world. Now get out there and slay some puss

 

[yuppaz]

Wow! This is going to be hard for some guys here to swallow. But, yes even a non famous Brad Pitt (that's in his prime) will still pull major tail. Now of course a Brat Pitt thats laying on his ass eating pizza all day? No, that Brad will eventually get fat. But all things being equal physically he will still slay puss!!! These women will step to you when you are in the top ten percent looks wise. No you won't get every dame or dime, but you will have so much puss that you really won't care. And yes, there are guys who are super chrasmatic that slay too, but its more work for them.

Things are much easier for super good looking people period. Unfortunately most people won't ever really know, because well they are not part of that demographic. And when you are part of that demographic women will come right out and call you handsome, good looking even pretty and beautiful. Some will even ask if you are a model or stripper.

In the prime of my looks at my peak physically even after I became unemployed I had females(multiple) paying nearly all my bills one bought me a car, clothes and she cooked for me all the time. Gave me so much money it was ridiculous. To go a step further I was seeing five different women even told them about each other too. Everyday of the week I swaped them out on rotation, best friend got jealous and sabotaged me(but thats another story for another time). But the thing that remained constant was my looks and working out every day, eating right staying fit and maintaining a good positive attitude. Everybody's not meant to be super good looking alot of it is genetics. And guys who rely soley on it will eventually fail because as you get older looks start to fade. But females still do a double take (sometime lol)

Point is, be the best you can be don't worry about the Brad Pitts of this world. Now get out there and slay some puss

100% true. If you aren'the getting good compliments from women or approached from them. You may not be their physical 8, 9 or 10...

We all want to be that guy, but trust me. I am around female and male models a lot and they get ass thrown at them constantly . If that isn'the happening you aren'the that guy, so work on your charm, your life, your dominance and assertiveness to make up the difference.

 

[DiegoSantori]

We all look the same inside. Its the way you speak, the way you live that's truly attractive.

And it's fame that's truly attractive. Being a celebrity does a lot for you. You don't need game as a celebrity. Become famous and the world is your oyster. For non celebs, you got to work your a** off.

Let's look at Topher Grace:

Star of that 70s show, has been in films such as Traffic, Ocean's Eleven and Twelve, Mona Lisa Smile, In Good Company, P.S, Spiderman 3, Predators, Interstellar, and Truth. He spoke about how he was going to USC at 18 right before he got that 70's show. He couldn't get women. But once he got that show it was easy. Duh. He got so much value from being on a hit show. Now he has so much value that when he enters a club or a bar most of the work is done. He automatically flips the script. He is the buyer. The woman is now selling herself to him. He has still has to have chemistry with these women. Yes, the woman might still make love with him if she doesn't have chemistry with him. But he might not. Or he might and then just not return her calls.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Jennifer Aniston was and is average. She was never hot.

Agreed she is not all that. Funny some girl was talking me up telling me how ugly brad pitt was and she didn't get the appeal. I seen women complimenting ugly guys all the time. The trend I am noticing is if you have "colored" eyes and are average looking you will get called hot. Its pretty sad actually....I thought it was about facial symmetry

 

[raider87]

You don't need game as a celebrity. Become famous and the world is your oyster. For non celebs, you got to work your a** off.

I watched a celebrity dating show last week and the guys had terrible game, yet the girls were still into them.

 

[wifehunter]

If you work it right, it's possible to be perceived above Brad Pitt.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Have to agree with the idea that Brad Pitt isn't the slayer that he's made out to be. Yeah, 99% of women will find him attractive, but he's still a beta when presented with a bad girl. He exchanged a girl next door (Aniston) for a bad girl (Jolie). But of course he got bored of the safety net of a woman he knew would never leave him and lured away by the freaky sex kitten.

A good looking and/or famous guy can get poossy no bother. Long-term game remains a matter of frame and mindset. He knew he wore the trousers with Aniston. Then he took them off and handed them to Anjelina. Fame is an open door; frame is keeping the door wide open.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Have to agree with the idea that Brad Pitt isn't the slayer that he's made out to be. Yeah, 99% of women will find him attractive, but he's still a beta when presented with a bad girl. He exchanged a girl next door (Aniston) for a bad girl (Jolie). But of course he got bored of the safety net of a woman he knew would never leave him and lured away by the freaky sex kitten.

A good looking and/or famous guy can get poossy no bother. Long-term game remains a matter of frame and mindset. He knew he wore the trousers with Aniston. Then he took them off and handed them to Anjelina. Fame is a an open door; frame is keeping the door wide open.

But do you think he getting more or less sex with Anjelina? If she wear the trousers we know how that usually goes in this country, she acts like she wants that, she takes it and your sex life goes down the drain with it.

