The Exile
Don Juan
I've been on this site and reading these forums for awhile now, and learned quite abit from it. However, there seems to be one problem. While I'm not a chump nor AFC, I'm not a pickup machine either.
My friends are all likewise. Now, before I get bombarded with "feel confident about yourself, just go out and ask her." kinda stuff, here's the picture:
I'm about 1.69 m, 110 pound. Started doing weight training for about a month now, with 'some' results. Since I killed my eyes in my earlier life over video games, I'm walking around with glasses.
This one girl adaquently put me as: "looking naturally like a nerd." And i guess my looks just earn me titles like "sissy boy" and the such.
Of course, on the days when I spike my hair, leather jacket and jean it, I do better, but once the clothing goes, I'm back to being labelled the "siss" and "weakling."
The fact that I'm asian dosen't seem to help much either, as a scrawny asian dude walking around with glasses seems to attract that sort of attention. I do walk with confidence though, and although don't usually approach chicks, have no problem talking to them. Well, maybe save the really hot white ones. (and even then, we dont' have problem talking, just clicking)
Does anyone have some suggestions how to jump out of this cycle?
My friends are all likewise. Now, before I get bombarded with "feel confident about yourself, just go out and ask her." kinda stuff, here's the picture:
I'm about 1.69 m, 110 pound. Started doing weight training for about a month now, with 'some' results. Since I killed my eyes in my earlier life over video games, I'm walking around with glasses.
This one girl adaquently put me as: "looking naturally like a nerd." And i guess my looks just earn me titles like "sissy boy" and the such.
Of course, on the days when I spike my hair, leather jacket and jean it, I do better, but once the clothing goes, I'm back to being labelled the "siss" and "weakling."
The fact that I'm asian dosen't seem to help much either, as a scrawny asian dude walking around with glasses seems to attract that sort of attention. I do walk with confidence though, and although don't usually approach chicks, have no problem talking to them. Well, maybe save the really hot white ones. (and even then, we dont' have problem talking, just clicking)
Does anyone have some suggestions how to jump out of this cycle?