LostAndConfused
Master Don Juan
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Think about it.
It doesn't matter the situation or the setting. Whether the girl is in your social circle, whether she's the cute brunette in class, whether you met her at a party, whether you had the balls to approach her at the mall, the process is the same:
Approach > Show Value and Attract > Date and Get Laid
Just for this thread's purposes lets call it the cycle of getting laid. or THE process.
Now some people have only one cycle going on, others have multiple cycles going on simultaneously. Those others are affectionately known as players.
Others still have no cycles going on. They are affectionately known as virgins. Their cycle consists of feeling lonely, take out lube, stroke it, go do other stuff. Because of their virginity they are automatically considered socially inept, or a failure at being a man.
But I digress.
It really doesn't matter how you go about doing THE process; you might use direct, natural game, or, you might use PUA strategies such as ****y and funny remarks....negs...DHV stories...push pull...magic tricks which happen to incorporate kino.
It doesn't matter.
Sure, go ahead and illusion yourself. Keep telling yourself the process is fun as you get pounded like a bird in a storm with female mind games, sh1t tests, and for the less experienced DJs: last minute resistance. The whole while the girl keeps thinking she doesn't want to be portrayed as a slüt and to test to see if you are "congruent" and the whole while you try to portray yourself as "the prize," whether it be a facade or not...and its usually a facade...they call it being in "state" for a reason you know.
Why do we do it? For the end result, amirite?
Surely you can get engaged in a completely more entertaining conversation with one 16-24 year old male than you could EVER with multiple females! (If you disagree, you haven't talked to many guys). I've had conversations with groups of guys where some of them would actually throw up in public because we were laughing so hard (and no, we weren't high). In my time trying to be a "don juan," which I feel has been WASTED, I've met some really cool men. Some of these men have never kissed a girl before. Some of them have multiple girls wanting to get with them. I'm in neither camp, I have had a few successes with females, but I've grown dämn tired with THE process, and I haven't even attempted it that much.
Again, why do I bother talking to some generic girl who has been, as one SS user put it, banged, puked on, and speared by multiple guys? Yeah each girl will have her own tastes, but really it's all the same. As I said before in another thread, game is the universal language.
The ONLY reason why I talk to girls at all is because of the pink slit in between their legs. I can learn more from three different men than I could from the entire female population where I live. Yeah, bring up a counterexample of some girl who you know is really interesting, it just doesn't compare.
I can't make any generalizations here, some of you probably LIKE talking to girls, and others SAY you do but you secretly don't. But for alot of guys I've talked to, talking to girls is just stupid. When I was 6 years old, I said the same thing, but for a different reason (girls were yucky back then?)
My best friend who has dated this HB10 italian girl for months told me
Most guys would talk to girls because:
Plus, Deny it all you want, you probably secretly like the other girls whispering to each other behind your back looking at you, gossiping about how you are such a player. But when you talk to these girls, unless they're dirty slüts, they're going to put you through the same process which I've talked about multiple times already. You probably like your friends telling stories about how cool you are as a player when you aren't around.
I sure would.
But LostAC, if you want pvssy, and you don't want to go through the whole CLICHED attraction process, why don't you get a hooker?
Because you feel like sh1t afterwards. All my friends who went about doing this just felt depressed the next day. And of course you would, you just bought sex. Sex shouldn't cost money!!! We get ripped off!
But whats the "cheaper" alternative (assuming you play the lover role to women, not the provider role)? The "cheaper" alternative is sacrificing my dignity to a fair amount of small talk to get a number, then small talk more to go out on a date, with flirting throughout, then I can shove my tongue down a girl's throat.
Was it worth it? During the time it feels like it was, but when you have to restart the cycle, it starts to feel monotonous, boring, and banal.
Had to get that off my chest. I'm just thinking 'screw it all' right about now.
A girl opened me today, I got into some small talk, and the spark for this thread flickered in my head and I ejected from the conversation. I'm dead tired of asking "What school are you from?" "What are you interested in?" etc etc. ad nauseum.
Flame me all you want, ignore the thread, its true though.
