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Welcome back mi amigos.
Let's see, after the Tantra workshop I definitely improved in my ability to be more sexual with women... but there was still something missing.
It was during this following post that I realized my then (and sometimes now) weakness, and how it took a language barrier to really overcome that weakness...
Originally posted 7/1/03
Hi guys,
I've had an epiphany a few days ago - I've figured out why I have no trouble attracting and picking up chicks, but can never get laid.
The answer is - all this time, my intention was to TRY to get laid. I would basically interact with the girl and TRY to get laid. So while for the past few months I would go out thinking that my goal was to get laid, it really never was. It was simply to try. The honest truth is that I never had the intention of getting laid, just to try.
This hit me Saturday, while I was in Dallas. When that happened I decided that my intention would BE to get laid, not to TRY to get laid. WOW is all I can say - the difference was huge!
I didn't end up getting laid in Dallas, but I almost did. The first time didn't go through because I was waiting for too many verbal okays from the chick, and at least one other time because of logistics.
But the difference in my internal game was huge - I finally knew where the hell I was going, and everything just fell into place.
Actually, if I get a chance I'll have to write up the FR on Dallas. In one situation I was sarging a married chick, and point-blank propositioned for her to sleep with me, and her husband walks up behind me and overhears. She was sure he was going to clock me - little did she know that he would actually be giving me advice on how to seduce his wife. She loved the way I handled the situation!
Anyway, back to this FR. Let's flashback two weeks ago...
I was in a restaurant eating and doing some work on my laptop. I was there for a bit of time, and one of the employees and I were giving each other the eye.
Finally I told her hi, and she said something to me in Spanish which I did not understand. She then told me in broken English that I am a handsome man.
I thanked her and told her that she's making me blush (at least that's what I think I told her - my Spanish sucks).
There were a couple of old ladies in the restaurant and I had them translate between us. They and the chick were saying some stuff, but I had no clue what that may be. However, from the type of giggle of a little boy sitting with the ladies, I figured that it would probably have made be blush.
Anyway, as I was leaving the restaurant I see her checking the guys restroom to make sure it was stocked. So I go inside and make out with her. Nothing heavy since the restroom did not have a lock - but I think it definitely took her by surprise. I don't think she expected me to be that bold.
I gave her my number and told her to give me a call so we can get together.
She called me the next day, and for the next two weeks we tried to get together, but there always seemed to be one complication or another. To be honest, if she had given me her number, I would have given up on contacting her a long time ago.
But she was persistent, and must have called me a dozen times during those two weeks.
Finally yesterday we got together.
I picked her up at 8:30. One thing I've got to say about the girl - she knows how to dress. Very sexy yet classy outfit.
So I take her to the pier, which is about ten minutes away. We walk by the water and we make out slightly. She felt a bit uncomfortable at first because there were people walking by, but she slowly started to lose her inhibitions.
There's a nice restaurant right on the pier, which was my destination. Unfortunately, they had already closed.
My goal was to have dinner in the restaurant, then go to the Holiday Inn on the beach, have some drinks in the lounge, and then get a room in the hotel.
But since the restaurant was closed, I went for Plan B and just took her to the Holiday Inn lounge. I was hoping that they were still serving food. Unfortunately they weren't, so we got a couple of drinks and just sat in a corner.
It was a pretty dead evening at the lounge, with the exception of a dozen or so guys drinking together.
So we drink and start making out. She was hesitant at first because we were basically giving all the guys a free show. But I just kept at it, and she started getting into it - and get into it she did. It took my by surprise how ferocious her kissing and fondling was - I actually thought she was going to cut my lip with how hard she bites. Heck, it still hurts a little this morning!
Now, keep in mind that most of our communication was nonverbal, or at least done with careful usage of words. So while we did have conversation, the whole situation relied more on the tone of voice than the actual words used.
At any rate we kept this up for a half an hour or so, and both of us were getting pretty turned on. I suggested to her that we go get some privacy in a hotel room. At least that's what I think I suggested - it was pretty difficult to communicate.
She asks me if I don't want to eat first. I wasn't that hungry, but I think she was, so we went looking for a restaurant. Back in the car, we continued making out, and I ate her out through her panties.
Okay, I wanted to get her to a hotel room ASAP, so I drove around looking for a restaurant. I figured Denny's would be perfect - there was a decent motel on the same lot as the restaurant!
