The Wheels Came Off

[BeExcellent]

This is not about her career. Her career shouldnt even be a concern for him.
What should have been the canary in the coal mine is her diminishing desire.

I cannot disagree String. I am a career woman. I submit to my man. You are correct. If the desire/appreciation wanes it’s over.

 

[BadBoy89]

After 4yrs my live in girlfriend(mid 40s HB8) and I have ended our relationship.

Stopped reading after girlfriend mid 40s.

 

[The Duke]

I've noticed a lot of members like to beat the dead horse over and over? Same happened when @Murk ended his relationship, its like they get a high when bashing members when they're down, maybe to feel good about their miserable life?

Just like when you posted the vacation video with your girl.

A wise friend told me this... "we are all here in earth school. Everyone has life lessons to learn.
8 billion souls are resonating at different levels of awarness. People sign up to help each other learn lessons.

A display of confidence will certainly be vulnerable to attack which isnt always a bad thing, but it will also help others advance to the next level.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Stopped reading after girlfriend mid 40s.

Knew this was coming after girlfriend mid 40s.

This is a good point. Single women in the 30+ age range inevitably fall into one of 4 categories:

1) Single moms;
2) Ugly “leftover” women;
3) Women with psychological issues (i.e. narcissism, BPD) that prevent them from staying in long-term relationships; and
4) Career women.

Out of those 4 options, career women are arguably the “least bad” choice.

Although I don't 100% agree with this, way back, I had a very short lived LTR with a woman that was a combo of 1,3,4 and part of 2 minus the ugly. THAT woman is what ultimately drove me to find this site. Thought I was well versed in the ways of women until I met her. She blew that notion straight out of the water....like to the moon.

 

[Dr.Suave]

I've noticed a lot of members like to beat the dead horse over and over? Same happened when @Murk ended his relationship, its like they get a high when bashing members when they're down, maybe to feel good about their miserable life?

Haters gonna hate. But remember haters are losers. Also remember hate usually comes from below, rarely hate comes from above.

 

[BeExcellent]

I’m bummed for Howie but know he will be fine. It is what it is.

 

[Murk]

You'll be absolutely fine Howie, no doubt about it.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I remember a previous LTR I had: "I dont like sucking d1ck anymore"

One of the most giant red flags out there, and I missed it (It did strike me as a bit odd but I didnt think much of it back then, the implications).

Oh well. You live and you learn.

Not to make light of Howie's situation, but maybe this could be some kind of duet someday.

"You don't suck my penis....anymore"