 

[Huffman]

But do you think he getting more or less sex with Anjelina? If she wear the trousers

She better take them off for sex

 

[mrgoodstuff]

She better take them off for sex

Some women are "nice" enough to do this. Others ain't giving it back and will complain when your erection ain't as stiff or your not as in control as you used to be when you wore em. You will get reduced to provider role and your sexual mojo will continue to plummet while she supplants the sexual portion of the relationship with another male. He doesn't have to pay bills, deal with her problems, help or or anything just come in for "fun" and "sex". You might even end up paying for some of his drinks or bills if he's low on cash.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

But do you think he getting more or less sex with Anjelina? If she wear the trousers we know how that usually goes in this country, she acts like she wants that, she takes it and your sex life goes down the drain with it.

I shouldn't think it really matters to either of them. Maybe they're genuinely in love. It's not like either doesn't have ample opportunity to meet others. Hollywood is as incestuous and debauched as the dating market can get. As much as I understand the metaphors and comparisons, it really is not a very good representation of the rest of the dating market. It's 'Hollywood' in every sense; therefore not dissimilar to Disneyland - i.e. a paradox, a falsehood, a fairytale. Look at poor old Johnny Depp; got taken for a ride, beta-tised by arguably the hottest woman on Earth.

 

[_sideways_]

And it's fame that's truly attractive. Being a celebrity does a lot for you. You don't need game as a celebrity. Become famous and the world is your oyster. For non celebs, you got to work your a** off.

Let's look at Topher Grace:

Star of that 70s show, has been in films such as Traffic, Ocean's Eleven and Twelve, Mona Lisa Smile, In Good Company, P.S, Spiderman 3, Predators, Interstellar, and Truth. He spoke about how he was going to USC at 18 right before he got that 70's show. He couldn't get women. But once he got that show it was easy. Duh. He got so much value from being on a hit show. Now he has so much value that when he enters a club or a bar most of the work is done. He automatically flips the script. He is the buyer. The woman is now selling herself to him. He has still has to have chemistry with these women. Yes, the woman might still make love with him if she doesn't have chemistry with him. But he might not. Or he might and then just not return her calls.

So he basically admitted that he never truly charmed a girl, never truly loved her and won and her over.
Never truly lived that cool lifestyle with women cuz they were bought.
They weren't with him...they were a part of Hollywood perks. Like coke or being at a cook party that you didn't host.
Fake....

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

You guys are missing the point. The Brad Pitt example is not about him specifically or even an actor. It's a metaphor of a male of the highest possible alpha status.

She flaked on you, but she wouldn't flake on (Brad Pitt = male of ultra high status).

The point is to illustrate that with a high enough interest, all girls will behave.

Therefore, if she's not behaving, her interest in you isn't high enough.

So if you think a girl is "misbehaving" the metaphorical example of "she wouldn't do that with Brad Pitt" is meant to make you realize your game could use some improving.

When it comes to female behavior, interest level is everything.

The higher her interest in you, the easier she'll make it for you.

That is the purpose of the Brad Pitt example.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

You guys are missing the point. The Brad Pitt example is not about him specifically or even an actor. It's a metaphor of a male of the highest possible alpha status.

She flaked on you, but she wouldn't flake on (Brad Pitt = male of ultra high status).

The point is to illustrate that with a high enough interest, all girls will behave.

Therefore, if she's not behaving, her interest in you isn't high enough.

So if you think a girl is "misbehaving" the metaphorical example of "she wouldn't do that with Brad Pitt" is meant to make you realize your game could use some improving.

When it comes to female behavior, interest level is everything.

The higher her interest in you, the easier she'll make it for you.

That is the purpose of the Brad Pitt example.

Kind of see where you're coming from, but also think sometimes the example is used as a nihilistic exclamation of the embittered.

Like: "Do you think any girl would do xyz to Brad Pitt / Channing Tatum...?", as if to say, "Give up, your life is over, you'll never achieve anything nor meet the kind of women you want, because you are not the Hollywood version of the 'Alpha' male."

It's an unhelpful metaphor to most because it doesn't explain on an objective level that the majority can relate to what has gone wrong in a given situation.

A bit like those dweebs that claim "10/10's are non-existent unicorns". Just bitter pessimists with unrealistic expectations and mummy issues.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Kind of see where you're coming from, but also think sometimes the example is used as a nihilistic exclamation of the embittered.

Like: "Do you think any girl would do xyz to Brad Pitt / Channing Tatum...?", as if to say, "Give up, your life is over, you'll never achieve anything nor meet the kind of women you want, because you are not the Hollywood version of the 'Alpha' male."

It's an unhelpful metaphor to most because it doesn't explain on an objective level that the majority can relate to what has gone wrong in a given situation.

A bit like those dweebs that claim "10/10's are non-existent unicorns". Just bitter pessimists with unrealistic expectations and mummy issues.

What's funny is that guys like Channing Tatum get cheated on too.

 

[taiyuu_otoko]

Kind of see where you're coming from, but also think sometimes the example is used as a nihilistic exclamation of the embittered.

That's the great thing about metaphors. The meaning is in the mind of the receiver. Some can take it as motivation for self improvement. Others will take to mean that life isn't fair and some people will always suck.

But I believe the original INTENTION of that metaphor was to spur others to self improvement, not to create a MGTOW sausage pity party.