On the way there, she starts up with ASD, or whatever its called. Being that we couldn't communicate well, she could only put up very weak ASD, otherwise I would have no idea what she was saying.
She tells me that if it would be better if we wait for sex until the next time. I told her that I'm attracted to her and that I want to sleep with her. And if she wants to have sex, then I want to have sex. And if she doesn't want to have sex, then I don't want to have sex.
Her response was that she wants to have sex, but she's afraid that if she does I won't want to see her again. So I repeated that while I do want to have sex with her, it's not the end of the world. We don't have to if she doesn't feel comfortable. But regardless, I'm not the type of person that would avoid a girl because I slept with her.
So we arrive and we're walking towards the restaurant, and then through the window I spy the waitress. OMG, I had totally forgotten that I had just # closed her before I left for Dallas, and she was a good prospect.
I stop the chick as we're about the enter, and tell her that I just remembered a much better restaurant, and take her by the hand back to my car - that was a close one!
We go to TGIF instead, and she sits very close to me. While we're waiting for the food we play with each other. Again, she was reluctant at first because it was pretty packed. But after a few minutes I was fingering her and she giving me a handjob. Actually towards the end she was about to give me a ******* right there in our booth, but that's where my exhibitionist streak ran out.
Back in the car, I just drive to a hotel and get us a room. The fact that we couldn't communicate well verbally was perhaps my greatest blessing. One of my problems is that I tend to look for verbal okays from girls when it comes to sex. Knowing that I couldn't get the okays from her forced me to assume acceptance, which is how I should be behaving with ALL girls!
So we get in the room. She prepares the shower and we undress and get in the shower together. Hey, this is my first time nude in a shower with a girl - cool!
We make out some more in there, and she gives me a bj and I eat her out. Oh my, she's shaved - even better!
Fifteen minutes later we're in bed and the fun rolls on. I eat her out some more. Damn, she tastes very good. I always figured that I would like eating chicks out, but I think I actually enjoying that even more than getting a bj!
From there she reciprocates and gives me a bj. She does it for a few minutes and once I'm nice and hard she slips on my condom and gets on top of me.
Now here's where the **** happens.
Let's see, after the Tantra workshop I definitely improved in my ability to be more sexual with women... but there was still something missing.
It was during this following post that I realized my then (and sometimes now) weakness, and how it took a language barrier to really overcome that weakness...
Originally posted 7/1/03
Hi guys,
I've had an epiphany a few days ago - I've figured out why I have no trouble attracting and picking up chicks, but can never get laid.
The answer is - all this time, my intention was to TRY to get laid. I would basically interact with the girl and TRY to get laid. So while for the past few months I would go out thinking that my goal was to get laid, it really never was. It was simply to try. The honest truth is that I never had the intention of getting laid, just to try.
This hit me Saturday, while I was in Dallas. When that happened I decided that my intention would BE to get laid, not to TRY to get laid. WOW is all I can say - the difference was huge!
I didn't end up getting laid in Dallas, but I almost did. The first time didn't go through because I was waiting for too many verbal okays from the chick, and at least one other time because of logistics.
But the difference in my internal game was huge - I finally knew where the hell I was going, and everything just fell into place.
Actually, if I get a chance I'll have to write up the FR on Dallas. In one situation I was sarging a married chick, and point-blank propositioned for her to sleep with me, and her husband walks up behind me and overhears. She was sure he was going to clock me - little did she know that he would actually be giving me advice on how to seduce his wife. She loved the way I handled the situation!
Anyway, back to this FR. Let's flashback two weeks ago...
I was in a restaurant eating and doing some work on my laptop. I was there for a bit of time, and one of the employees and I were giving each other the eye.
Finally I told her hi, and she said something to me in Spanish which I did not understand. She then told me in broken English that I am a handsome man.
I thanked her and told her that she's making me blush (at least that's what I think I told her - my Spanish sucks).
There were a couple of old ladies in the restaurant and I had them translate between us. They and the chick were saying some stuff, but I had no clue what that may be. However, from the type of giggle of a little boy sitting with the ladies, I figured that it would probably have made be blush.
Anyway, as I was leaving the restaurant I see her checking the guys restroom to make sure it was stocked. So I go inside and make out with her. Nothing heavy since the restroom did not have a lock - but I think it definitely took her by surprise. I don't think she expected me to be that bold.