It doesn't matter the situation or the setting. Whether the girl is in your social circle, whether she's the cute brunette in class, whether you met her at a party, whether you had the balls to approach her at the mall, the process is the same:
Approach > Show Value and Attract > Date and Get Laid
Just for this thread's purposes lets call it the cycle of getting laid. or THE process.
Now some people have only one cycle going on, others have multiple cycles going on simultaneously. Those others are affectionately known as players.
Others still have no cycles going on. They are affectionately known as virgins. Their cycle consists of feeling lonely, take out lube, stroke it, go do other stuff. Because of their virginity they are automatically considered socially inept, or a failure at being a man.
But I digress.
It really doesn't matter how you go about doing THE process; you might use direct, natural game, or, you might use PUA strategies such as ****y and funny remarks....negs...DHV stories...push pull...magic tricks which happen to incorporate kino.
It doesn't matter.
Sure, go ahead and illusion yourself. Keep telling yourself the process is fun as you get pounded like a bird in a storm with female mind games, sh1t tests, and for the less experienced DJs: last minute resistance. The whole while the girl keeps thinking she doesn't want to be portrayed as a slüt and to test to see if you are "congruent" and the whole while you try to portray yourself as "the prize," whether it be a facade or not...and its usually a facade...they call it being in "state" for a reason you know.
Why do we do it? For the end result, amirite?
Surely you can get engaged in a completely more entertaining conversation with one 16-24 year old male than you could EVER with multiple females! (If you disagree, you haven't talked to many guys). I've had conversations with groups of guys where some of them would actually throw up in public because we were laughing so hard (and no, we weren't high). In my time trying to be a "don juan," which I feel has been WASTED, I've met some really cool men. Some of these men have never kissed a girl before. Some of them have multiple girls wanting to get with them. I'm in neither camp, I have had a few successes with females, but I've grown dämn tired with THE process, and I haven't even attempted it that much.
Again, why do I bother talking to some generic girl who has been, as one SS user put it, banged, puked on, and speared by multiple guys? Yeah each girl will have her own tastes, but really it's all the same. As I said before in another thread, game is the universal language.
The ONLY reason why I talk to girls at all is because of the pink slit in between their legs. I can learn more from three different men than I could from the entire female population where I live. Yeah, bring up a counterexample of some girl who you know is really interesting, it just doesn't compare.
I can't make any generalizations here, some of you probably LIKE talking to girls, and others SAY you do but you secretly don't. But for alot of guys I've talked to, talking to girls is just stupid. When I was 6 years old, I said the same thing, but for a different reason (girls were yucky back then?)
My best friend who has dated this HB10 italian girl for months told me
His social life consists of hanging out with friends like me, then going out on dates with his girlfriend.
Most guys would talk to girls because:
I say, Who fvcking cares! We are ALL men (well, at least in the process of becoming men) and we ALL are attracted to women. It's what we are biologically designed to do.
Plus, Deny it all you want, you probably secretly like the other girls whispering to each other behind your back looking at you, gossiping about how you are such a player. But when you talk to these girls, unless they're dirty slüts, they're going to put you through the same process which I've talked about multiple times already. You probably like your friends telling stories about how cool you are as a player when you aren't around.
I sure would.
But LostAC, if you want pvssy, and you don't want to go through the whole CLICHED attraction process, why don't you get a hooker?
Because you feel like sh1t afterwards. All my friends who went about doing this just felt depressed the next day. And of course you would, you just bought sex. Sex shouldn't cost money!!! We get ripped off!
But whats the "cheaper" alternative (assuming you play the lover role to women, not the provider role)? The "cheaper" alternative is sacrificing my dignity to a fair amount of small talk to get a number, then small talk more to go out on a date, with flirting throughout, then I can shove my tongue down a girl's throat.
Was it worth it? During the time it feels like it was, but when you have to restart the cycle, it starts to feel monotonous, boring, and banal.
Had to get that off my chest. I'm just thinking 'screw it all' right about now.
A girl opened me today, I got into some small talk, and the spark for this thread flickered in my head and I ejected from the conversation. I'm dead tired of asking "What school are you from?" "What are you interested in?" etc etc. ad nauseum.
Flame me all you want, ignore the thread, its true though.
