the waitress challenge

[thelad]

Now we all know that waitresses are paid to smile and be available to talk but to a basic civility level. Now I do find myself interested in one in particular now I know they can be hard bitches when they want to.
But this one seemed different maybe over heard my convo with a friend I found myself interested in her we kept eye contact 2 or 3 times I mean very direct then when I was to leave the pub she turned around quickly said bye bye.
We had had longer eye contact with smiles at sam time wanted to chat to her but I was too drunk and my mate would have jumped in spoil my frame and so I headed out but definitely had that gut feeling on her like "what the fvuck was that" to my mate he said she wants youuuu lolol but so how to get her next time especially she's working..feel like a frigging newbie here. Any help would be great guys one question in mind go solo next time or with friend?

 

[thelad]

Better? Im finding more attention these days I'm not actually doing anything about it though ...yet

 

[MillionBillionaire]

Trying to hit on a waitress that you have a crush on because she paid attention to you is very noobish.

When a girl is at work, 99% of the time she just wants to do her job and go home.

 

[thelad]

Think I dont know that? Dont mean it shouldn't happen though yeah It sounds very immature I know but like there must be a move you can play for it work.business contact card? I didn't even hit on her anyway...becuase of the very reason you said. Waitresses can't be off limits surely!! They do see a lot of people tho. So why should you be special I get it.btw Im in the UK you dont tip them.

 

[thelad]

yep chicks in services are waste of time crossed that off my list.

 

[xuzaki]

I don't see any problem with hitting on girls who are at their jobs.

When a girl is at work, 99% of the time she just wants to do her job and go home.

Biology is biology, regardless of whether they're at work, on vacation, or at a nightclub. There are plenty of infields on Youtube showing this being done successfully.

I've opened girls at their jobs (i.e. waitress serving my table, greeter at a clothing store, etc.) and found the reactions/outcomes to be similar to any other approach.

 

[Von]

Last night, the waitress was talking to me about how ''she can only date a guy who satisfy her in bed'' ''how she wants plastics surgery on her lips''... she was quite showing her breast to me by leaning on the counter to my head... ''she wasn't on her periods''.... ''how she was also a affordable woman''.

So I am engaged, another of my friend died this week.... I really didn't push it more than this...

Still she gave me free food.

Waitress or not... give it a shoot. I find you need to look her in the eyes, be short but efficient in the words you use... focus on her ''professionnalism'' and ''energy''... avoid anything about work/look. treat it like a fun game

 

[Robert28]

In my life I've only managed to pull one waitress while she was at work. And SHE had to make the move by leaving her number on the ticket and telling me to call her sometime. That was back in 2005.lol

 

[thelad]

Last night, the waitress was talking to me about how ''she can only date a guy who satisfy her in bed'' ''how she wants plastics surgery on her lips''... she was quite showing her breast to me by leaning on the counter to my head... ''she wasn't on her periods''.... ''how she was also a affordable woman''.

So I am engaged, another of my friend died this week.... I really didn't push it more than this...

Still she gave me free food.

Waitress or not... give it a shoot. I find you need to look her in the eyes, be short but efficient in the words you use... focus on her ''professionnalism'' and ''energy''... avoid anything about work/look. treat it like a fun game

you advertised basically that you weren't available but she felt safe in talking to you more...I found this when I was married. had them talking left right and centre to me.
so why are single men viewed as a threat. This has to change somewhere. Women I think are very fickle and very much of the moment do or die.

Your waitress could be just be killing time or bored but guarantee you next time you see her....she will blank you or at very least say hi. that's how evil they are. mind you I bet you she had awesome tvits!

 

[stevieLA]

yep chicks in services are waste of time crossed that off my list.

you advertised basically that you weren't available but she felt safe in talking to you more...I found this when I was married. had them talking left right and centre to me.
so why are single men viewed as a threat. This has to change somewhere. Women I think are very fickle and very much of the moment do or die.

Your waitress could be just be killing time or bored but guarantee you next time you see her....she will blank you or at very least say hi. that's how evil they are. mind you I bet you she had awesome tvits!

LOL, this is a loser's mentality.

 

[thelad]

Please elaborate.

 

[Daddyissues]

Please elaborate.

Erm.. they did. Do u need it spelled out for you?

 

[thelad]

Says the person who just joined the forum. Not that I need to explain myself. I consider it insulting say something rude without backing it up. Whats it to you?

 

[Daddyissues]

They quoted your inconsistencies in responses. Get your head out of your ass. What does it matter my join date?

 

[Daddyissues]

Sorry. Was that offensive?

 

[lamath]

They quoted your inconsistencies in responses. Get your head out of your ass. What does it matter my join date?

Number of post and joined date does not matter. But the substance and quality of post does.
No need to be rude

 

[fanatic22]

I have pulled 3 girls at their work before, all of whom showed very clear interest beforehand. The whole “they are being nice for the tip” is just cynical. You can tell the difference between professionally nice and attracted-to-you nice.

 

[sangheilios]

I don't think there is anything necessarily wrong with doing something like this as long as you are causal and laid back about it. From my observations, most women genuinely would find something like that flattering if it was done in a tactful manner.

I don't make a habit of this, but several times I have asked out women whilst they were working and never had an issue with it, though not specifically a waitress.

Earlier in the fall I was at the bank and the woman working with me was young and attractive and seemed pleasant to talk to. When I was done she asked if there was anything else I needed so I proceeded to ask her for her number. She gave it to me and we texted back and forth a few times but never ended up going out.

Back in December I was at the verizon store and decided to ask out the salesperson who was working with me. Before I left I said that I knew she was working and then asked if she had a boyfriend because I wanted to go out with her sometime. She smiled and said she was seeing someone.

Anyway, these are just some examples of pretty non threatening ways you could go about something like this.

 

[fanatic22]

Explain to a noob here please?

Well for the most part it’s hard to describe what attraction looks like but lingering/repeated eye contact from afar is a good example.

 

[stevieLA]

They're females. Females respond to attractive women just like any other female.

What kind of an idiot thinks waiting on tables changes any of that?

If you're a fat ugly 350 pounds gargoyle and a waitress is being nice to you, you know why. If you're good looking and attractive to women in general, guess what: waitresses will be attracted to you as well.

How is this even a debate?