I gave her my number and told her to give me a call so we can get together.
She called me the next day, and for the next two weeks we tried to get together, but there always seemed to be one complication or another. To be honest, if she had given me her number, I would have given up on contacting her a long time ago.
But she was persistent, and must have called me a dozen times during those two weeks.
Finally yesterday we got together.
I picked her up at 8:30. One thing I've got to say about the girl - she knows how to dress. Very sexy yet classy outfit.
So I take her to the pier, which is about ten minutes away. We walk by the water and we make out slightly. She felt a bit uncomfortable at first because there were people walking by, but she slowly started to lose her inhibitions.
There's a nice restaurant right on the pier, which was my destination. Unfortunately, they had already closed.
My goal was to have dinner in the restaurant, then go to the Holiday Inn on the beach, have some drinks in the lounge, and then get a room in the hotel.
But since the restaurant was closed, I went for Plan B and just took her to the Holiday Inn lounge. I was hoping that they were still serving food. Unfortunately they weren't, so we got a couple of drinks and just sat in a corner.
It was a pretty dead evening at the lounge, with the exception of a dozen or so guys drinking together.
So we drink and start making out. She was hesitant at first because we were basically giving all the guys a free show. But I just kept at it, and she started getting into it - and get into it she did. It took my by surprise how ferocious her kissing and fondling was - I actually thought she was going to cut my lip with how hard she bites. Heck, it still hurts a little this morning!
Now, keep in mind that most of our communication was nonverbal, or at least done with careful usage of words. So while we did have conversation, the whole situation relied more on the tone of voice than the actual words used.
At any rate we kept this up for a half an hour or so, and both of us were getting pretty turned on. I suggested to her that we go get some privacy in a hotel room. At least that's what I think I suggested - it was pretty difficult to communicate.
She asks me if I don't want to eat first. I wasn't that hungry, but I think she was, so we went looking for a restaurant. Back in the car, we continued making out, and I ate her out through her panties.
Okay, I wanted to get her to a hotel room ASAP, so I drove around looking for a restaurant. I figured Denny's would be perfect - there was a decent motel on the same lot as the restaurant!
On the way there, she starts up with ASD, or whatever its called. Being that we couldn't communicate well, she could only put up very weak ASD, otherwise I would have no idea what she was saying.
She tells me that if it would be better if we wait for sex until the next time. I told her that I'm attracted to her and that I want to sleep with her. And if she wants to have sex, then I want to have sex. And if she doesn't want to have sex, then I don't want to have sex.
Her response was that she wants to have sex, but she's afraid that if she does I won't want to see her again. So I repeated that while I do want to have sex with her, it's not the end of the world. We don't have to if she doesn't feel comfortable. But regardless, I'm not the type of person that would avoid a girl because I slept with her.
So we arrive and we're walking towards the restaurant, and then through the window I spy the waitress. OMG, I had totally forgotten that I had just # closed her before I left for Dallas, and she was a good prospect.
I stop the chick as we're about the enter, and tell her that I just remembered a much better restaurant, and take her by the hand back to my car - that was a close one!
We go to TGIF instead, and she sits very close to me. While we're waiting for the food we play with each other. Again, she was reluctant at first because it was pretty packed. But after a few minutes I was fingering her and she giving me a handjob. Actually towards the end she was about to give me a ******* right there in our booth, but that's where my exhibitionist streak ran out.
Back in the car, I just drive to a hotel and get us a room. The fact that we couldn't communicate well verbally was perhaps my greatest blessing. One of my problems is that I tend to look for verbal okays from girls when it comes to sex. Knowing that I couldn't get the okays from her forced me to assume acceptance, which is how I should be behaving with ALL girls!
So we get in the room. She prepares the shower and we undress and get in the shower together. Hey, this is my first time nude in a shower with a girl - cool!
We make out some more in there, and she gives me a bj and I eat her out. Oh my, she's shaved - even better!
Fifteen minutes later we're in bed and the fun rolls on. I eat her out some more. Damn, she tastes very good. I always figured that I would like eating chicks out, but I think I actually enjoying that even more than getting a bj!
From there she reciprocates and gives me a bj. She does it for a few minutes and once I'm nice and hard she slips on my condom and gets on top of me.
Now here's where the **** happens.
