the way i have been dealing with rejection.

[Packers2010]

i came across this artical on this site.

mistakes when approaching women

it got me thinking about my game in relation to being rejected. for some reason, i have ALWAYS dealt with this badly. i would ALWAYS at like a idiot to turn the girls off me. i do it all the time with my girl friends now. i never noticed this before. i mean. i knew i was acting out. but it didn't have a big impact.

but then i though. why do this? why play my WORST game against girls when i can play my BEST game and play off my competitiveness instead of insecurities.

I am a competitive guy. i like to win and win big. so how do i win? by getting the hottest girl in the club! before i would just lay down. like a beaten dog, because i felt like i wasn't "worthy" of being on top. so i would never get the girl. but who likes loosing? not me! i am going to win! and get the girl I WANT! and no one else is going to get in my way!

 

[Mike32ct]

I learned that I have to be willing to lose big in order to win big. First, you can't win every time anyway. Finally, I usually game best AFTER a big rejection. It puts a fire under my a$s.

 

[Packers2010]

yeah. lately i have been gaming my friend. it's kind of pathetic. she has a bf and all. she has like no interested in me at all. yet something goes off in my brain and i try badly hitting on her.

i really need to look outside the box and not just in the box marked: i am horny therefor i need sex.

 

[Aaron B]

rejection is when your wife of 7 years looks you in the eyes and tells you she doesn't love you anymore and wants a divorce

someone you just met who doesn't know you can't reject you

 

[Packers2010]

rejection is when your wife of 7 years looks you in the eyes and tells you she doesn't love you anymore and wants a divorce

someone you just met who doesn't know you can't reject you

yeah she can. it just hurts less